Why not so much on IA lately.. serious..hnmmm

[Julio]

Well, I got internet back .. out for a few days...


Anyways, On a serious note... I will make this thread but remember.. Im not asking for pitty one bit... I just felt like sharing and letting it all out.

Only my close personal friends know about whats been going on in my life since NOV 5th....


1st - My 23 year old Brother gets arrested for Arm robbery & assault along with 2 other people... really crushed me... Facing 10 to 20 years . Waiting on sentencing date.


2nd - At the end of Dec - begging of Jan I go to Dominican Republic, I get arrested for a couple of days for : carrying without permit, Involved in shooting... Dead person involved.. Me and My buddy get arrested... facing Murder. Only reason I was let go was thanks to a heavy fine and my buddy's dad is in with the goverment over there.. So they took his word for me.
Had to Return to DR in FEB for court and to show I was innocent....
I only took one shot, Up in the air.. I was Innocent.
Guilty party was arrested thanks to eye witness... He confesed.
My Name was cleared..This cost me alot of money...I ran out of my savings, Maxed out credit cards, took out some loans and still wasnt enough.. I was running out of time at one point before the court date in FEB... I had to ask my Father, I didnt want to due to the spending he was doing with my brother.. I Thought about selling the Vette, But had no time... But I had no choice but to ask my father.... It sucked. But hey..


3rd - As things are getting back to normal- Im paying everything, no problems..........

On Sunday - Feb 10, I had Unprotected sex with 2 females in DR - 21 year old and a 18 year female...
Dont know what the **** I was thinking.. My Court date was schedule for the next day... So we started drinking early that sunday.. Got this 2 chicks and did my thing.. without thinking.
I had sex with quite a few girls in DR, But never unprotected..... :cry:


4th - Around mid-march I get a phone call... Is one of the girls I slept with (21 year old one).... hey, I have been having symptoms/no period blah blah blah... So I call my budy to go get her and take her to the hospital get check out... She is pregnant...

When They told me that.. I was like ****ing great... Abortion came to my mind.. But abortions are illegal in DR (sorda) so it was going to be tough...
And then I started thinking, well **** it.. When the kid is born we will do a DNA and take it from there... If its mine.. no problem...

5th - Towards the end of April, I get another call, Now is the 18 year old girl... Crying, saying she was scared because she hasnt got a period since before I went there in FEB... I swear that when She said this I felt like the whole world just got on top of me... She didnt know what to do... I call my buddy .. same **** again, take her to the hospital find out whats going on...
He was shocked also and pretty much just told me how stupid I was and ****.. I agreed.. But this girl in particular, I had taken her Virginity back in DEC.. So I wasnt as worried about going Rubberless.. But still , I came back over here, She couldve **** with someone else and ****... The 21 year old chic, already had a chic and Im a bit more worried about her blaming me for being the father.
Anyways, My buddy calls me.. and tells me to sit down.. the 18 year gold is also Pregnant.

So, If Im really the father of both, That means, they both got knockup the same day ( sorda) I had sex with one around 1pm .. The other around 10pm or so...


So, since Im getting blamed for this, I have to pay for all there treatments and child birth up until the DNA.. and I have to also pay the DNA TEST.

Why dont I just say **** it and not even call these chics again? ****, Im here they are over there...
Because, Honestly, If both kids are mines, I would be ashamed to even be alive, I couldnt do something like that.
If kids are not mines, Supposdly I will get my money back.. I highly doubt it.. But Honestly, Im not risking any chances in case they are my kids... I want them to know, I took care of both of them dispite being 2 different Mothers since day 1.. no question.

Now, This is not cheap.. So, I started thinking.. wtf Am I going to do now...

Sell one of my cars.. vette would be the bet.. Since is not really "needed" per say.. My job pays great.. but with all my expenses that are coming up with the kids and cost of doctors visit I needed to do something...
Now, I have a 2nd job, I deliver pizzas now at night.. I honestly never thought I had to..... Last year I made $71,180.. pretty good income I say....
Now I have a 2nd job due to not thinking and making some dumb decisions..

Once I pay some of my loans off I shouldnt really need a 2nd job.... It was either go do that or sell my toy..

I said **** it, I have time, 2 arms 2 legs .. I can do it..


