R.I.P. Leisa.. We will miss you

[Brett]

Guys, tonight Leisa was moved back to Northside due to she developed a staff infection in her blood which they think now has consumed her body. She has a 103 degree fever and they are pretty sure she has no brain activity and the neurologist will be in tomorrow to run a few tests to confirm it, but most things are showing this is the case.

At this point this means she is alive in the ventilator but she is gone. Within the next day or two I will have to ask them to turn off the ventilator and hol dher in my arms so she is not alone when she takes her last breath, which since she has no brain activity she wouldnt last minutes.

I am trying to understand why her, why are we all left to live a life without her. She has touched my life and so many lives and I wish I could tell you all the prayers worked, but my baby just wasnt strong enough and I think the first few nights she put up the fight of her life but that wore her down and she just didnt have anything left to give.

The only thing that I find very odd is this morning I woke up around 5am, and then fell back asleep and I then had a dream that I was walking with her in a building somewhere and she was telling me she was okay, that she is all better now and is fine. Then this all happens today, I in my heart believe that was Leisa who came to me and told me she is okay now and she knew I would tell everyone what she said. So if they confirm tomorrow that she is brain dead, I will per her wish I will let her go tomorrow night or Wednesday.

Please pray she has no more pain and that we all can make it through this.

[BTEC]

....... im gonna pretend i didnt read this.

[Slomaro Z28]

Sorry to hear this, be strong. I dont know you, but it seems you have alot of of support here and thats what you're gonna need.

[5thgcelica]

man...
thats some tough news man. ive been praying for yall. i know its difficult to deal with. but i truly believe all things happen for a reason. what this reason is, im not sure. one day you'll understand it. just have faith in it. i know you love her with all your heart and she did you - remember that. chin up my friend. she could still pull through - believe in that, ive seen some crazy things happen.

love ya man - let me know what i can do.

[Brett]

....... im gonna pretend i didnt read this.

I wish I could pretend I am not living this.......

[Vteckidd]

:(

Prayer sent

[Brett]

man...
thats some tough news man. ive been praying for yall. i know its difficult to deal with. but i truly believe all things happen for a reason. what this reason is, im not sure. one day you'll understand it. just have faith in it. i know you love her with all your heart and she did you - remember that. chin up my friend. she could still pull through - believe in that, ive seen some crazy things happen.

love ya man - let me know what i can do.

She cant pull through if her brain function is gone, Once you loose that you have nothing, You are gone. Your brain cant just come back, once your loose brain function, its over.

[FasTech]

Wow man, I really have no idea what to say..... I'm so sorry and I'll still pray.

[DB4LYFE ™]

:(

Prayer sent

x2!:(

~DB4LYFE

[BTEC]

I wish I could pretend I am not living this.......
refuse to accept it like me. what else do we have?

[ubers2k]

**** man...

I mean... ... I don't know what to say. I've been praying since I first heard about this, even though I don't know either of ya'll. I still am actually. Just be strong man.

[Vteckidd]

Brett i just sent you a paypal donation from my friends account. If you need anything man let me know.

Mike

[uproot]

My heart goes out to you Brett. I don't know you too well, but your situation has touched me deeply. I truly don't know what I would do in your situation, but all I can tell you is that you are a very strong + caring person. I am so sorry to hear about this, and I hope that you continue to be strong no matter what happens.

[aguynamedpat]

Damn Brett, I am terribly sorry to hear this. Keep your head up bro, miracles have happened. She is still fighting, she will not give up until there is just no more fight left in her.

We are all here for you, and have been through this whole thing.

Come on Leisa, dont give up!

[blackshine007]

Damn Brett. I'm so sorry this has to happen to you. I've been following the story and I was gonna ask if you could blog about it so it would be easier to follow and not being cluttered by everyone's responses. My condolences goes out to you man. We're all here for you if you need anything.

[EmminoDaGreat]

:(

[Brett]

Guys I understand you all want some glimmer of hope, but she is pretty much brain dead (no brain activity) so saying she will come out of this only now makes it much harder for me to accept this ya know? Once you rbrain is at this point, You cant come back. Tomorrow they will confirm it, But she shows no signs of having any function in her brain, and between the staff infection and 103 degree fever, It doesnt get any worse.

[Brett]

Brett i just sent you a paypal donation from my friends account. If you need anything man let me know.

Mike

Mike, thank you so much man :(

[BTEC]

I know what u mean man. Ijust dont know what to say or do except think positve. its worked several times before so this is something i want it to work for too like you. Do ur thing manand ill do mine. but im still gonna refuse to speak of it being over til it really is over. thats how i was raised and that how i will be til i am no more.

Sh!ts really hitting hard now man, reading all this. im bout to go play so Jeezy or something.

[blackboi50]

dude my heart goes out to you!!!!! MUCH LOVE!!!!

Darren

[B18c-rex]

Prayer sent x3 , life can be very cruel to good people.

[blackboi50]

Prayer sent x3 , life can be very cruel to good people.

in this case very very good people!!!!

[FriskyWalrus]

brett i just want you to know that im still praying that she comes back either tonight or tomorrow. you dont deserve this. no one does

[blackboi50]

brett i just want you to know that im still praying that she comes back either tonight or tomorrow. you dont deserve this. no one does

u guys chill with that!!! Brett just said he doesnt wanna hear that anymore!!!!

[rehab]

Sorry man, I lost someone real close not too long ago and it really sucks. Especially knowing that you can't do anything about it, I think is the worst part. But when you take into account that things happen for a reason and that this will make you stronger you then come to realize that life is just a big recycling bin and we're just waste coming in and out of it. Leisa is a prime example of this and sooner or later we'll be examples too. There's nothing we can say at the moment to make you feel better but I'm sure you have friends in this forum that will be there for you. Hope you continue to live life knowing that you tried your best and that you did everything you could to make her happy. Don't live with regrets and good luck with the kids and life.

[Catnip]

Personally, I think you're doing the right thing by letting her go if she is in fact brain dead. Just keep in mind how she's touched everyone!

Be strong, you know we're all here for you in some way.

[Brett]

Prayer sent x3 , life can be very cruel to good people.

QFT!!! Those of you who know my wife Leisa know how she puts everyone, even me in front of her needs or wants every time. She is the most genuine person I have ever met. I am who I am today because of how she has changed me over the past 10 years. She made me want to be a better person every day. Leisa made me want to be a better man. I love her SO much, and I just dont know what my life will be like once she is gone.

I wear her ring and my ring around my neck so they are together touching as if we were holding hands and this way its against my heart

[Nerdsrock22]

my prayers go out to you, as they have been since i heard.

I am sending you a little bit on paypal, hope it can be of some use.

[slostang]

damn brett. i really dont know what to say right now bro.

i went through a similar situation with my uncle sevral years ago man. i know its really tough.
if you need anything man just shoot me a pm. id be glad to help and i scenserly mean that. :cry:

[Brett]

my prayers go out to you, as they have been since i heard.

I am sending you a little bit on paypal, hope it can be of some use.

Thanks man, Any bit will help towards the services I will have to plan in the next few days. If she passes in the next day or so I will have services and a viewing this weekend, I want it on a weekend so people can come see her, I owe her that.

