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stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:00 PM
i am pretty frustrated.
my ex keeps calling me and bugging me. he is only supposed to call me and discuss the children. he is blowing my phone amd my kids phones up.
i can block his number from their cellphones, not mine...
we have been apart for three freaking years!!!!!!
in august the restraining order i had on him expired. so now he thinks he has free reign to call me at work and call whenever.......he calls my kids to ask what i am doing not talk to them. its screwed up!!!!!

i called the police, they said there is nothing i can do unless he threatens me physically. i called att they said to change my number. i have changed my number a lot the past year because of him.
i even filed a report with the FCC for phone harrassment.

this is stressing me the hell out so bad!!!

anyone know what i can do?

he is seriously freakin creepy!!!

sorry for venting.but i know some where there is a loophole, maybey some one knows something i dont....

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:01 PM
yes i know i spelled that wrong!!!!!

On_Her_Face
12-19-2008, 06:02 PM
Turn off your phone.

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:05 PM
i have it on silent a lot..i do get calls and messages from other people. i turn it off at night..and i turn it on and then it goes crazy from getting all the messages he sends...

TheGodfather
12-19-2008, 06:16 PM
Why can't you block numbers?

And if it's that serious, change your number.

tdurr
12-19-2008, 06:20 PM
put his # on 4chan.

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:22 PM
i probably will end up changing my number.
moving an hour and a half helped.

i have some friends that offered to "help" me. but thats just going to come back to bite me in the ass

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:22 PM
put his # on 4chan.


i should

Elbow
12-19-2008, 06:24 PM
That's fucked up. I hate crazy guys.

Juggernaut
12-19-2008, 06:24 PM
i have some friends that offered to "help" me. but thats just going to come back to bite me in the assYour freinds are full of shit, they were just saying that to get into your pants.:lmfao:

On_Her_Face
12-19-2008, 06:27 PM
Your freinds are full of shit, they were just saying that to get into your pants.:lmfao:

x2

btw do you need help?

Elbow
12-19-2008, 06:32 PM
x2

btw do you need help?

:lmfao:

This is a serious matter people :ninja:

BTW if you need someone to come hang out with you for a few days, I am free.

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:32 PM
Your freinds are full of shit, they were just saying that to get into your pants.:lmfao:

one of the reasons i declined.

i am not scared of him anymore. he threatened to be at my house one day and said he would be "waiting there when i got home"
well, guess what.......... 5:40, i come rollin down the road........nothing.

i am going to call for legal help monday. i tried to see if there was a feature to block his number and there isnt. only if i have parental limits for 5 bucks a month.

Elbow
12-19-2008, 06:34 PM
one of the reasons i declined.

i am not scared of him anymore. he threatened to be at my house one day and said he would be "waiting there when i got home"
well, guess what.......... 5:40, i come rollin down the road........nothing.

i am going to call for legal help monday. i tried to see if there was a feature to block his number and there isnt. only if i have parental limits for 5 bucks a month.

Really, contact a lawyer, there is no way NOTHING can be done for all this. Especially saying he will be at your house and such.

Catnip
12-19-2008, 06:37 PM
start posting his number on the forums you're on... lol

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:38 PM
I have told you steph, you need to do something about this. Seriously. The guy is psychotic... But I won't say anything on here... check your phone.

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:39 PM
start posting his number on the forums you're on... lol

He lives down by you in warner robins and works at a dealership there.

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:40 PM
if i want to file another protective order. which is what it is looking like.....
i have to file paperwork in Houston County, where he lives. Go in front of a judge to do a temp order, the a week later go again in court with my ex to make a year long order.

he lives about an hour and a half away. (Warner Robins)

so.....i have kids to take care of and a job to go to....and i have to take two days off work to do this shit.
and btw.......he rarely pays child support. (what a surprise)

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:42 PM
:ninja:
I have told you steph, you need to do something about this. Seriously. The guy is psychotic... But I won't say anything on here... check your phone.


okay "ninja"


this is why i started going to the firing range again....that and i live in clayton county

Catnip
12-19-2008, 06:43 PM
BWAHAHAHA. what does he drive? his name? number? PM me if you'd like... LOL

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:44 PM
:ninja:


okay "ninja"


this is why i started going to the firing range again....that and i live in clayton county

You+ a gun= scary business... lol

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:45 PM
BWAHAHAHA. what does he drive? his name? number? PM me if you'd like... LOL


lol. :goodjob:

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:46 PM
he is an alcoholic car salesman......drives a blue 1998 honda CRV....(FAIL)
is around the centerville, warner robins area.

seriously..i dont want this coming back on me. i actually would love to go down there and handle it myself......will some one bail me out of jail?

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:47 PM
I'll ride down there with ya so I can drive the fit. lol

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:48 PM
You+ a gun= scary business... lol


hey....i watched the video on gun safety!!!!!!
ill let you know when im going next week to the range. it is a great stress reliever.

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:49 PM
hey....i watched the video on gun safety!!!!!!
ill let you know when im going next week to the range. it is a great stress reliever.

Alright, sounds good. As long as I don't get wounded I'm game.

Catnip
12-19-2008, 06:50 PM
he is an alcoholic car salesman......drives a blue 1998 honda CRV....(FAIL)
is around the centerville, warner robins area.

seriously..i dont want this coming back on me. i actually would love to go down there and handle it myself......will some one bail me out of jail?