So.. DNA will prove Im the father.. im 98 % sure on the 18 year girl and about 80% on the 21 year old chic.. Just a gut feeling.. You never know.. cant trust bitches these days....

Rollercoaster...



But is :bump: :D :cheers: :ninja:

[Julio]

**** the spelling and cliff's

[DeeAOne]

wow dude, and i complain that my car never works. you have much more important problems. i have no room to talk.


hope you get it all sorted out.

[redpanda]

yeah. goodluck with everything

[Dracc]

damn cuz.. way to man up.. I know a couple of my homies from bacc home that have gone over the water, Probably got a broad pregnant and didnt even care.

[Echonova]

Wow. I thought I'd been busy. Props for doing the right thing. Most would walk...
http://i265.photobucket.com/albums/ii211/DeuceandDomino/funny.gif

[MachNU]

DAM julio, hope everything works out for you man, and its good that you are working a second job instead of trying to take the easy way out or running away from the problem! :goodjob:

[Alan®]

**** and I thought my life was crazy

[ATK_Designs]

Sounds very familiar. Best of luck to u bro.

[Revmaynard]

Holy damn man, I really hope things work out for you, atleast we know you have the balls to man up to a mistake. Sometimes my life seems too normal for me and I wind up doing something to fck it up so it's not so ordinary (I hate when I do, dumbest things I've ever done). I guess I feel too trapped when the only thing I have to complain about is not having money for car parts when I want them. Oh well, best of wishes. :cheers:

[cactusEG]

damn man, you have alot of shiit going on in ur life. Its like shiit strait out of a movie!

[redrumracer]

wow thats a lot of sh*t going on

[TIGERJC]

God.amn Julio!!! I hope you got tested, and good luck with everything. Isn't polygamy legal over there, if so you might want to talk those girls into getting together with you

[Echonova]

Isn't polygamy legal over there, if so you might want to talk those girls about getting togetherThat's some God d*mn forward thinking right there...:goodjob:

[81911SC]

I know running this shiit is also expensive. I know you said you would never charge but If there was a way to donate, I would. Kind of like a supporting member type thing on other boards. The way you are handling the situation is the main reason I want to donate. Awesome man. Let me know.

[0p7!mu5]

dude tell me this is a joke like seriously because if not man that is some ****ed up **** and im hoping things work out...

[blackshine007]

If I had the energy to tell my exhausting story about how almost everything isn't going so well for me, it still wouldn't be able to touch your story. It shall get better, man.

[Double_0_Rusty]

Holy ch!t, Hope everything works out man. Go get tested btw, std's FTMFL! I agree with 81911SC, if there is anyway we can help out, IM DOWN.

[EJ25RUN]

That's real talk. Something you never see anymore. Writing that will help allot of people make the right decision. We all make mistakes. The best of use face up to them.

[Got Milk?]

WOW!

Damn dude, i thought getting a speeding ticket was a big deal. Wish we could help you in some what way.

But yeah, you made some dumb decisions, and you will have to deal with them for the rest of you life. you will have to suck it up and everything will be okey, dont let this ruin your life.

Peace Out! Im glad that your not in jail.

[Got Milk?]

Ohh by the way, you should write up a book on this. Might be New York's best seller, you never know. Call it like "Dumb Decisions" or some **** like that :)

[Nitro]

Holy Chit son!!! keep your head up tho......that's the *real life* scenarios kicking u back to reality....we all get it someway....somehow....sometime


holla if u need help with anything. :yes:

[gforce23]

Holy **** man.. banging two chicks on the same day and getting them pregnant =. :goodjob: :goodjob:
I really admire your sense of responsibility.. hope everything works out for ya..

[lespaulman16]

I know running this shiit is also expensive. I know you said you would never charge but If there was a way to donate, I would. Kind of like a supporting member type thing on other boards. The way you are handling the situation is the main reason I want to donate. Awesome man. Let me know.
x2 i'd put up some dough to help you out man... lmk

[JITB]

jesus...everything happens for a reason right?

[Leisa]

Well, I got internet back .. out for a few days...


Anyways, On a serious note... I will make this thread but remember.. Im not asking for pitty one bit... I just felt like sharing and letting it all out.

Only my close personal friends know about whats been going on in my life since NOV 5th....