[Shawna]

Brett I know we talked about this earlier and I thought I could handle it but I cant....I would like to see her one last time if I can....let me know what you need. Im here.

[BTEC]

Brett I know we talked about this earlier and I thought I could handle it but I cant....I would like to see her one last time if I can....let me know what you need. Im here.
I want to see her too. Dnt know if i can handle it though.

[Nerdsrock22]

Thanks man, Any bit will help towards the services I will have to plan in the next few days.

Man, if you need anything else just let me know, I know we have never met, but you've been quite the inspiration to me with your actions.

[B18c-rex]

Seriously going to have a long talk with the higher powers when my time comes around as to why people i know to be of good character and actions gets pretty much F@#KD by life. Just venting my apologys

[Crazy Asian]

I dont want to accept this. I truly dont but Brett we're all here for you, so if you need anything just let us know. Ill pray for her like always.

[blackboi50]

Thanks man, Any bit will help towards the services I will have to plan in the next few days. If she passes in the next day or so I will have services and a viewing this weekend, I want it on a weekend so people can come see her, I owe her that.

dude i cant even read that!!!!.......i dont know what else to say homie!!!!!......this is truely a super sad situation!!!!

Brett PLEASE try and stay strong homie!!!! Be as Strong as u can!!!

[blackboi50]

I want to see her too. Dnt know if i can handle it though.

yea thats why i stayed away and did my praying throughout the days!!!......i would breakdown if i had to see leisa like that!!!!

[Brett]

I want to see her too. Dnt know if i can handle it though.

I cant flood her ICU room with visitors now, The next day or so will be hard enough for family to sit with her but I will have a viewing when she passes so we all can hold her hand and say goodbye. But right now she is resting, she isnt in there anymore, Now its just her body, But that doesnt make it any easier. Once he confirms the brain acitivity issue, And her son gets here and can see her, I will be making the decision to remove her from the ventilator so I can let her rest.

[Echonova]

I'm so sorry.


I don't know what else to say.

[Elbow]

I am speachless. I don't know what to say, and don't know you all personally other then post on here. I am sincerely sorry. Just remember everything happens for a reason. It's just meant to be, remember the good things. I know nothing we say can make the situation better. Just keep your head up, and lean on your friends who are there for you. It sounds like she was more then just a great person and touched many people. That was her meaning. You keep all your memories of her and you together forever. I pray for you, family, and friends.

[Brett]

dude i cant even read that!!!!.......i dont know what else to say homie!!!!!......this is truely a super sad situation!!!!

Brett PLEASE try and stay strong homie!!!! Be as Strong as u can!!!

I am gonna try to stay strong, I know with my friends on here and off it will help, But I will break down hardcore when I hold her as she passes and at the services, After that I will try to begin to accept it all.

[Evil Goat]

brett, my heart goes out to you and your family, i dont know the pain you are going through and i hope i never do, we are praying for you all and if theres anything we can do down this way dont hesitate to let us know

[rehab]

Once people start to accept death a part of life everything comes in easier. Your story is truly sad and is a good way to show others that life's really too short and that anything can be taken over night. I don't know you personally but this does bring some feelings to be because like I said, I've been there before.

Once again good luck and stay strong man.

[Double_0_Rusty]

oh man.....I have no clue, as to what I should say. I've been praying more than I ever have since I have read about this. It's an awful situation, and life isn't fair. I know it hurts, I've been there, but it wasn't my spouse. Things happen for a reason, and God has a plan for everyone. Just look at it like that, I know it's seems as if you have something getting taken away from you, but who knows....Lesia could be giving life to another, but most of the time we don't see it that way. I know this probably doesn't make any sense, but I am sitting here reading possibly the saddest things in awhile, and I admit....I have tears in my eyes. I will continue to pray, and I will try my hardest to help out with a donation. Stay strong Brett, be strong for your family, and don't harp on the bad things going on right now, but think about all the great memories shared together. Keep hanging in there, buddy. My heart goes out to you and the family.



-Rusty

[Shawna]

Once people start to accept death a part of life everything comes in easier. Your story is truly sad and is a good way to show others that life's really too short and that anything can be taken over night. I don't know you personally but this does bring some feelings to be because like I said, I've been there before.

Once again good luck and stay strong man.



it wont ever be easy....





for those of us that know her she brought so much to us so much that it's hard to face that you wont ever be able to hug or talk to her again. Im already crying like a little girl right now and I hate crying but this woman means so much to me...more than she will ever know

[BTEC]

I cant flood her ICU room with visitors now, The next day or so will be hard enough for family to sit with her but I will have a viewing when she passes so we all can hold her hand and say goodbye. But right now she is resting, she isnt in there anymore, Now its just her body, But that doesnt make it any easier. Once he confirms the brain acitivity issue, And her son gets here and can see her, I will be making the decision to remove her from the ventilator so I can let her rest.
I know. I was just saying i want/wanted to see her. i kinda feel like i let her down by not going but the truth is she knows how i feel about the situation so i need to quit being a wuss. U know that feeling u get "if i had shown up..." thats how i feel. :dunno:

[blackboi50]

I am gonna try to stay strong, I know with my friends on here and off it will help, But I will break down hardcore when I hold her as she passes and at the services, After that I will try to begin to accept it all.

yea man thats how it goes!! You will have to let it out!!! its something u cant hold back!!!!

trust me dude!!! i went through the same thing with my grandma except she was in a coma for a year and a month!!!....when she passed it was rough!!! made me ask a lot of questions ((((kinda like what ive been doing for the past 3 weeks))) but in the end i had to accept that my grandmother was gone and one day i will see her again.

[MistaCee]

Damn bro I just read that and started tearing up... Idk what to say... stay strong bro..

[Alan®]

Brett,

I am so sorry it has come down to this. Just stay strong through this. You have a lot of good friends who will be there to help you as you need it. I had tried to send you a donation when all this first happened but punched in the email address wrong. I sent you another one with a little more for the delay. I only wish it was more. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Alan

[HyPer50]

Wow Brett... I'm very sorry to hear that news... Staff infection is a messed up thing, I've dealt with that in my family as well.. She is still in my prayers, and at the very least, she isn't in pain. Really not sure how to respond, but ya.. thats devestating news.. Never met Leisa in person (nor have I met any of you) but I know when I think of IA personalities, Julio, QD, and Brett & Leisa (always said in the same breath) are the people I think of. She is a great person.

[Fr33way]

Brett, I am so sorry man. Remember there are lots of great people around you that will give you the both the space and the support you need.

[Dracc]

Brett we all meet before and man.. i wanna say.. I havent shed a tear in so long and right now my eyes are watering cuz.... man .. my prayers are with you man .. I"m soo..........

[Dracc]

man.... i can't even read these no more man . I just can't

[ProjectWidow]

Brett,
I'm soo sorry man! :( I'm seriously at a loss of words right now! Like most have already said, stay strong! All I can say is just remember all the goods times you both shared and with all of us! Remember all the crazy wing nights at Wild Wing and Hooters, and all the fun times we all had at car shows! I can't even imagine being in your shoes now, but try to think about the good times! Stay strong my friend!

:(

[Shawna]

Brett,
I'm soo sorry man! :( I'm seriously at a loss of words right now! Like most have already said, stay strong! All I can say is just remember all the goods times you both shared and with all of us! Remember all the crazy wing nights at Wild Wing and Hooters, and all the fun times we all had at car shows! I can't even imagine being in your shoes now, but try to think about the good times! Stay strong my friend!

