Do you and your family/friends say "I LOVE YOU" to each other?

[Kevykev]

Well My Family, RARELY until recently when I started talking about it

We're South American, so the family values are STRONG (no cursing out parents or disobeying rules lol). The love is Strong as well but more of an implication, we just never made a big deal about saying "I love you" to one another.

On the other hand, my wife's family say it all the time but they say it SOOOO much that it seems routine. They definitely without a doubt love each other but they say it so often that it doesn't sound heartfelt.

I started telling my close friends the same too, not all that often but it's good to let them know I guess. Kinda say it in a joking around manner but you know, it be da way we be feelinz.

Anybody feel me on this? (not literally you faggts :D ) :cheers:

[yerrow]

i love you

[willum14pb]

i find this funny that he sends me a pm professing his love to me, then makes his thread. lololol. fag.

[BKgen®]

i love you

[Kevykev]

HAHAHAHAHAAAA love the way no one answered the question.

Preshate the LOVE though guys, The love is STROWNG and Mutual Here!

[BKgen®]

on a serious note, I tell sammich's mom i love her every day.

[Sammich]

on a serious note, I tell sammich's mom i love her every day.

*looks at location*

personally...i dont tell your mom i love her..i just show her

kev...are u like..brazilian too? or are u just a bitch

[Kevykev]

*looks at location*

personally...i dont tell your mom i love her..i just show her

kev...are u like..brazilian too? or are u just a bitch

Guyana, above Brazil.

Damn, Morning whores can always derail a For Real Thread, Dammn!



:no:

[Evolunchbox]

I come from a strong Italian family where it has been ironed into my brain that no matter what family is first. I don't care where I'm at or whom I'm with, I'll never hesitate to tell a family member that I love them. You never know if it will be the last time.

[Sammich]

Guyana, above Brazil.

Damn, Morning whores can always derail a For Real Thread, Dammn!



:no:

would it help to say i love you?

http://i476.photobucket.com/albums/rr130/andrea83_2008/Barney/provisional040.jpg

[willum14pb]

I come from a strong Italian family where it has been ironed into my brain that no matter what family is first. I don't care where I'm at or whom I'm with, I'll never hesitate to tell a family member that I love them. You never know if it will be the last time.

:cheers:

[BKgen®]

Guyana, above Brazil.

Damn, Morning whores can always derail a For Real Thread, Dammn!



:no:

:D

[stephanie]

I understand what you mean. My parents were never like that . Not affectionate at all. Sometimes I come off as being cold towards people.
There are a few close friends I have and people I care for a lot.....and I make it a point to tell them a appreciate them and love them.

[Red_Phoenix]

My parents are not affectionate either but me and my lil bro are pretty close and we do say it every once in a while but we dont' over use it so it loses its meaning

[Ed]

I didn't know you were a fellow south american. :cheers:

A lot of folks from brasil do it too, our family we just kinda know. We don't say it to each other, if we do, we are all weirded out by it. It's just weird.

[Friggintitsman]

I love lamp

[Sammich]

i love ur mom ed, i didnt tell her last night cuz i forgot on my rush back home

[t3ggr]

Ed tells me he loves me with a nice slap on the ass.

[BKgen®]

I love lamp

Do you really love the lamp or are you just saying that 'cause you saw it?

[Friggintitsman]

Do you really love the lamp or are you just saying that 'cause you saw it?

I... l-love..... lamp

[Ed]

i love ur mom ed, i didnt tell her last night cuz i forgot on my rush back home

at least she tells someone.


Ed tells me he loves me with a nice slap on the ass.

:lmfao:

[Sammich]

Ed tells me he loves me with a nice slap on the ass.

i'm definitely gona start doing this

reps to tig ol bitties

[Friggintitsman]

Ed tells me he loves me with a nice slap on the ass.

No that's his other girlfriend trying to eliminate the competition.




















If you don't get it right away I'm talking about his hand.

[Ed]

lol @ anchorman. i need to watch it again. thanks for the laughs

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

My family is really big on that too Kev. I'm huge on telling my friends too! I just think everyone deserves to know that they are loved by someone...

Nah mean?

[Friggintitsman]

Does anyone else feel really awkward when their female friends say they love you?

Several of mine tell me that all the time and normally I wouldn't mind, but they sounds sincere about it at times.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Does anyone else feel really awkward when their female friends say they love you?

Several of mine tell me that all the time and normally I wouldn't mind, but they sounds sincere about it at times.

Remember, I love you and I'm in love with you and I wanna fuck you are 3 totally different things!:goodjob:

[Kevykev]

I understand what you mean. My parents were never like that . Not affectionate at all.

100% same way in my household growing up.


My parents are not affectionate either but me and my lil bro are pretty close and we do say it every once in a while but we dont' over use it so it loses its meaning

Over the past 4 years my older sister and i got pretty close. i hear you on the losing of it's meaning deal, that's real life stuff.


I didn't know you were a fellow south american. :cheers:

A lot of folks from brasil do it too, our family we just kinda know. We don't say it to each other, if we do, we are all weirded out by it. It's just weird.

Represent Yo!


My family is really big on that too Kev. I'm huge on telling my friends too! I just think everyone deserves to know that they are loved by someone...

Nah mean?

No Doubt sweetie

[Sammich]

Does anyone else feel really awkward when their female friends say they love you?