Fail. Let me let all the air out of his tires or something... prescott suzuki?

lulz

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:51 PM
Alright, sounds good. As long as I don't get wounded I'm game.

you will have to have your ID and watch the video....you gonna shoot any?

Elbow
12-19-2008, 06:52 PM
DO NOT handle it yourself, it will only come back on you for sure. Don't put danger to you and your kids for some drunk ass piece of shit.

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:53 PM
you will have to have your ID and watch the video....you gonna shoot any?

Yeah, I'll probably shoot some with ya.

K20Z1
12-19-2008, 06:56 PM
just dont pick up...press END wen u see his number

stephanie
12-19-2008, 06:56 PM
hint on where he works......what do i drive?


there is a member on here who used to work with him. i had a discussion with him about some shit that went down...was interesting. he got in trouble at his old job for sexual harrasment. hmmmmmm




he must be off work today.

lolz at his last message..........

Motivation
12-19-2008, 06:57 PM
just dont pick up...press END wen u see his number

Then he starts calling her work...

Elbow
12-19-2008, 06:58 PM
When he calls, answer and hang up, that pisses people off a lot more then just clicking ignore.

stephanie
12-19-2008, 07:01 PM
just dont pick up...press END wen u see his number
i get to listen to my awesome ringtone though........
thugnificent "stomp em in da nuts"

i do use ignore....i also am getting a shit ton of gay ass text messages from him.

he says he wants his family back...

i interpret that as " i hate paying child support"

i have to help my son set up his xbox live in a min....he is bugging me. and i think im gonna ride out to stockbridge for a min....

Julio
12-19-2008, 07:02 PM
invite him over.. pretend you want him in bed again..

And lorena bobbit..

stephanie
12-19-2008, 07:04 PM
Then he starts calling her work...


i am forwarding the messages

Catnip
12-19-2008, 07:09 PM
invite him over.. pretend you want him in bed again..

And lorena bobbit..


Julio delivers.

K20Z1
12-19-2008, 08:23 PM
on my phone there's a certain program called "black list" .... its like a block number thing lol.. but if he calls ur work then idk

Apollo
12-19-2008, 08:53 PM
yeah post his number on here and a bunch of us can call him

LS2ner
12-19-2008, 09:28 PM
Him calling you that much is a form of harassment. Simple tell him to quit calling you, and use the recording feature on your phone to record the call. Then file a restraining order and use the convo as proof and show them the amount of times he is calling you. Explain that you have told him to quit calling you and he wont. That should be enough to get it.

LS2ner
12-19-2008, 09:28 PM
Oh and if he isnt paying child support then he can be put in jail.

Kasper
12-19-2008, 09:39 PM
steph!! put his ass in jail for being a deadbeat dad!! thats what id do.. well i cant really tell ya what id do in case it gets done! BUT yeah defnitly what he said.. pick up, record conversation, then use it as proof in restraining order!! and if that doesnt work just tell him your moveing outa town! somewhere on the beach in the daytona area i hear is nice this time of year.. hint hint!

SiRed94
12-19-2008, 10:32 PM
Well, you're going to need a very large cliff with a rocky terrain beneath....

turbodawg
12-19-2008, 11:49 PM
I know folks if he works at the Honda place in WR...

Leadfoot_mf
12-20-2008, 01:07 AM
lol great choice to have kids with. good job.

stephanie
12-20-2008, 03:07 PM
lol great choice to have kids with. good job.

know what...........FUCK YOU!!!!!
ill say that right to your face too

the first few years of our marriage were decent,people change. things worked great for years. when the drinking and the cheating started to happen........i bailed.

Sammich
12-20-2008, 03:41 PM
put his number on 4chan and ia and change your number, solve all and cure all

Juggernaut
12-20-2008, 03:49 PM
know what...........FUCK YOU!!!!!
ill say that right to your face too

the first few years of our marriage were decent,people change. things worked great for years. when the drinking and the cheating started to happen........i bailed.Good thing you didn't change at all and it's entirely his fault.:lmfao:

ep9716
12-20-2008, 04:11 PM
Obama Will Take Care Of It.

ep9716
12-20-2008, 04:11 PM
Obama Will Take Care Of It.

MrBoostedCRX
12-20-2008, 04:48 PM
LOL hahaha like cgevan said...put his number on here and we'll prank call him 24/7

You_Wish
12-20-2008, 04:54 PM
ill beat sum ass....

OrangeDc2
12-20-2008, 04:56 PM
I could send him 50000 Text messages at once.

stephanie
12-20-2008, 06:32 PM
he quit or got fired from his job at the honda dealership some time in the last few weeks.

yes ..i have changed over the past few years. A LOT.
Hitting a woman is never okay either btw. Thats reason enough.

I went from, having zero financial responsibility, to having a lot of financial stability.

Juggernaut
12-20-2008, 08:05 PM
Hitting a woman is never okay either btw.Apparently you didn't listen the first time.:lmfao:


Ok that was over the line and I'm sorry.:(
Hope everything works out for you, problem is you are too nice. If he ain't maning up and paying, send his ass to jail. No warnings. If he keeps calling, send his ass to jail. No warnings. You need a good lawyer, and by good lawyer I don't mean a lawyer you see on TV. I mean a lawyer that's so mean you don't like sitting in the same room with him. Pricks make the best lawyers (yes I'm considering a career change:tongue1: ).

stephanie
12-30-2008, 06:42 PM
478 787 3266 he is fucking with me bad today...it is my birthday this weekend