:(


i know i keep replaying things over in my head :cry:

[.::UNKNOWN::.]

hey man i really dont know you that well and reading the threads over the last few weeks have actually wished i would have met you... i am sorry for your situation... i wish i could afford right now to give some help... i will keep you in my prayers... keep your family and friends really close during this time trust me i know...

[0p7!mu5]

brett my thoughts are with you man they really are. I know that feeling I just Lost a really close friend saturday night and just got back from the wake a few hours ago. These things happen just stay strong man you know we are all here even those of us who havent met you in person like myself. Just keep your head up man.

[IMPORTchic]

:( Wow....that brought tears to my eyes.....

I am sooooooooooo sorry to hear that man...really...

I cant imagine what you are going through!!! Keep your head up!! Your family is in my prayers!

[Stormhammer]

Man, I can't read this :(

I'm sorry Brett.

[DJ Maestro]

Brett, I don't know what to say man other than I am so sorry. I wish we could have all heard the knews that she had woken up and that you two were together again. Life has it's way of handing us these hard times. Your dream said it all man. She came to you to tell you that it was ok to let go. She will certainly be in a better place after all this. I can not begin to imagine what you are going through on the inside, but I know that no matter what her life will be celebrated and you will have all the support you could ever hope for. Again man, I'm so very sorry. :cry:

[Motivation]

Sorry to hear man... I have been curious to see what has been happening, but it has hurt to read, so I kinda tried to stay away from the thread... and hope for the best. My prayers are with you man. Love ya. Anything at all I can do. Seriously, let me know!!! I mean it!!! We are here for ya. No matter what.

[ISAtlanta300]

I am at a loss of words........ Brett, I don't know what to say......my heart goes out to you. I can barely type.... I am so shocked, as I have been following the whole situation daily with the hope that things would have turned out better.

You have endured the unimaginable. Yet through all this, it has taught all of us the value of love even more, to cherish every minute of life and never miss a moment to express your feelings to your loved ones.

You are very strong.. I couldn't imagine what I would do in such a situation..... You also have a lot of support and people that love you.

I will continue to keep you in my prayers, and wish you strength throughout these sad times :(

[Thighs]

brett, i dont personally know you or leisa, but ive followed all (or most) of the posts of her status on here, and i want you to know that i have prayed every night for you and her since the first thread about it, and will continue to do so. i cant even begin to imagine what youre feeling and having to deal with right now, not to mention the rest of the people who were close with you two. its obvious that you truly loved her and that in itself is hard to come by these days. i cant imagine where id me without my girlfriend, and we have only been together for ~2 1/2 years.

stay strong and do what you feel leisa would want you to do. i wish there was ANY way i could help, but i know nothing within my reach would make 2 ****s difference right now. stay positive for the kids and keep your head up. im sure you will see her again when the time comes.

[Troublemaker]

I'm sad to hear this news...we are with you Brett.

[GGPIS3]

i wish i knew the words that would make you feel better... but the truth is, the world is unfair. life is unfair. some things happen and we will never know or understand why they happened. trying to figure it out only makes it harder. i pray that God gives you the strength to endure these hard times....

[03RCode]

Dang Brett, I really don't even know what to say man. We all prayed this entire time for a miracle. Everything happens for a reason though, as overused as that saying is it is true. I really hate to read this, I tried every weekend to find a chance to come down but funds/gas crisis wouldn't allow so. As everyone else as said my heart goes out to you man, no one knows how you feel, it has to be rough, but time cures everything. If there is ANYTHING I can do, please feel free to tell me and I'll do everything in my power to make it happen. We have all been with you through all of this, and will continue to be.

[slostang]

http://civic-eg.com/viewtopic.php?t=6045

[collins]

brett, this is killin me, man!! i'm so sorry that you and the kids are facing this! i have to say this tho... i'm proud of you! you've shown such strength and support of her. every time i talked to you, you were trying your damnedest to stay positive. it seems like you've come to grasp what it is that you have to do, and that is NOT an easy task. not for you nor any of us. let me know when/where any services are going to be held and i'm going to try to get my work covered so i can be there. i'm gonna miss her man! i really am. just know that she's going to a better place where she wont be hurting anymore, EVER again. if i can help you in any way, you need to let me know. brett, i love you like a brother and leisa like a sister. both of you mean alot to me as we've been through so much over the years. both good times and bad, i look at it as a growing experience, and i thank you for that.

[j0nbunklah0m]

hey.. i dont even know u but my heart still goes out to u. best of luck man. take care!

[changaroo]

Brett,
I'm sorry to hear what you have been going through. I, like many others have not had the chance to get to know you or Leisa on a personal level.
Right now words can only help so much, but the Man upstairs sometimes works in crazy ways... ways that no-one can comprehend. I know it seems like all the prayers had no answers, but dont look at it that way, instead see it as how huge of an impact Leisa was to others on here and to the community.
Never grieve over the past as it is gone, never be troubled by the future as it hasn't happened yet, but live in the present and give it your all so its worth remembering.

If you need anything, feel free to shoot me a PM. I'm rarely on IA anymore.

[drupason]

stay strong Brett! our prayers are with you and your family!

[PhatbacK]

Damn Brett I dont know what to say.....all I know is that I have been reading all the threads to see new posts to see how Leisa was doing...and Ive been waitng for the one from you saying that she is back. Like I said I know know its been forever since I have seen you guys...but I would have never seen anything like this happening to Leisa or you of all people...all I can say is Im truly sorry. Sometimes the power of love just isnt strong enough to bring people back to life but the point is you did EVERYTHING you could and look at all the support you and Leisa had!! Thats amazing all in its own!! and no matter the out come you know you have all these people for support. I hope the best for you and hope God grants you the strength through these next couple days.....my prayers are still with you guys.

[Brett]

Today the Dr. will come in and confirm what they think, and then this evening or tomorrow morning I will have to decide to have her ventilator turned off. I am thankful god is allowing me to have a chance to have her in my arms when she passes, so I then know she wasnt alone, and she was never alone. I love her so much and facing a life without her smile, her voice, her comforting ways will be a true test of me.

Thank you all though for the words, I cried reading every line. I will keep you updated.

[One_Bad_SHO]

I don't really think this belongs in the whoreslounge.... just not a very fitting name for the situation... 'tis all.

Regardless, Mr. Brett... *hug*. I don't know you or your wife personally, however, I have exchanged a few messages via Myspace with Leisa regarding IA once upon a time. It seems as though you two have a lot of friends around these parts and are loved by many, which speaks highly for the Brett/Leisa team in the eyes of the few who wern't privledged enough to know her. You've got a lot of great friends on this site who are here for you... and even a few strangers willing to help a hand in a time of need. I'll keep Leisa and your family in my prayers.

[blacknightteg]

brett. you have my thoughts and prayers. i have been praying and thing about you two non stop. i just don't know what to say. you two have been around for so long, making this board and people's lives great. i don't think i ever personally met either of you, but that wasn't needed. you and her were so great. coming on here, posting up and seeing yall run wild on people. it just made everything so awesome. you being the bad boy and her comin in and giving you the pimp slap to be nice to people! lol. i loved every second of it. she will be greatly missed. i remember i would get random reps on here from here and i didnt even know why.

my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. i wish there was more then any of us could do.