Several of mine tell me that all the time and normally I wouldn't mind, but they sounds sincere about it at times.

i do...to the hot ones i be like..damn..why u say that now

to the ugly ones i be like..damn..why u so fucked up:ninja:

[Ran]

I come from a strong Italian family where it has been ironed into my brain that no matter what family is first. I don't care where I'm at or whom I'm with, I'll never hesitate to tell a family member that I love them. You never know if it will be the last time.x2

My family is the same way. :)

[Killer]

Yeah i make it a point to tell friends/family i love them... guy or girl.. i don't care... my best friend is in the marines.. i see him almost never.. so when he calls before i get off the phone.. i let him know "love you brother" i can tell when he's around his friends he'll say it back.. but in a hurry it cracks me up!!

[Sammich]

this thread is really reaching gay proportions really quick

[Killer]

Ed tells me he loves me with a nice slap on the ass.


so do i!

[Killer]

this thread is really reaching gay proportions really quick


aw is someone insecure in his masculinity???

[Shawna]

my mom and I say I love you all the time....my brother and my dad not so much but if we say I love you they will say it back. My bestfriend and I always tell each other that we love each other...her 2 yo son also tells me he loves me when I talk to him on the phone or leave their house

[Ed]

Yeah i make it a point to tell friends/family i love them... guy or girl.. i don't care... my best friend is in the marines.. i see him almost never.. so when he calls before i get off the phone.. i let him know "love you brother" i can tell when he's around his friends he'll say it back.. but in a hurry it cracks me up!!

yeah you do.

you said it to me yesterday. lol i dont care though. it's just not my thing to say it back, i dont say it even to my closest friends or relatives.

[Sammich]

aw is someone insecure in his masculinity???

no, but i'm not on here saying i tell my homie i love him either

ps iloveukillerthedon

[Shawna]

oo i tell sammich i love him all the time too

[Sammich]

oo i tell sammich i love him all the time too

bullshit motherfucker u aint told me that shit in months i hate u so

see u tonight

[Shawna]

I LOVE YOU HOE (SAMMICH)

[Killer]

yeah you do.

you said it to me yesterday. lol i dont care though. it's just not my thing to say it back, i dont say it even to my closest friends or relatives.

ed.. don't lie son...

you say it back nucca!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




no, but i'm not on here saying i tell my homie i love him either

ps iloveukillerthedon

right because you're too insecure and are worried someone will think you're gay...........


pslubyoutooblackie

[Friggintitsman]

Remember, I love you and I'm in love with you and I wanna fuck you are 3 totally different things!:goodjob:

I'm usually a really flirty dude. And I have a shit ton of female friends. Sometimes a few of them really push the boundaries of what could be considered flirting and foreplay.

Example one of my friends, She is French likes to bite/kiss my neck when she sees me. I usually just write is off because she is French.

And why the hell do they have to be so damn flirty when I have a girlfriend? WTF if they want dick so bad they should have hit me up when I was single.

[Crazy Asian]

shawna never says I love you....damn woman. Loves the negro more then the asian

And T3gger I thought ed motorboated your boobs and tehn said I love you? Huh.

[Sammich]

integrahot (10:20:48 AM): ayo ed
YSLBTT (10:23:40 AM): ayo *****
integrahot (10:23:47 AM): yo
integrahot (10:23:51 AM): i said ayo firs
YSLBTT (10:24:12 AM): lol
YSLBTT (10:24:14 AM): what man
integrahot (10:24:19 AM): i love you man
integrahot (10:25:11 AM): well
integrahot (10:25:15 AM): wattugotasay
YSLBTT (10:25:53 AM): you are ghey


I LOVE YOU HOE (SAMMICH)

i will fuck you, in your good ear


right because you're too insecure and are worried someone will think you're gay...........


pslubyoutooblackie

:D :ninja: :idb:

[Killer]

I'm usually a really flirty dude. And I have a shit ton of female friends. Sometimes a few of them really push the boundaries of what could be considered flirting and foreplay.

Example one of my friends, She is French likes to bite/kiss my neck when she sees me. I usually just write is off because she is French.

And why the hell do they have to be so damn flirty when I have a girlfriend? WTF if they want dick so bad they should have hit me up when I was single.

remember your friends on the intrawebs??

[Sammich]

shawna never says I love you....damn woman. Loves the negro more then the asian


thats cuz i got that good dick she loves:lmfao:

[Crazy Asian]

sammich I swear Im a find you on gay man's magazine. You sick black man.

[Sammich]

sammich I swear Im a find you on gay man's magazine. You sick black man.

what u doing looking at fag mags?

[Crazy Asian]

what u doing looking at fag mags?

I know it cuz your mom gave it to me a couple of weeks and said Sammich is gonna be on this magazine any time soon. Im so prooud of him. :D

[Sammich]

and u love looking at male genitalia

PS i will be on playgirl in 2months:ninja:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

I'm usually a really flirty dude. And I have a shit ton of female friends. Sometimes a few of them really push the boundaries of what could be considered flirting and foreplay.

Example one of my friends, She is French likes to bite/kiss my neck when she sees me. I usually just write is off because she is French.

And why the hell do they have to be so damn flirty when I have a girlfriend? WTF if they want dick so bad they should have hit me up when I was single.