1st - My 23 year old Brother gets arrested for Arm robbery & assault along with 2 other people... really crushed me... Facing 10 to 20 years . Waiting on sentencing date.


2nd - At the end of Dec - begging of Jan I go to Dominican Republic, I get arrested for a couple of days for : carrying without permit, Involved in shooting... Dead person involved.. Me and My buddy get arrested... facing Murder. Only reason I was let go was thanks to a heavy fine and my buddy's dad is in with the goverment over there.. So they took his word for me.
Had to Return to DR in FEB for court and to show I was innocent....
I only took one shot, Up in the air.. I was Innocent.
Guilty party was arrested thanks to eye witness... He confesed.
My Name was cleared..This cost me alot of money...I ran out of my savings, Maxed out credit cards, took out some loans and still wasnt enough.. I was running out of time at one point before the court date in FEB... I had to ask my Father, I didnt want to due to the spending he was doing with my brother.. I Thought about selling the Vette, But had no time... But I had no choice but to ask my father.... It sucked. But hey..


3rd - As things are getting back to normal- Im paying everything, no problems..........

On Sunday - Feb 10, I had Unprotected sex with 2 females in DR - 21 year old and a 18 year female...
Dont know what the **** I was thinking.. My Court date was schedule for the next day... So we started drinking early that sunday.. Got this 2 chicks and did my thing.. without thinking.
I had sex with quite a few girls in DR, But never unprotected..... :cry:


4th - Around mid-march I get a phone call... Is one of the girls I slept with (21 year old one).... hey, I have been having symptoms/no period blah blah blah... So I call my budy to go get her and take her to the hospital get check out... She is pregnant...

When They told me that.. I was like ****ing great... Abortion came to my mind.. But abortions are illegal in DR (sorda) so it was going to be tough...
And then I started thinking, well **** it.. When the kid is born we will do a DNA and take it from there... If its mine.. no problem...

5th - Towards the end of April, I get another call, Now is the 18 year old girl... Crying, saying she was scared because she hasnt got a period since before I went there in FEB... I swear that when She said this I felt like the whole world just got on top of me... She didnt know what to do... I call my buddy .. same **** again, take her to the hospital find out whats going on...
He was shocked also and pretty much just told me how stupid I was and ****.. I agreed.. But this girl in particular, I had taken her Virginity back in DEC.. So I wasnt as worried about going Rubberless.. But still , I came back over here, She couldve **** with someone else and ****... The 21 year old chic, already had a chic and Im a bit more worried about her blaming me for being the father.
Anyways, My buddy calls me.. and tells me to sit down.. the 18 year gold is also Pregnant.

So, If Im really the father of both, That means, they both got knockup the same day ( sorda) I had sex with one around 1pm .. The other around 10pm or so...


So, since Im getting blamed for this, I have to pay for all there treatments and child birth up until the DNA.. and I have to also pay the DNA TEST.

Why dont I just say **** it and not even call these chics again? ****, Im here they are over there...
Because, Honestly, If both kids are mines, I would be ashamed to even be alive, I couldnt do something like that.
If kids are not mines, Supposdly I will get my money back.. I highly doubt it.. But Honestly, Im not risking any chances in case they are my kids... I want them to know, I took care of both of them dispite being 2 different Mothers since day 1.. no question.

Now, This is not cheap.. So, I started thinking.. wtf Am I going to do now...

Sell one of my cars.. vette would be the bet.. Since is not really "needed" per say.. My job pays great.. but with all my expenses that are coming up with the kids and cost of doctors visit I needed to do something...
Now, I have a 2nd job, I deliver pizzas now at night.. I honestly never thought I had to..... Last year I made $71,180.. pretty good income I say....
Now I have a 2nd job due to not thinking and making some dumb decisions..

Once I pay some of my loans off I shouldnt really need a 2nd job.... It was either go do that or sell my toy..

I said **** it, I have time, 2 arms 2 legs .. I can do it..


So.. DNA will prove Im the father.. im 98 % sure on the 18 year girl and about 80% on the 21 year old chic.. Just a gut feeling.. You never know.. cant trust bitches these days....

Rollercoaster...



But is :bump: :D :cheers: :ninja:




damn! sorry to hear this!!!

[1SICKLEX]

Well, I got internet back .. out for a few days...