[ilovemyhonda.]

I just read the other thread and posted before I came upon this one.
I don't know you or Leisa personally, but I have been praying since the first day I heard the news. I am so sorry you and your families have to go through this, no one deserves it. Stay strong and we are all here for you. Hang in there!!

[civic95]

I keep checking these threads every few hours waiting for Brett to post that she woke up. I guess that's just not going to happen.

God always takes his best soldiers early...

[Sammich]

**** man brett, i'm so sorry i know its been a long road for you and your family man..through out this whole ordeal i've been at a lost for words and right now is no different, i just wish you didn't have to go through this. time and unforeseen occurences befall us all, unfortunately, we never saw leisa in this predicament and you having to battle whether or not youll be living w/ or w/o her. my heart goes to you and your family. if you dont mind can you PM me your address so i can send a card out to you

[Blitanicle99]

Stay strong, god has your back.

[Brett]

They have confirmed. Leisa is Brain Dead. So somehow I will have to try and figure out a funeral home, etc today so tonight I can take her off life support and give her the peace she deserves.

[1000cckiller]

They have confirmed. Leisa is Brain Dead. So somehow I will have to try and figure out a funeral home, etc today so tonight I can take her off life support and give her the peace she deserves.Man I am sorry

[Alan®]

They have confirmed. Leisa is Brain Dead. So somehow I will have to try and figure out a funeral home, etc today so tonight I can take her off life support and give her the peace she deserves.
Brett,

I am so sorry buddy. If there is anything I can do to help PLEASE DON'T HESITATE TO ASK.

Alan

[Dracc]

They have confirmed. Leisa is Brain Dead. So somehow I will have to try and figure out a funeral home, etc today so tonight I can take her off life support and give her the peace she deserves.





:cry:

[blackboi50]

They have confirmed. Leisa is Brain Dead. So somehow I will have to try and figure out a funeral home, etc today so tonight I can take her off life support and give her the peace she deserves.

i can not believe this. brett i dunno what to say.

[1000cckiller]

this is a sad day, because now IA has lost a part of itself. Brett stay strong and give info about the funeral home, I would like to come view the body. Let me know if I can help in anyway.

[Sammich]

*true tears man no ***** man my heart goes out to you..i knwo i'm not local but i'm there in thoughts man. i'm so sorry brett

[LeX]

My thoughts and prayers are with you today more than ever, as they have been.

-Alex

[Ed]

Brett, I'm terribly sorry. I wish there was something we could do. If there is anything you need let us know.

[silver]

I'm really sorry to hear that Brett. Just like someone else said, you are doing a great job dealing with this situation and Leisa is an awesome person and she is so lucky to have someone like you, someone so strong, while going through this. Sounds like you have some awesome friends to support you too, just whatever happens don't forget that. Some people tend to block out the world in hard times, and although that doesn't sound like something you would do, friends are the best things to have and to lean on during these times and it does help you through it.

I know I have not seen you guys in over 2 years, and I am really sorry... but if you need anything... I am still praying for you guys :(

[BobbyFresco]

Brett, I know I don't know you personally and we haven't seen eye to eye on things at times but through the talks we've had before and since this has happened I have grown to respect and admire you in so many different ways. Having gone through this with my dad like I mentioned to you before, I know what you're going through, from the beginning to what you're having to do tonight. I know that reading words from someone you don't know personally may not mean much or help you in any way but just know that you and Leisa are in my thoughts.

[osnap]

As much as I'm struggling to procure the right words, I'm realizing that there really are none. Brett I am so sorry man. My heart aches for you. You have been unbelievably strong throughout this entire ordeal, and for what its worth, you've served as an inspiration to me. Please do not hesitate for a split second to let us know as a community ANYTHING we can do, individually or collectively, to somehow make this easier for you man... and I'm not just saying that. Seriously, please please allow us to help in any way you see fit. *hugs*

[LiL PaKi]

They have confirmed. Leisa is Brain Dead. So somehow I will have to try and figure out a funeral home, etc today so tonight I can take her off life support and give her the peace she deserves.

:cry: I wish there was something we could do
let us know of the funeral arrangements.

[Terror]

:( i havent met you, but I am so sorry to hear this... my prayers are with you.

[Blitanicle99]

Please let the IA community know of anything you need.

[AtifSajid]

Im sorry Brett. So sorry man. I just cant think of having to go through something like this. I would go crazy. Your holding on strong man!

[Brett]

I will be taking her off life support around 3:30 today. Viewing and serives will be in Alpharetta this weekend (Saturday and Sunday) but I will post up details tomorrow after I visit the funeral home.

[Sammich]

BIG HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BRETT!!

[Nitro]

Brett, man i too am at a loss for words....i'm so still hoping that i get a call from u stating that "things" have changed......but remember homie this is a time to celebrate the life of Leisa and the commitment that she gave you and your family. Take strength in the good things and the lessons from the not so good. My heartfelt wishes for a remembrance of life and love. :cry:

[Ran]

Brett, I wish I knew what to say man. I really do, but I just can't put things together. I'm so sorry.

[4dmin]

i'm so very sorry brett - if you need anything we are a phone call away

[MongolPup]

For perhaps the first time in my life I am truly at a loss for words. I wish I had some kind of saying, some kind of quote to make you feel better, but I don't. All I can offer is a prayer today around that time. Stay strong Brett, as cheesy as it sounds IA has your back.

[Jimmy B]

Brett man, I am truley sorry and feel for you.

Sometimes things happen and you beg the answer why? why me? why our family? why the love of my life? I wish someone could answer that question for you. God has a plan, even if you yourself never find out what that plan is, someone will be touched in a way that will change there life for the better. Is it fair to you, it never seems that way! Keep your head up old man, we are ALL here for you, and you know there are tons of people that are just a phone call away if you need a shoulder.

Stay strong for her family, daughter, son, and even for you. She is not gone forever, jsut for the life on earth. see ya soon.

[DSGB-GTS]

Brett I am sorry about your loss. I know you have no idea who I am but I have tears running down my face after reading this thread. Stay strong buddy!

[metalman]

I am so very sorry. There are no words...
I really admire you for being strong enough to allow your beloved to go. Some are unable to do so. I have seen such in my own family and it was worse then death really.
Leisa is fortunate to have you as her mate. I suspect she likely knew that all along. My thoughts are with you today.

[Turbo04]

At times like this there are no real words that can even begin to soften the blow you and the family are taking from this. Death is never easy, even more so when it comes for someone so close. It take an amazing amount of courage to keep operating on a daily basis when faced with something like this, I am sure Leisa is very proud of you. While I've never met either of you personally I have been following on here the events and updates as they come, my wife and I have prayed nightly for Leisa, you and the family. As I read through the pages and pages of posts it's clear that she touched a great many people. Who's to say what plan God has for each of us, but maybe that was his plan for her. My heart goes out to you and the family and I will continue to say prayers for you. I know the pain will not go away anytime soon but remember even in the darkest moments she'll always be there in your heart and watching over you from above.