Women are complicated. We say one thing and mean something totally different hoping that men will read between the lines... Women should be more understanding that men are simple and never do what we want them to... Life goes on.:cheers:

[Sammich]

Women are complicated. We say one thing and mean something totally different hoping that men will read between the lines... Women should be more understanding that men are simple and never do what we want them to... Life goes on.:cheers:

QFTCDT

YALL WOMEN ARE RIDICULOUS W/ COMMUNICATION

[Vteckidd]

Theres E-love and Love

thats all i can really say

[Sammich]

Theres E-love and Love

thats all i can really say

ALL I WANA SAY TO U IS U BETTER ONLY BE E-ENGAGED TO MUH WOMUNZ TIFF OL BITTIES

[Killer]

Women are complicated. We say one thing and mean something totally different hoping that men will read between the lines... Women should be more understanding that men are simple and never do what we want them to... Life goes on.:cheers:

simple??? lol

More like logical... we're gonna say what we mean and do what we want as opposed to trying to come up with some completely off the wall way to show/say what we wanted to prove.................

if men(in general) are simple...

women(in general) are straight retarded...

[Vteckidd]

ALL I WANA SAY TO U IS U BETTER ONLY BE E-ENGAGED TO MUH WOMUNZ TIFF OL BITTIES
LOL :ninja:

[Friggintitsman]

remember your friends on the intrawebs??

You lost me

[Killer]

You lost me



point the women that you have to turn down to your friends on the internet............

[Vteckidd]

simple??? lol

More like logical... we're gonna say what we mean and do what we want as opposed to trying to come up with some completely off the wall way to show/say what we wanted to prove.................

if men(in general) are simple...

women(in general) are straight retarded...

Ehh it goes both ways, both sexes can be retarded.

I think alot of times guys dont really know what a woman wants, and too often girls like to play games.

If everyone would just communicate and be open an honest it prob would be alot easier.

Thats what makes dating so fun right!? figuring out what you like and dont like LOL

oh the agony

[Shawna]

shawna never says I love you....damn woman. Loves the negro more then the asian

And T3gger I thought ed motorboated your boobs and tehn said I love you? Huh.


i love you stalker :ninja:

[Friggintitsman]

Women are complicated. We say one thing and mean something totally different hoping that men will read between the lines... Women should be more understanding that men are simple and never do what we want them to... Life goes on.:cheers:

I think women just like to play games. That is until they hit 30 and they know what they want. I don't play games though and I'm not into pursuing the ladies, that is why chicks usually lose my interest before we even establish any form of relationship.

[Killer]

Ehh it goes both ways, both sexes can be retarded.

I think alot of times guys dont really know what a woman wants, and too often girls like to play games.

If everyone would just communicate and be open an honest it prob would be alot easier.

Thats what makes dating so fun right!? figuring out what you like and dont like LOL

oh the agony


i agree....

i think it's scientifically proven....... men will never know what women want............ they've done studies you know???

[Friggintitsman]

Ehh it goes both ways, both sexes can be retarded.

I think alot of times guys dont really care what a woman wants, and too often girls like to play games.

If everyone would just communicate and be open an honest it prob would be alot easier.

Thats what makes dating so fun right!? figuring out what you like and dont like LOL

oh the agony

*fixed

Also you need to check out this web site
http://babeswithdouchebags.com/

[Friggintitsman]

i agree....

i think it's scientifically proven....... men will never know what women want............ they've done studies you know???

Women's brains have more nerve that connect the right and left side

Left Brain
Logical
Sequential
Rational
Analytical
Objective
Looks at parts

Right Brain
Random
Intuitive
Holistic
Synthesizing
Subjective
Looks at wholes
Which is a huge reason why women are far more emotional then men. That doesn't make them smarter by any means it just meant that they will always think differently than men.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

QFTCDT

YALL WOMEN ARE RIDICULOUS W/ COMMUNICATION

SOME women communicate pretty well (I am included in this group..)

For example: If I'm getting my groove on in the bedroom and the guy isn't doing it right, or the way I want, I'm gonna tell him, "Stop, you're not doing it right, move a little to the left..." BLAH BLAH BLAH...:blah: Ya know, boost his confidence a little, ha ha!


ALL I WANA SAY TO U IS U BETTER ONLY BE E-ENGAGED TO MUH WOMUNZ TIFF OL BITTIES

:ninja:


simple??? lol

More like logical... we're gonna say what we mean and do what we want as opposed to trying to come up with some completely off the wall way to show/say what we wanted to prove.................

if men(in general) are simple...

women(in general) are straight retarded...

:lmfao: Women are retarded? Men are too.

Do some women play games? Yes. Have I been guilty of this in the past? Yes. But let me tell you - IT'S NOT JUST WOMEN!!!

I have been played so many times, I was at the point where I was like, "FUCK MEN!! FUCK EM ALL!! I'd rather lick pu$$y everyday for the rest of my life than ever deal with another F-ing man..." Then I came to my senses and asked out this super great guy!!!

Moral of the story: Women are too complicated (irrational and emotional). Men are too simple (and stupid). ;)


I think women just like to play games. That is until they hit 30 and they know what they want. I don't play games though and I'm not into pursuing the ladies, that is why chicks usually lose my interest before we even establish any form of relationship.

Games Reference to my response to Killer's post.

30? I'm not 30 and know what I want AND I'm not stopping until I get it. I've been thru lots of guys (this doesn't mean that I've slept with all of them, so don't start with the "you're a whore/slut/cunt/twat/WHATEVER" shit!) and they have all been idiots in some way... I can't help it that they don't meet my expectations... WHATEV... :taun:

[Sammich]

SOME women communicate pretty well (I am included in this group..)