Anyways, On a serious note... I will make this thread but remember.. Im not asking for pitty one bit... I just felt like sharing and letting it all out.

Only my close personal friends know about whats been going on in my life since NOV 5th....


1st - My 23 year old Brother gets arrested for Arm robbery & assault along with 2 other people... really crushed me... Facing 10 to 20 years . Waiting on sentencing date.


2nd - At the end of Dec - begging of Jan I go to Dominican Republic, I get arrested for a couple of days for : carrying without permit, Involved in shooting... Dead person involved.. Me and My buddy get arrested... facing Murder. Only reason I was let go was thanks to a heavy fine and my buddy's dad is in with the goverment over there.. So they took his word for me.
Had to Return to DR in FEB for court and to show I was innocent....
I only took one shot, Up in the air.. I was Innocent.
Guilty party was arrested thanks to eye witness... He confesed.
My Name was cleared..This cost me alot of money...I ran out of my savings, Maxed out credit cards, took out some loans and still wasnt enough.. I was running out of time at one point before the court date in FEB... I had to ask my Father, I didnt want to due to the spending he was doing with my brother.. I Thought about selling the Vette, But had no time... But I had no choice but to ask my father.... It sucked. But hey..


3rd - As things are getting back to normal- Im paying everything, no problems..........

On Sunday - Feb 10, I had Unprotected sex with 2 females in DR - 21 year old and a 18 year female...
Dont know what the **** I was thinking.. My Court date was schedule for the next day... So we started drinking early that sunday.. Got this 2 chicks and did my thing.. without thinking.
I had sex with quite a few girls in DR, But never unprotected..... :cry:


4th - Around mid-march I get a phone call... Is one of the girls I slept with (21 year old one).... hey, I have been having symptoms/no period blah blah blah... So I call my budy to go get her and take her to the hospital get check out... She is pregnant...

When They told me that.. I was like ****ing great... Abortion came to my mind.. But abortions are illegal in DR (sorda) so it was going to be tough...
And then I started thinking, well **** it.. When the kid is born we will do a DNA and take it from there... If its mine.. no problem...

5th - Towards the end of April, I get another call, Now is the 18 year old girl... Crying, saying she was scared because she hasnt got a period since before I went there in FEB... I swear that when She said this I felt like the whole world just got on top of me... She didnt know what to do... I call my buddy .. same **** again, take her to the hospital find out whats going on...
He was shocked also and pretty much just told me how stupid I was and ****.. I agreed.. But this girl in particular, I had taken her Virginity back in DEC.. So I wasnt as worried about going Rubberless.. But still , I came back over here, She couldve **** with someone else and ****... The 21 year old chic, already had a chic and Im a bit more worried about her blaming me for being the father.
Anyways, My buddy calls me.. and tells me to sit down.. the 18 year gold is also Pregnant.

So, If Im really the father of both, That means, they both got knockup the same day ( sorda) I had sex with one around 1pm .. The other around 10pm or so...


So, since Im getting blamed for this, I have to pay for all there treatments and child birth up until the DNA.. and I have to also pay the DNA TEST.

Why dont I just say **** it and not even call these chics again? ****, Im here they are over there...
Because, Honestly, If both kids are mines, I would be ashamed to even be alive, I couldnt do something like that.
If kids are not mines, Supposdly I will get my money back.. I highly doubt it.. But Honestly, Im not risking any chances in case they are my kids... I want them to know, I took care of both of them dispite being 2 different Mothers since day 1.. no question.

Now, This is not cheap.. So, I started thinking.. wtf Am I going to do now...

Sell one of my cars.. vette would be the bet.. Since is not really "needed" per say.. My job pays great.. but with all my expenses that are coming up with the kids and cost of doctors visit I needed to do something...
Now, I have a 2nd job, I deliver pizzas now at night.. I honestly never thought I had to..... Last year I made $71,180.. pretty good income I say....
Now I have a 2nd job due to not thinking and making some dumb decisions..

Once I pay some of my loans off I shouldnt really need a 2nd job.... It was either go do that or sell my toy..

I said **** it, I have time, 2 arms 2 legs .. I can do it..


So.. DNA will prove Im the father.. im 98 % sure on the 18 year girl and about 80% on the 21 year old chic.. Just a gut feeling.. You never know.. cant trust bitches these days....

Rollercoaster...