[green91]

Wow Brett,
I'll be the first to tell anyone im not a very emotional person but this has really got my heart. I cant even imagine what you're your going through. Just stray strong, be grateful that at least now you and her both can have some sort of closure rather than it being an unknown. Granted your IA family is no substitute for Leisa, but rest assured everyone here is behind you if you need anything.

[Hulud]

Im so sorry brett.

Im at a loss for words. Be strong.

[Maniacc]

Damn Brett, this really sucks dude.

I don't know what to say other than you're a strong person to be posting this online for everyone to see. Normally people would keep stuff like this between them and close friends. I only met you once but you seemed like a good person and I've heard good things about Leisa which makes things(feelings) that much worse.

I mentioned this to my mother and she sends prayers to you and your family. Stay strong, Brett.

[IMPORTchic]

Ugghh..this sucks so bad! Yet again I wanna stress I am truely sorry about your loss of her!!! Atleast she can be at peace now!

Can we say IA moment of silence at 3:30????

[Sammich]

Can we say IA moment of silence at 3:30????

I THOGUTH THE SAME THING..IA NEEDS A MOMENT OF SILENCE

[Nemesis]

I THOGUTH THE SAME THING..IA NEEDS A MOMENT OF SILENCE


Already PM'ed Paul regarding a forum shut down for 5 minutes at 3:30.

[Sammich]

Already PM'ed Paul regarding a forum shut down for 5 minutes at 3:30.
:goodjob: :goodjob: :goodjob:

[MongolPup]

I know I'll be praying at that time, that sounds good. If you can't get a hold of him let me know and I'll call him.

[Sammich]

I SAY IF NO ONE HEARS FROM HIM AT 2:30, CALL HIM UP

[4dmin]

Already PM'ed Paul regarding a forum shut down for 5 minutes at 3:30.

i will try to get to it if i can... i have a meeting around 3pm (i might have to do it w/ my cell but i'll do my best to get it done)

[BobbyFresco]

Already PM'ed Paul regarding a forum shut down for 5 minutes at 3:30.


This is a really great idea.:cry:



I'm definitely not an emotional person but I have a knot in my damn throat
right now.

[Sammich]

EXCELLENT

[TIGERJC]

sorry for your loss brett

[G.C]

omg... i cant even imagine how your feeling right now... Can someone pm me his paypal email account?

[dizzle]

im so sorry. i dunno what else to say.

[NEMO]

i am sorry to hear this. my prayers are with you and your family

[IDCoconut]

Condolences go out to you and your family, Brett. It looks like you have a lot of good friends here and remember that it's ok to lean on them, especially at a time like this because they're also feeling a loss.

Stay strong and whatever you do, don't let this change your faith.

[The Youngn]

I've been keeping with this whole ordeal and i've never met you Brett but it hits me deeply when i read any of your updates. It just brings up the memories of the things i had to go through when people close to me passed. It's such a negative time and hard to bring positive light out of a situation like this but it really shows how strong you are deep inside for you to be able to let her go like you are saying. What I've done to help cope with the pain in the past is to remember one thing:

We can only be happy for them as they are going to a better place where they don't have to endure the pain and anguish that life of living on this planet brings. Some day down the line, we will be reunited with our loved ones where we will never have to experience pain again.

[Tracy]

I don't know what else to say except for that I am so sorry.

[buddha@TeamFX]

My prayers are with ya'll Brett!

[Papa_Smurf]

I'll be in history class @ 3:30, but i know this is all i'm going to think about.

be strong brett. you know you have the entire support of IA if you need anything.

my condolences go out to you and your family.

[DB4LYFE ™]

im so sorry about this, prayers sent and i wish u the best!

~DB4LYFE

[Jaimecbr900]

“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on. (http://thinkexist.com/quotation/you-can-shed-tears-that-she-is-gone-or-you-can/763356.html)”

-Author unknown.

[RandomGuy]

“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on. (http://thinkexist.com/quotation/you-can-shed-tears-that-she-is-gone-or-you-can/763356.html)”

-Author unknown.
just what was needed

I'm at a loss for words as well.

Brett, I called you a few days ago (before I heard of all this stuff) left you a message, but please disregard it now.

[kelly marie]

The only thing that I find very odd is this morning I woke up around 5am, and then fell back asleep and I then had a dream that I was walking with her in a building somewhere and she was telling me she was okay, that she is all better now and is fine. Then this all happens today, I in my heart believe that was Leisa who came to me and told me she is okay now and she knew I would tell everyone what she said. So if they confirm tomorrow that she is brain dead, I will per her wish I will let her go tomorrow night or Wednesday.



that is truly amazing.. it gave me chills and tears! brett, you have been strong though this whole thing, it's honorable. we still have you and leisa in our prayers and will continue to do so. however, take this dream to heart. she is going to be in a place that we can only dream of and you WILL be reunited one day, forever. she gave you the confirmation you needed and you can rest assured that God will hold her close to his side. now is the time to lean on your friends and family as they are all feeling the grief. keep your faith strong and know that you have so many people here that love you and will do whatever you need to help you through this. remember that she will always be with you.

[Benefit]

sorry to hear that man.....

[IronEagle]

This is shocking to read. I haven't been on the site since the 9th and am in disbelief. Godspeed Leisa. :(

[collins]

“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on. (http://thinkexist.com/quotation/you-can-shed-tears-that-she-is-gone-or-you-can/763356.html)”

-Author unknown.

jamie, that was very touching. thank you for posting that.

[collins]

brett, i have to work the evenings this weekend, but i'll do whatever i can to stop by before i go to work. this is a sad day, no doubt, but let your mind be at peace because she's going to a MUCH better place than this disgrace of a planet we call earth. no more pain, no more anguish, its all gone. brett keep her in your heart always and remember her in everything you do. the love you kids share is one of a kind. yeah, we all give you a hard time about being so old, but everyone that has ever met you knows that you'll ALWAYS be a kid at heart, even when you're 80 years old! you and leisa have always been such an inspiration to everyone you come in contact with. even in this topic, you can see so many ppl that have never even met either of you and even they have been influenced by you or leisa at one point or another. stay strong, my brother! stay strong!

[The Ren]

Brett,
As Im crying reading all this I am at a total loss for words. I feel blessed to have had leisa and yourself apart of my life.. I will remember all the great times I was able to spend with you two and am blessed to have been in the presence of true love.. Cause I for sure saw it between you two. She let you know she is ok now and can go peacefully knowing she has a man who did and forever will love her with all of his heart and no woman could want anything less then that. I am so amazed at how strong you have been and I know leisa is proud of you too. I am just a quick drive away and a phone call away and Im here for you whenever you need me. Along with everyone else I will be there this weekend.. Even if its just for you to have another shoulder to cry on.. im there.

[SixSquared]

I can't believe this... I am so sorry, Brett. As Jaime's words reflected, the good times you had with her will live on forever, as will your love for her, and the shared love we all have for her. I just got home to read this, and I'm just in shock. Life is unfair, and the worst things happen to the best people. Your strength through this whole ordeal has been amazing. Much love to you and your family, and keep your strength with you to share with those who still need it. Leisa is in a good place, as she let you know this morning. You're both lucky to be surrounded by a lot of love, strength, and good people in your family and friends. I'm going to try to make it out this weekend to say goodbye.