For example: If I'm getting my groove on in the bedroom and the guy isn't doing it right, or the way I want, I'm gonna tell him, "Stop, you're not doing it right, move a little to the left..." BLAH BLAH BLAH...:blah: Ya know, boost his confidence a little, ha ha!


i'd rep u..i so would...but too many reps in teh last 24hrs

[Killer]

:lmfao: Women are retarded? Men are too.

Do some women play games? Yes. Have I been guilty of this in the past? Yes. But let me tell you - IT'S NOT JUST WOMEN!!!

I have been played so many times, I was at the point where I was like, "FUCK MEN!! FUCK EM ALL!! I'd rather lick pu$$y everyday for the rest of my life than ever deal with another F-ing man..." Then I came to my senses and asked out this super great guy!!!

Moral of the story: Women are too complicated (irrational and emotional). Men are too simple (and stupid). ;)


see.. you're still generalizing men as stupid/simple..........

that's the only reason i made the "women are retarded" statement...

i'm just saying.. just because we don't read/play into the games of... "nothing is wrong" meaning "YOU FUCKED UP" doesn't make us simple or stupid.... and that's my only point... we take things at face value..

[Friggintitsman]

Games Reference to my response to Killer's post.

30? I'm not 30 and know what I want AND I'm not stopping until I get it. I've been thru lots of guys (this doesn't mean that I've slept with all of them, so don't start with the "you're a whore/slut/cunt/twat/WHATEVER" shit!) and they have all been idiots in some way... I can't help it that they don't meet my expectations... WHATEV... :taun:

I agree, but I don't think men play games we don't care enough about that stuff. Men are just oblivious on how to do something simple like talk to a woman let alone please her. I have a lot of female friends because it's actually just as easy for me to talk to women than it is men.

IMO men are not mature enough to handle being married until they are 30 (generally) have no idea what they want until they are 30. I will be 29 in April my girlfriend 32 in May. We have no plans for marriage any time soon. I have never been married and she was for 7 years.

I understand your situation because you have a child. You have to choose a mate that will be good for both you and your child. I am extremely protective of my daughter so I knew I could not settle for anyone below my standards.

[Sammich]

see.. you're still generalizing men as stupid/simple..........

that's the only reason i made the "women are retarded" statement...

i'm just saying.. just because we don't read/play into the games of... "nothing is wrong" meaning "YOU FUCKED UP" doesn't make us simple or stupid.... and that's my only point... we take things at face value..

tr00f here i called the wife out on that shit the other day, 'you sit there and say u are fine, and its obvious u lyin, yet you want me to be truthful to you.' women are backwards (at least some/most)

[BKgen®]

cliff notes on thread turn of events?

[Killer]

cliff notes on thread turn of events?


i don't even know.........................

[Sammich]

cliff notes on thread turn of events?

daddy fuckers be like men be st00pid

motherfuckers be like women are retarded as shit

so theres conflict...:ninja:

[Vteckidd]

I have been played so many times, I was at the point where I was like, "FUCK MEN!! FUCK EM ALL!! I'd rather lick pu$$y everyday for the rest of my life than ever deal with another F-ing man..." Then I came to my senses and asked out this super great guy!!!

AHEM

YOU TOLD ME YOU WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH SAMMICH! WHY!!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>> OH NOES>>>?!!!!!!!!??@?@

THE AGONY!>!>!><@>?!<@>!@#MK:LJ#$LK@J$L

/mike

[cactusEG]

Well My Family, RARELY until recently when I started talking about it

We're South American, so the family values are STRONG (no cursing out parents or disobeying rules lol). The love is Strong as well but more of an implication, we just never made a big deal about saying "I love you" to one another.

On the other hand, my wife's family say it all the time but they say it SOOOO much that it seems routine. They definitely without a doubt love each other but they say it so often that it doesn't sound heartfelt.

I started telling my close friends the same too, not all that often but it's good to let them know I guess. Kinda say it in a joking around manner but you know, it be da way we be feelinz.

Anybody feel me on this? (not literally you faggts :D ) :cheers:

In my family we really dont say it as much. but my sister tell me and my brothers us often. IDK I need to start saying it more...

[Sammich]

AHEM

YOU TOLD ME YOU WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH SAMMICH! WHY!!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>> OH NOES>>>?!!!!!!!!??@?@

THE AGONY!>!>!><@>?!<@>!@#MK:LJ#$LK@J$L

/mike

I WILL FUCK UP YOUR CLIENTEL MOTHERFUCKER, TAKE THAT BACK:lmfao:

[Friggintitsman]

cliff notes on thread turn of events?

You of all people need to read.

You may learn something.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

I understand your situation because you have a child. You have to choose a mate that will be good for both you and your child. I am extremely protective of my daughter so I knew I could not settle for anyone below my standards.

Right. I agree. It's tough to find someone that's good for us both. If I like someone and Max doesn't, or he doesn't treat Max like I want him treated - I say PEACE!


see.. you're still generalizing men as stupid/simple..........

that's the only reason i made the "women are retarded" statement...

i'm just saying.. just because we don't read/play into the games of... "nothing is wrong" meaning "YOU FUCKED UP" doesn't make us simple or stupid.... and that's my only point... we take things at face value..

Sorry, I'm guilty of stereotyping... :(

NOT ALL MEN are simple and stupid, just MOST of the ones I've encountered have been. :crazy:

Also, when women say "nothing is wrong" meaning "you've fucked up" - and you realize this, it means that you DO understand that you've done something wrong (even though you may be completely oblivious to the fact that you've done something wrong), BUT when you aren't persistent enough to find out what you've "done wrong" (according to her) then it looks like you don't care or you're just writing it off as her being an irrational, emotional, game playing, and/or retarded woman. Ya feel me? :thinking:

All women want, in a relationship, is for the other person to care (or at least act like they do) and if that means when she gets upset, you have to practically force it out of her, then that's what you should do. ONCE AGAIN, Communication and trust are the keys to every successful relationship... (Sex is just a perk!);)

Edit: Told you we're complicated.:yes:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

AHEM

YOU TOLD ME YOU WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH SAMMICH! WHY!!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>> OH NOES>>>?!!!!!!!!??@?@

THE AGONY!>!>!><@>?!<@>!@#MK:LJ#$LK@J$L

/mike

:ninja:

[Sammich]

Also, when women say "nothing is wrong" meaning "you've fucked up" - and you realize this, it means that you DO understand that you've done something wrong (even though you may be completely oblivious to the fact that you've done something wrong), BUT when you aren't persistent enough to find out what you've "done wrong" (according to her) then it looks like you don't care or you're just writing it off as her being an irrational, emotional, game playing, and/or retarded woman. Ya feel me? :thinking:

All women want, in a relationship, is for the other person to care (or at least act like they do) and if that means when she gets upset, you have to practically force it out of her, then that's what you should do. ONCE AGAIN, Communication and trust are the keys to every successful relationship... (Sex is just a perk!);)

Edit: Told you we're complicated.:yes:

SO ARE YOU TELLING ME, THAT IF I SIT THERE FOR 30MINS ASKING HER TO SPEAK THE FUCK UP AND THEN JUST GIVE UP I WASNT PERSISTENT ENOUGH TO GET IT OUT OFHER?..THATS THAT BS...CUZ BY THEN IM ALREADY FED UP

[Vteckidd]

Im so taking notes

[Red_Phoenix]

SO ARE YOU TELLING ME, THAT IF I SIT THERE FOR 30MINS ASKING HER TO SPEAK THE FUCK UP AND THEN JUST GIVE UP I WASNT PERSISTENT ENOUGH TO GET IT OUT OFHER?..THATS THAT BS...CUZ BY THEN IM ALREADY FED UP

Yeah you do. It shows how man you are are that you care. You work on your car for 30 min trying to figure out whats wrong. We want the same:goodjob:

[VooDooXII]

Occasionally. I don't say it every time I say bye to my mom or dad...but you know.

One of my cousins says it to me which sort of throws me off because I'm not expecting it. She's like sixteen. I'm really close with my cousins/extended family...just sayin'. I guess a lot of foreign families are like that.

[Sammich]

Yeah you do. It shows how man you are are that you care. You work on your car for 30 min trying to figure out whats wrong. We want the same:goodjob:

MY CAR CAN GET FIXED IN 30MINS, BUT THE WOMAN WONT SPEAK THE FUCK UP IN THOSE 30MINS, THEYLL BE LIKE "NOTHING"

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

SO ARE YOU TELLING ME, THAT IF I SIT THERE FOR 30MINS ASKING HER TO SPEAK THE FUCK UP AND THEN JUST GIVE UP I WASNT PERSISTENT ENOUGH TO GET IT OUT OFHER?..THATS THAT BS...CUZ BY THEN IM ALREADY FED UP

No, ask her - if she doesn't tell you then, give it a few, then ask her again... Women are rational in the sense that we don't want to speak when we're upset for fear of hurting your feelings... Ya know?

Ex: When I'm mad at someone I will straight tell them, to their face, that I hope they die a slow painful death... I don't want to ever say that to someone that I truly care for, ya know? So we just sit there quietly or tell you to "fuck off" or something until we've cooled down and then we talk it out. Although, usually, when it's time to talk it out, the guy has already forgotten (or plays like he has) and then doesn't want to listen. Plus, no one likes being critiqued (especially men) therefore they will do anything and everything to get out of trouble. :yes:

Note: Sammich, if you tell any woman to "speak the fuck up" when she's already mad, that's grounds for her to murder you with words.. I highly recommend NOT doing that!

[Friggintitsman]

Right. I agree. It's tough to find someone that's good for us both. If I like someone and Max doesn't, or he doesn't treat Max like I want him treated - I say PEACE!



Sorry, I'm guilty of stereotyping... :(

NOT ALL MEN are simple and stupid, just MOST of the ones I've encountered have been. :crazy:

Also, when women say "nothing is wrong" meaning "you've fucked up" - and you realize this, it means that you DO understand that you've done something wrong (even though you may be completely oblivious to the fact that you've done something wrong), BUT when you aren't persistent enough to find out what you've "done wrong" (according to her) then it looks like you don't care or you're just writing it off as her being an irrational, emotional, game playing, and/or retarded woman. Ya feel me? :thinking:

All women want, in a relationship, is for the other person to care (or at least act like they do) and if that means when she gets upset, you have to practically force it out of her, then that's what you should do. ONCE AGAIN, Communication and trust are the keys to every successful relationship... (Sex is just a perk!);)

Edit: Told you we're complicated.:yes:

Men should not have to try to guess what is wrong. If I ask one time and she gives me that "nothing" shit. I either don't ask again, try to cheer her up, or just flat out say "come out with it". Screw forcing it out her, if she can't flat out tell you then it's not worth bothering about.