[1SOL2NV]

i can sit here and honestly say i wouldnt know what to do in your situation brett. and im so sorry, i hope you pull through this and my prayers and wishes go to you and your family . i could not sit here and say enough of how a complete strangers situation has touched so0o deeply only because i imagined me in your shoes and i dont think i could have done what you have !!! i would have gone crazy at this point .. stay strong man and if you need anything WE are all here for you !!!!!!

[AnthonyF]

NO NO NO NO!!!!! :( :( :( :( :( Brett, I am a lost of words!!! I am so sorry. :(:(:(:(:(:( I am trying so hard to fight the tears from coming here at work.

-Ant.

[Ed]

http://i38.tinypic.com/244b7v5.png

[jr4mny]

i am very sorry, i could not imagine going through something like this. you are a true soldier man, you and your family and all on IA are in my prayers.

bless up!

[4dmin]

I hope everyone got to have a moment of silence with leisa - she will surely be missed. :(

[The Ren]

Yes.. yes she will.. This world is a little less bright without her smile..

[gabbysmommy]

Yes she will be missed! :cry:

[Killer]

my condolences...... to brett, the family, and all the friends... def in my thoughts and prayers...

keep your heads up.. remember the joy and good times.....

[blacknightteg]

it'd be cool if there was something we could do to all remember her by. like a small lil sticker or something or like a meet in her honor.

[blackboi50]

it'd be cool if there was something we could do to all remember her by. like a small lil sticker or something or like a meet in her honor.

OHHH yea!!!! those def need to be made!!!!

[ilovemyhonda.]

Leisa you will be missed.
Brett as hard as it is, keep your head up.
Everyone is here for you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Leisa and your families.

[4dmin]

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[BobbyFresco]

it'd be cool if there was something we could do to all remember her by. like a small lil sticker or something or like a meet in her honor.


or a meet....

[Sammich]

I hope everyone got to have a moment of silence with leisa - she will surely be missed. :(

i did, and i'm glad u did this.

i'm going to miss leisa so damn much:cry:

[SLow_POke]

god bless. que dios los bengida

[BobbyFresco]

Someone should organize a fundraising meet for Brett.

[4dmin]

i did, and i'm glad u did this.

i'm going to miss leisa so damn much:cry:

i think it was good i actually got a few txt from people who don't visit IA much due to the message. thanks for the screen shot ed \/



http://i38.tinypic.com/244b7v5.png

[Mr Egg Rollllll]

I'm am deeply saddened by this tragic event. Brett, I have never met you, and honestly probably won't at least for awhile, but you're one of the strongest people I have seen. My prayers are with you and your family.

I'm sorry with the deepest of regrets. Just keep your head up, God is Everything and will keep Leisa safe in Heaven.

[Sammich]

its definintely a worthy way to show our love to their family. i did a print screen i just know when i do it you never see nothing..thanks ed

[osnap]

:(

[Z33_kid]

she will be missed

[Turbo Terrance]

RIP Leisa, you will be missed... - Keep ya head up Brett...

[Elbow]

:(

[DieselNuts]

give her the peace she deserves.
Brett, I don’t know what else to say that hasn’t been said already. I am extremely sorry for your loss. Every time I read your posts on her updates I get teary eyed. I can’t imagine what you must be feeling. My condolences go out to your families.

-Derek

[Ed]

i think it was good i actually got a few txt from people who don't visit IA much due to the message. thanks for the screen shot ed \/




i knew some people would miss it so i made one for reference.

[Mr Egg Rollllll]

+1 for a Fundraising meet...

[Maniacc]

http://i33.tinypic.com/24w7i95.jpg

Rest easy, Leisa.

[P. A.]

Sorry to hear about Leisa, she will always be remembered on I.A, my condolences go out to you and her family.
Keep your head up buddy.
She is in a better place now.
R.I.P

[BobbyFresco]

I don't know if this is an option but maybe D.O and whoever else has organized the
upcoming SofakingFresh meet could also designate it as a Leisa Memorial/Brett fundraising meet, seeing as how alot of ppl were planning on attending anyway.

[4dmin]

i knew some people would miss it so i made one for reference.


WELL I JUST GOT WORD THEY MOVED IT UP TO 6PM TODAY INSTEAD OF THE 330... SO AROUND 6PM WE WILL AGAIN HAVE A MOMENT OF SILENCE WITH LEISA.

[Sammich]

i wont be on..but at 6pm..i will be thinking about them

[LiL PaKi]

I hope everyone got to have a moment of silence with leisa - she will surely be missed. :(

:cry:

I'm so sorry Brett :( she will be missed :cry:

[KREEP]

+3 for a fundraising meet/meet in her memory
I didnt know you guys but this just wrenches my heart

[One_Bad_SHO]

I own a waterless car wash business. If I can get a few volunteers I am willing to do a fundraiser car wash to help with the expenses of the funeral or whatever other expenses that may help Brett and his family. I'll take care of the supplies.

REQUIREMENTS:

1.) We need a public place to hold the fundraiser (and permission from owners)
2.) We need a shaded area to wash vehicles as products need to be out of direct sunlight
3.) Responsible volunteers willing to sweat for free to raise money.

Let me know...

[Nitro]

Yes.. yes she will.. This world is a little less bright without her smile..



aint that the truth Karen :(

[1439/2000]

Wow, sorry to hear about it. Its been years since I have seen you guys at a meet but I always saw you guys together and she was having fun too. A lady having fun at a car meet is rare especially one that participates. She was an awesome woman/mom for sure.

[MR.EM1]

im sorry brett..but she will always be with you

[03RCode]

I own a waterless car wash business. If I can get a few volunteers I am willing to do a fundraiser car wash to help with the expenses of the funeral or whatever other expenses that may help Brett and his family. I'll take care of the supplies.

REQUIREMENTS:

1.) We need a public place to hold the fundraiser (and permission from owners)
2.) We need a shaded area to wash vehicles as products need to be out of direct sunlight
3.) Responsible volunteers willing to sweat for free to raise money.

Let me know...

I'm obviously too far away to supply a good location, but I would be willing to come down and help out with this.

[404 THE DC4]

:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

[Bballjamal]

Sry to hear Brett, prayers out to all man. She only left the body suit she was put here with, but she's still here in spirit bro!

[itsjustdee]

I'm so sorry Brett. My heart goes out to you!

[One_Bad_SHO]

I'm obviously too far away to supply a good location, but I would be willing to come down and help out with this.

I'd offer to do it at one of my lots but I'd rather it be like any other fundraiser car wash... with ppl holding signs to lure in ppl from the streets for "environmentally friendly" car washes. My wash bays are located in office buildings so my team members get a lot of regulars. For this to be successful we need a public lot where a lot of ppl drive by. Also, none of the volunteers will be uniformed, my business will not be represented. I am merely donating the supplies and will be there to wash cars and show the volunteers how to effectively use the waterless products.

So yeah... if we can find a lot (that has a shaded area) to wash cars near a street, we could get some cute IA girls with hand made signs on the street to lure ppl in. With 5-10 guys we can wash 3 or 4 cars every 15 minutes.

At the same time, it'd be a great idea to get someone out there with a bbq pit and perhaps a bake sale. That will increase revenue for the fundraiser, as the ppl will get hungry or thirsty while waiting for their cars.