(Sex is just a perk!);)
lol not in my relationship. Sex is a daily activity, but of course my girl is a total nympho. This is one reason why I don't have to ask what is wrong. I know that if we haven't banged in over 24hrs there's the problem right there. Sex IMO is 50% of a relationship. If you are with someone and sex is awful then it translate into the rest of the relationship, because you are sexually frustrated. If you are with someone that is great in bed but doesn't stimulate you in any other way well then you have a prolem there too.

[Friggintitsman]

Im so taking notes

PM the cliff to GKtib

[Sammich]

No, ask her - if she doesn't tell you then, give it a few, then ask her again... Women are rational in the sense that we don't want to speak when we're upset for fear of hurting your feelings... Ya know?


RATIONAL IN THAT SENSE..MAYBE I CAN UNDERSTAND NOT SPEAKING WHEN UPSET...BUT ALL THE TIME?


Ex: When I'm mad at someone I will straight tell them, to their face, that I hope they die a slow painful death... I don't want to ever say that to someone that I truly care for, ya know? So we just sit there quietly or tell you to "fuck off" or something until we've cooled down and then we talk it out. Although, usually, when it's time to talk it out, the guy has already forgotten (or plays like he has) and then doesn't want to listen. Plus, no one likes being critiqued (especially men) therefore they will do anything and everything to get out of trouble. :yes:

I RESENT THAT..I DNT MIND BEING CRITIQUED, I ASK TO BE CRITIQUED, BUT THERES ALSO A WAY TO CRITIQUE TO PISS SOMEONE OFF


Note: Sammich, if you tell any woman to "speak the fuck up" when she's already mad, that's grounds for her to murder you with words.. I highly recommend NOT doing that!

LOL I DIDNT SAY THOSE EXACT WORDS BELIEVE ME, I DO MY ABSOLUTE BEST NOT TO CURSE, CASE IN POINT, I WALK AWAY:goodjob:

[Vteckidd]

In all seriousness, not every relationship is meant to last, not everyone is meant to be together.

There are so many factors going on in terms of personal goals, career, outlook on life, commitment, etc.

Its hard for the "stars to align" perfectly that you can truly sit there and say you can spend the rest of your life with the other person. Thats why in most cases it only happens ONCE.

Men and Women are both complicated. some of us more than others. I dont think anyone under the age of 25 REALLY knows what they want. Most people arent mature enough to know, or just dont care. Dating is dating, it can be fun, and it can lead to that special person.

but it may also just give you insight into what you REALLY like and dislike. I mean it shapes you to be the person you should be when you do finally get married. It helps you choose the mate that best suits you, IMO.

Can women be totally whack, yes, and so can men. Ive been on both sides of the coin. We all have our demons, we all have our issues.

ALot of times its about RESTRAINT and talking things out. not flying offthe handle and making a bigger issue out of something that doesnt need to be an argument.

But i like to think eventually we find that other person that brings out the best in ourselves.

/Dr. Phil

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Men should not have to try to guess what is wrong. If I ask one time and she gives me that "nothing" shit. I either don't ask again, try to cheer her up, or just flat out say "come out with it". Screw forcing it out her, if she can't flat out tell you then it's not worth bothering about.

(Sex is just a perk!);)
lol not in my relationship. Sex is a daily activity, but of course my girl is a total nympho. This is one reason why I don't have to ask what is wrong. I know that if we haven't banged in over 24hrs there's the problem right there. Sex IMO is 50% of a relationship. If you are with someone and sex is awful then it translate into the rest of the relationship, because you are sexually frustrated. If you are with someone that is great in bed but doesn't stimulate you in any other way well then you have a prolem there too.

1st Part: Women translate that into: He doesn't care, why am I with him? He's such a loser and an idiot........ BUT the sex is great - Make-up sex.. that's what we should do.. I'll just attack him and rip his shirt and pants off with my teeth and... (sorry, I had this visual in my head and was playing on that... :lmfao: )

2nd Part: Oh I feel ya, I totally am a nymph too, don't get me wrong, but I can make myself just as happy with a toy as I can with a man/woman/dick/tongue/whatever!!!:yes:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Men and Women are both complicated. some of us more than others. I dont think anyone under the age of 25 REALLY knows what they want. Most people arent mature enough to know, or just dont care. Dating is dating, it can be fun, and it can lead to that special person.


:eek: I'm taking notes now!!!


Dr. Phil :lmao:

[Sammich]

In all seriousness, not every relationship is meant to last, not everyone is meant to be together.

There are so many factors going on in terms of personal goals, career, outlook on life, commitment, etc.

Its hard for the "stars to align" perfectly that you can truly sit there and say you can spend the rest of your life with the other person. Thats why in most cases it only happens ONCE.

Men and Women are both complicated. some of us more than others. I dont think anyone under the age of 25 REALLY knows what they want. Most people arent mature enough to know, or just dont care. Dating is dating, it can be fun, and it can lead to that special person.

but it may also just give you insight into what you REALLY like and dislike. I mean it shapes you to be the person you should be when you do finally get married. It helps you choose the mate that best suits you, IMO.

Can women be totally whack, yes, and so can men. Ive been on both sides of the coin. We all have our demons, we all have our issues.

ALot of times its about RESTRAINT and talking things out. not flying offthe handle and making a bigger issue out of something that doesnt need to be an argument.

But i like to think eventually we find that other person that brings out the best in ourselves.

/Dr. Phil

MATURITY IS A HUGE MOTHERFREAKING FACTOR FO SERIOUS

I'M NOT MATURE BY FAR, BUT I'M MATURE TO THE POINT OF WHEN I AT LEAST KNOW WHEN THINGS GO DOWN TO TALK ABOUT IT SENSIBLY

[Motivation]

1st Part: Women translate that into: He doesn't care, why am I with him? He's such a loser and an idiot........ BUT the sex is great - Make-up sex.. that's what we should do.. I'll just attack him and rip his shirt and pants off with my teeth and... (sorry, I had this visual in my head and was playing on that... :lmfao: )

2nd Part: Oh I feel ya, I totally am a nymph too, don't get me wrong, but I can make myself just as happy with a toy as I can with a man/woman/dick/tongue/whatever!!!:yes:


lol, sounds like you need a cold shower now. :lmfao:

[Vteckidd]

:eek: I'm taking notes now!!!


Dr. Phil :lmao:
i said MOST, not ALL :D

What i mean is how many people at the age of 18-25 have had enough ADULT experience with the other sex to KNOW WHAT THEY WANT?

VERY FEW.

I just dont believe in getting married unless its 1000% perfect for both sides. I see too many people rush to getting married at 18,19,20,21 etc and they end up being miserable, or they just dont know the other person well enough.

Id rather get to know someone, and really be into them before i jump into a relationship.

but then this girl comes along and totally fucks all that rational thinking up LOL

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

lol, sounds like you need a cold shower now. :lmfao:

:lmfao: Damn it!! Gotta change my pants.. LMAO!:lmfao:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

i said MOST, not ALL :D


mmmmm.. hmmmm... You just wait til 4 O'Clock! JUST WAIT!:D

Edit: It just turned from "bad boy" to "dirty boy" LMAO!:lmfao:

[Got Milk?]

I tell my mom i love u all the time.

[Motivation]

:lmfao: Damn it!! Gotta change my pants.. LMAO!:lmfao:

:lmao:

[MistaCee]

Yes. You never know when you'll lose them or they lose you so its good to let them know.

[Friggintitsman]

1st Part: Women translate that into: He doesn't care, why am I with him? He's such a loser and an idiot........ BUT the sex is great - Make-up sex.. that's what we should do.. I'll just attack him and rip his shirt and pants off with my teeth and... (sorry, I had this visual in my head and was playing on that... :lmfao: )

2nd Part: Oh I feel ya, I totally am a nymph too, don't get me wrong, but I can make myself just as happy with a toy as I can with a man/woman/dick/tongue/whatever!!!:yes:

LMAO Women get all the good toys, you have men, women, fingers, tongue, fruit, nipple clamps, stirrups, rubber fists, er eh... whatever. Sorry got carried away. Guys we don't get any of the fun stuff to please ourselves. Hookers and hand jobs is about it for men.

I agree with MR KIDD. Serious relationships under the age of 25 are about 90% bullshit. The human brain isn't even developed enough to know what you could possibly want. Every year I get older and I look back and say to myself damn I didn't know shit back then.

[Motivation]

Back on topic, I completely agree that you should tell your family you love them. I have found out that when they are gone, you will look back and wish you got to tell them at least one more time, and wonder if they really knew that you loved them. I felt the exact same way when I lost my dad when I was 14... The thing I hate the most is when a kid tells their parents they "hate" them, just cause they didn't get their own way. Too many people take it for granted... It's something you can't get back, so let them know while you still have them...

[Ed]

this thread got cereal...

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

LMAO Women get all the good toys, you have men, women, fingers, tongue, fruit, nipple clamps, stirrups, rubber fists, er eh... whatever. Sorry got carried away. Guys we don't get any of the fun stuff to please ourselves. Hookers and hand jobs is about it for men.

I agree with MR KIDD. Serious relationships under the age of 25 are about 90% bullshit. The human brain isn't even developed enough to know what you could possibly want. Every year I get older and I look back and say to maybe damn I didn't know shit back then.

:lmfao: I'll rep you when I can!

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

this thread got cereal...

Hi Ed...

*Insert Julia Roberts Voice Here* Can I call ya Eddie?:D

[Ed]

Hi Ed...

*Insert Julia Roberts Voice Here* Can I call ya Eddie?:D

haha

*threadjack start*

hey, how are you doing?

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

haha

*threadjack start*

hey, how are you doing?

I'm good! Actually, I'm SUPERTASTIC!!! How are you?! How's Tori?! How's ya Mama an em?

[Sammich]

How's ya Mama an em?

*STEPS IN*

THAT HOE IS FANTASTICULAR

[Kevykev]

*threadjack start*


Actually that happened hours ago. :no:




Props to those who contributed. Saying it to your parents are a Must.

[Jaimecbr900]

I'm not going to even remotely start on one of my rants about how some of you are sooooooo off base it's not even funny. So I'll keep that part to myself.....for now.:ninja:


As for Mr. Kevy Kev's original question:

I tell my family and a couple of friends (ladies) that I love them on a regular basis. Why? Because I do, simple enough. It's a good thing to know that you're "loved".

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Actually that happened hours ago. :no:




Props to those who contributed. Saying it to your parents are a Must.

Sorry Kev.. You know you've enjoyed reading. lol!:yes:

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

I'm not going to even remotely start on one of my rants about how some of you are sooooooo off base it's not even funny. So I'll keep that part to myself.....for now.:ninja:


As for Mr. Kevy Kev's original question:

I tell my family and a couple of friends (ladies) that I love them on a regular basis. Why? Because I do, simple enough. It's a good thing to know that you're "loved".