[G.C]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xbl7y89Catg&feature=related

Rest in Peace. Leisa

[03RCode]

I'd offer to do it at one of my lots but I'd rather it be like any other fundraiser car wash... with ppl holding signs to lure in ppl from the streets for "environmentally friendly" car washes. My wash bays are located in office buildings so my team members get a lot of regulars. For this to be successful we need a public lot where a lot of ppl drive by. Also, none of the volunteers will be uniformed, my business will not be represented. I am merely donating the supplies and will be there to wash cars and show the volunteers how to effectively use the waterless products.

So yeah... if we can find a lot (that has a shaded area) to wash cars near a street, we could get some cute IA girls with hand made signs on the street to lure ppl in. With 5-10 guys we can wash 3 or 4 cars every 15 minutes.

At the same time, it'd be a great idea to get someone out there with a bbq pit and perhaps a bake sale. That will increase revenue for the fundraiser, as the ppl will get hungry or thirsty while waiting for their cars.


I'm down to help however is needed. I can BBQ, I can wash cars, whatever I can do to help Brett and the family right now.

[BobbyFresco]

Same here

[One_Bad_SHO]

So IA, pull together and use your resources. A lot of you guys know people who own shops, people who manage shops or own land... etc etc. I'm sure getting volunteers is the easy part... as many of you have love for Leisa and Brett.

IA will supply the volunteers.
I will supply the supplies and organize/manage the fundraiser.

We need a location. A good location with busy intersections. Remember, its CRUCIAL that we have a shaded area to wash vehicles.

We also need bbq pits, coolers, etc etc. So anyone willing to help will need to pitch in some $ to buy meat, charcoal, beverages etc etc.

[MongolPup]

Great message Paul, thanks for taking a screen shot Ed. I wasn't at the computer at the time, but I sent up a prayer.

Great to see so many here to remember her:

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[Jaimecbr900]

So IA, pull together and use your resources. A lot of you guys know people who own shops, people who manage shops or own land... etc etc. I'm sure getting volunteers is the easy part... as many of you have love for Leisa and Brett.

IA will supply the volunteers.
I will supply the supplies and organize/manage the fundraiser.

We need a location. A good location with busy intersections. Remember, its CRUCIAL that we have a shaded area to wash vehicles.

We also need bbq pits, coolers, etc etc. So anyone willing to help will need to pitch in some $ to buy meat, charcoal, beverages etc etc.

I have us a location!!!! :goodjob:

In almost Downtown Duluth, right off Buford Hwy.:goodjob:

What do you need next? ;)

[ilovemyhonda.]

I am willing to help out with anything that is needed. Just let me know.

[One_Bad_SHO]

I have us a location!!!! :goodjob:

In almost Downtown Duluth, right off Buford Hwy.:goodjob:

What do you need next? ;)

Details pls... last thing I wanna do is just show up somewhere and get run off by the cops because we don't have permission from the proper ppl. Let us know where so some other members can chime in.

I'm fairly new to Atlanta so i'd like some of the members to discuss and come to a conclusion for a spot that would strategically ensure success.

[Kamikaze]

Brett, my condolences and prayers go out to you and your family. :(

[Jaimecbr900]

Details pls... last thing I wanna do is just show up somewhere and get run off by the cops because we don't have permission from the proper ppl. Let us know where so some other members can chime in.

I'm fairly new to Atlanta so i'd like some of the members to discuss and come to a conclusion for a spot that would strategically ensure success.

I already contacted the owner, another IA member, and we have FULL permission right now. :goodjob:

We are going to need some attractive ladies to serve as sign holders, washers, cooks, somebody to be in charge of getting us the supplies we need, and plenty of cars we can park to attract customers. :goodjob:

I'm going to make another thread just dedicated to the car wash fund raiser as soon as we get thru everything else going on today. Today is about Brett and Leisa.

[SwurvinIn]

this is truly awful....it just reinforces the phrase "live everyday as if its your last"....someone so great and young taken so abruptly....its just terrible. you will be missed leisa, by myself and by many others....see you other the other side...go with god and give your family the strength you had....we love you leisa

[Dirty Octopus™]

Brother i am TRULY sorry for your loss. i can only imagine what you've been through and are still going through. i cried ever since i first read the news because i could feel your pain. i could actually FEEL your pain. there's no pain in the world that amounts to seeing a loved one go through any kind of hurt whether it be a small cut or an extremely untimely passing. i have but a fiancee but we've been through so much in our few years of being together its unbelievable. i tell her almost everyday that i cant live without her, because i simply CANT. so i know how hard it is to deal with this. they're apart of our bodies. the rib that God took out.

I know this is rather cliche but she IS in a better place. you may ask why, but its because of the type of person she was. i dont know either of you but thats my only explanation. she must have been so good that God needed her by his side.......

But No worries because i have faith that they're planning a huge Varsity meet for us when we all reconvene.

My heart goes out to you bro. this is just the internet but PLEASE accept my most sincere condolences.

[itsjustdee]

I already contacted the owner, another IA member, and we have FULL permission right now. :goodjob:

We are going to need some attractive ladies to serve as sign holders, washers, cooks, somebody to be in charge of getting us the supplies we need, and plenty of cars we can park to attract customers. :goodjob:

I wish I was down there to help you guys out.

REST IN PEACE LEISA <3

[One_Bad_SHO]

I already contacted the owner, another IA member, and we have FULL permission right now. :goodjob:

We are going to need some attractive ladies to serve as sign holders, washers, cooks, somebody to be in charge of getting us the supplies we need, and plenty of cars we can park to attract customers. :goodjob:

Does this spot have a shaded/covered area?

[MistaCee]

R.I.P Leisa.. You was the mother I never met..

[Infamous_1]

sorry man. i send my condolescence to you and your family.

i know its a hard time for you. keep it strong.

[EJ25RUN]

god bless both of you.

[APEX i GSR]

I know i have never met you or your wife but my condolences to you & your family in this tough time. I am at a loss for words right now.

[Crazy Asian]

I love you Leisa. Even though we never met you, were so fun to talk to online and such a wonderful wife. You were chill with her husband who even joked about lolis and who loves to joke around like a high school girl. Im really gonna miss you

[Jimmy B]

Jamie, One bad SHO, I have 2 10x10 tents that you can use if needed. Depending on the time, i will make it out also. Im sure there are others that have the same tents too!

[Jaimecbr900]

Does this spot have a shaded/covered area?

Yes it does, but worse case scenario.......see below....;)



Jamie, One bad SHO, I have 2 10x10 tents that you can use if needed. Depending on the time, i will make it out also. Im sure there are others that have the same tents too!
Thanks Jimmy. :goodjob:

Stay tuned for the new thread in the next couple of days and we'll organize everything in that one.

[blackboi50]

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[FDslider]

my prayers will be with you Brett. Just stay strong buddy. You have all of our support.

[One_Bad_SHO]

Jamie, One bad SHO, I have 2 10x10 tents that you can use if needed. Depending on the time, i will make it out also. Im sure there are others that have the same tents too!

That would be perfect. :goodjob:

Even though this is after the funeral, I can free myself up for Saturday the 18th (next Saturday). I'll bring roughly $500 in supplies. Whoever makes the signs needs to make sure they mention "Environmentally friendly car wash" or "waterless carwash" as that will attract more attention/customers.