Do tell.. Do tell..:boobies:

[Ed]

I'm good! Actually, I'm SUPERTASTIC!!! How are you?! How's Tori?! How's ya Mama an em?

I am pretty good. I just got back to work. I haven't been here since friday, i took mon-wed off for vacation and my bday.

She's pretty good too. Buffalo was pretty awesome. I had a good time,

but back on topic, yeah...

[Sammich]

I TELL MY SIS I LOVE HER

[Friggintitsman]

Most of my family has some sort of expiration date.
Brother= dead (car accident)
Sister=lupus
Mom= Heart problems
Dad=Diabetes
Mom's father=Heart
Mom's mother= crazy
Dad's mother= Diabetes
Dad's father= dead (murdered by his mistress)

Issues my family has em

So yeah I tell my family I love them every time I get a chance. I never know when it will be the last time I talk to them.

[Sammich]

Dad's father= dead (murdered by his mistress)


:eek: I DONT THINK I SHALL SEEK A MISTRESS AGAIN:lmfao:

RIP THO

[Jaimecbr900]

Do tell.. Do tell..:boobies:

I don't know......I'm still trying to figure out why I haven't EVER gotten this phone call right here.......:ninja: :D NM?????!!!! ;)


My family is really big on that too Kev. I'm huge on telling my friends too! I just think everyone deserves to know that they are loved by someone...


But isol guud!!!! I see how it is.......:tongue1: :ninja:


~crosses his arms and taps his feet~

[Friggintitsman]

:eek: I DONT THINK I SHALL SEEK A MISTRESS AGAIN:lmfao:

RIP THO

Yeah man adultery is serious bidness. It happened long before I was born.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

I don't know......I'm still trying to figure out why I haven't EVER gotten this phone call right here.......:ninja: :D NM?????!!!! ;)




But isol guud!!!! I see how it is.......:tongue1: :ninja:


~crosses his arms and taps his feet~


lmao!! I do NM! LOL!

I LOVE YOU, JAIME!!!

[Kevykev]

Nice Love shout outs in this thread, Nice big one from Tiff to Jaime.



Most of my family has some sort of expiration date.


Everyone in this world had an expiration date, You can be healthy and still get merked by some random person on the streets. :no: Of course we all know that though.

Damn i just noticed the drama you posted about your dad's dad.

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Nice Love shout outs in this thread, Nice big one from Tiff to Jaime.

He was practically asking for it!!

Since I'm a woman, I can read those cues.. :D

I LOVE YOU TOO, KEV!!

[Jaimecbr900]

He was practically asking for it!!

Since I'm a woman, I can read those cues.. :D




So you taking it back now????


Aight.....you getting a smack down next time I see you.......watch and see, winch!!!:tongue1: :D

[Sammich]

EXCUSE ME TIFF...WHERE IS MY LOVE, U HALF EATIN WHITE CHOCOLATE TOOTSIE ROLL

[Dirty Octopus™]

i tell my Mother from time to time and my Grandmother when i havent spoken with her in a minute.

I've been telling some of my closest freinds i love them for quite some time as well. you just gotta let em' know some times.

[Sammich]

I LOVE U CLEAN SQUID

[Dirty Octopus™]

I LOVE U CLEAN SQUID
i love you too PhatBoySlim :kiss:

[Sammich]

IM GETTIN ALL GIGGLY INSIDE

[Friggintitsman]

Nice Love shout outs in this thread, Nice big one from Tiff to Jaime.




Everyone in this world had an expiration date, You can be healthy and still get merked by some random person on the streets. :no: Of course we all know that though.

Damn i just noticed the drama you posted about your dad's dad.

My sister is terminal. Which sucks.

[BKgen®]

You of all people need to read.

You may learn something.

LOL i was busy here @ work. one minute the thread is posted, then i come back and it's 7 pages full of WTF!

will definitely read.

some time.




maybe.








if i feel like it.

[Kevykev]

My sister is terminal. Which sucks.

I feel for you GREATLY man, I can only imagine how that is. Be the best brother ever to her man.

[AtifSajid]

thats funny Kev, my family is the exact same way, we have never had to tell each other we love them. Its just an understood thing. But my wife sounds like yours. She loves to say it, she always says it to the kids and always..I feel more strongly about it and only really say it when I feel I need to. Even to my kids. I do however say it to my daughter a little more than I usually do. Which is still like hardly...lol

[blacknightteg]

Well My Family, RARELY until recently when I started talking about it

We're South American, so the family values are STRONG (no cursing out parents or disobeying rules lol). The love is Strong as well but more of an implication, we just never made a big deal about saying "I love you" to one another.

On the other hand, my wife's family say it all the time but they say it SOOOO much that it seems routine. They definitely without a doubt love each other but they say it so often that it doesn't sound heartfelt.

I started telling my close friends the same too, not all that often but it's good to let them know I guess. Kinda say it in a joking around manner but you know, it be da way we be feelinz.

Anybody feel me on this? (not literally you faggts :D ) :cheers:


i know exactly what you are talkin about bro. me and my family usually to tell each other that we love each other as much as possible. i was kinda neglectful for a few years and then started realizing that they will always be there when need be, good or bad. so i just started hangin around and tellin em i love em so much more. i even do it with my friends too, not goin to lie. only the ones that i have known since i was lil kid tho you know, bods are there that cant be replace