[Kevykev]

I just got the update from Jaime and I emotional as hell because of it. This is Very Hard man, Brett - I can't even imagine how you feel man. Everyone did as much we can do but as we should know, there's only so much that is in our hands. Just know that i'm here for you. Leisa is such a great person man IS and always will be. I'm glad that I always told her of how much I loved her :) .

[Dirty Octopus™]

I don't know if this is an option but maybe D.O and whoever else has organized the
upcoming SofakingFresh meet could also designate it as a Leisa Memorial/Brett fundraising meet, seeing as how alot of ppl were planning on attending anyway.
im TOO down. :goodjob:

[blacknightteg]

god bless brett and leisa. lets do them right and have a great time celebrating her life!!!!

[AirMax95]

Please bear with me, as I am not the best with words under these circumstances.

As I sit in my office reading this post, my heart goes out to Brett and the family, the IA family, and everyone who was touched by this wonderful person God placed on this earth.

Brett, I do not know you, but from reading the words that you have typed on this forum have shown your character and strength. At times like this it is hard to be strong. I faced a similar ordeal in March 2003. Keep your faith, know that she is with you and willl never leave your side.

May The Lord bless you and keep you.
May the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you.
May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.

[XLR8NMR2]

Keep your head up brett i will pray for you man..I'm so sorry to hear this happen to you guys stay strong through this man.

[gtikid]

Man i'm so sorry Brett. I really don't know what to say in a time like this man. Keep your head up man, you know we're here for you

[Jaimecbr900]

Alright, for the next little while, let's just keep Brett and Leisa in our thoughts and prayers. This is really a trying time for him.

He is in with Leisa and it's about to get really hard.

[One_Bad_SHO]

Alright, send any updates for the fundraiser in a pm and I'll work it out. Adios.

[DJ Maestro]

Brett, I'm so sorry. I wish I could say more, but I just can't come up with the words. I'm so very sorry man. :cry: :(

[Jaimecbr900]

Alright, send any updates for the fundraiser in a pm and I'll work it out. Adios.

Will do. I've already contacted several people about helping. They're all in. Me and you will have to work out the rest of the details.

Let me just get thru today. :cry:

[B16a2 Civic]

Brett, my heart goes out to you and your family. I really don't know wht to say, but I'm here for you brother.

[One_Bad_SHO]

Will do. I've already contacted several people about helping. They're all in. Me and you will have to work out the rest of the details.

Let me just get thru today. :cry:

:goodjob:

[ep9716]

My Prayers Go Out To You And Your Family.
I'm Sorry About You Loss. Why Does This Happen To Good People?

[Shawna]

i pmd Jaime but Ill help with whatever I have nothing going on this week.....no work or anything

[13Bracer]

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[osnap]

:cry:

[Princess12]

Brett, I can't say that I ever got the privelege of meeting you and your family, but my heart and prayers go out to you.

Thank you Paul for the second Moment of Silence. I'm honored to have had the chance to participate.

[SixSquared]

:( I still can't believe this would happen to two people as wonderful as Brett and Leisa.

Rest in peace, Leisa. I'll miss your smartass (but always well intended and well placed) remarks, bright smile, and amazing presence.

[R3RUN]

I don't know what to say man.....So sorry for your loss and my best wishes to you and your entire family.

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WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU BRETT.

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my iPhone literally crashed when this popped up.

someone PLEASE pm me info for the viewing. I feel like I need to go. :(

[BadassVic]

Man this is really sad.! :cry:
i hope u good luck in life brett. :goodjob:
and srry for the loss.


ill donate a few bucks at the meet. :yes:





man this is soo sad. :cry: :cry: :cry:

[Vteckidd]

mainstream performance will be organizing a dyno day where all proceeds will be donated to Brett . Details to come shortly. Big ups to the mspi crew .

Rip leisa you will be missed

[Shawna]

my iPhone literally crashed when this popped up.

someone PLEASE pm me info for the viewing. I feel like I need to go. :(


dont know the details yet...i talked to Brett around 230ish and said he would tell me later...that may have changed since then tho

[4dmin]

she has passed for those who haven't heard

[dkjohnson04]

I'm sorry to hear about this, I really don't know you either but that is tragic stuff and my prayers are out there for you and your whole family bro!

[uproot]

she has passed for those who haven't heard


:eek: oh no :eek:

i'm sorry brett. may you stay strong.

[SixSquared]

she has passed for those who haven't heard

:( Rest in Peace Leisa.

[Elbow]

Speachless :( Brett stay strong, you have SO many people here for you. RIP Leisa. You will be missed by MANY, but will always hold meaning.

[itsjustdee]

There's nothing I can say to make you feel better, but just know that my heart goes out to you, your fam, and Leisa's fam. Although I can't make any donations at the moment, just know that both Ricky and I are here for you if you ever need anything.

RIP Leisa <3

[ueyedgr8tness]

Wow i am speechless dude.. I shall keep my prayer up for you man:(

[ash7]

May a Restfull Sleep fall upon Leisa, and may peace be upon you [Brett] and your family.

:*(
-jonathan

[collins]

:cry:

[Andy_013]

:cry: Rest in Peace Leisa.

[Ed]

Rip

[The Ren]

:cry: :no: RIP leisa...

[ScreaminZetec]

RIP Leisa, you and Brett are in my prayers! Brett be strong man, we are all hear for you!!! I am so sorry!

[SmackedInATL]

Rest in peace.

[puregroove]

I'm sorry to hear, man. RIP Leisa. IA is here for ya.

[Fr33way]

Brett so sorry to hear. Just don't have the words....

[B16a2 Civic]

Brett, god will give you the strength you need, I know all you feel is grief and pain, but he won't do it unless he has a bigger plan. I know we can't give you everything you need, but now is the time to rely on and be around friends and family. We can't take the pain away, but we can help you deal with it. I know there's nothing anyone can do to make you feel better, but you need something or need someone to talk to, know we are here for you, your friends, your family, you ia extended family. You don't have to go through this alone

[Scotsman]

my condolences to you and your family

[silversol]

Rest in peace leisa. you will be missed!

[Double_0_Rusty]

Brett, You are possibly one of the strongest people I have ever came across. In this situation, I have no clue as to what/how I would get throught this. WE are all here for YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I haven't prayed this much in years, and I will continue to do so... I am so very sorry for you and your families loss. Please, stay strong.

Via con dios, Lesia. Save us a spot up there, and shine down on the Falcons!!


:(

[metalman]

I looked up Leisa's last post. If I am not mistaken it said in her typical kind joking manner "Shut up!" Perhaps its fitting that IA did just that for a few minutes in her memory.
My thoughts are with Brett & her family. God bless you all.

[cactusEG]

RIP, Lisa I know ur prob in a better place...

[Princess12]

Rest in Peace Leisa. I never got the chance to meet you; however, the impact you have had on everyone has never been more apparent than it is now. This world lost a beautiful soul today; however, your spirit will live on forever in the hearts and minds of all of us here. Brett has a lot of people down here who care about him and are willing to do their best to make sure he is taken care of.

[Ruiner]

Brett, you and Leisa are both in my prayers and thoughts. This is a horrible situation and I feel for you...I really do. She was an incredible woman and will be missed.