But is :bump: :D :cheers: :ninja:

Got damn dude. Good luck mahn.

[EM1toEVO]

I would hate to be in that situation. I hope everything works out for you. I think you're doing the right thing to take care of them. You would hate yourself later in life for not taking care of your kids when they needed you.

[RandomGuy]

holy sh!t .... thats straight out of a movie

good luck!

i bet the chicks in DR are thinkin that they hit the jackpot getting impregnated by an American.

[On_Her_Face]

wow, good luck man

[MistaCee]

This make me feel alot better about my drama... Sucks man and goodluck.

[quickdodge®]

\
Only my close personal friends know about whats been going on in my life since NOV 5th....\

I am privileged to be in that company. Later, QD.

[Batlground]

DUDE....

Matt

[Iawa]

wow dude, and i complain that my car never works. you have much more important problems. i have no room to talk.


hope you get it all sorted out.

Indeed

[BB6dohcvtec]

damn man hope everything works out the way you want it.

[GIXXERDK]

Your setting yourself up to sell IA, huh?!



jk, good luck

[Brett]

Damn man, sorry you have been going through so much these days, If you need to vent and someone to talk to man, hit me up day or night bro.

[HalfBaked]

You got super sperm or something son?

Damn.

But on the real...

Got any pics of these girls?

[Chuckster]

Wow... You just released some stress off my back. Seems like when life is getting back on track, Something else comes and D-rails your a$$.

Best of luck to you.

[ahmonrah]

so that explains the lack on contact..........HOLY CHIT!
there have got to be some solutions........(gears turning)

[4dmin]

wow buddy - crazy past 6 months, but you are definitely a man stepping up to the plate for these chicks; most guys would run :goodjob:

[quickdodge®]

wow buddy - crazy past 6 months, but you are definitely a man stepping up to the plate for these chicks; most guys would run :goodjob:

That's the same thing I told him a while back. Most dudes would run at the thought of just ONE girl getting pregnant. Let alone two. Later, QD.

[ShooterMcGavin]

holy sh1t...i'm speechless. goodluck to you is all i can say...that and mad respect for stepping up and taking responsibility when 90%+ of chumps out there would just run.

[ShooterMcGavin]

btw, mad props for having some super sperm too if both these kids are yours...you DEFINITELY need to wear rubbers, for the sake of the females :D

[Oz10]

I hope everything works out. I respect your responsibility.

[mike's02ls1]

Damn Julio... You are a stand up guy, and had alot happen in a short time. I couldn't even say I understand where you're coming from cause I can't. Good luck with what happens, and I know if you are the father of both that you will be the best dad around.. We need to grab a beer sometime!!
Mike

[Fr33way]

That's some real perspective right there, damn. Best of luck with everything.

[BLK JDM]

Damn $71K tell me how!!

Oh and at least you'll know that you have a pretty high sperm count and you're not infertile. To me children are angels so do the right thing.

I don't have any but hopefully one day when I "think" I'm ready.

Good luck and things generally work out for the best.

And also you're one of the few whose gotten out of a murder rap!!

[Kevykev]

Julio I will punch you in the Arm Hard as hell if you're BSin'.

[xLSTONEx]

Damn, thats one hell of a story though. You might want to go get the snip. Good luck with everything.

[Timinater]

im not gonna lie to you, when i dont use a rubber, i gennerally pull out.. maybe thats just me. i must say though im glad your man-ing up. that takes real balls. good luck though.

[slow_hatch]

:eek: Wow, that straight up movie ****. Fukin shooting people up one day, then getting it on with 2 chicks the next. Yeah, so from now on when I think that my day is going bad i'll just think about this thread :(

[Blitanicle99]

I never had the pleasure of meeting ya, you seem like a stand up guy and maybe Ill run into you one day at the meets.

But what I wanted to say is, your still alive, your still sane and you aint dead yet son. Your obviously surving, your doing what you gotta do to survive and thats the end of it. Yeah, ya ****ed up. Yes, you might have 2 girls pregnant that are gonna be pissssed when they find out that it was the same day...

I think your kinda at that whole fight club thing "Once you've lost everthing, your free to do anything". I give you mad props for sticking with two girls and riding it out. My ass would probably never step foot in that country again, and disappear as fast as possible at least at my current situation with school and what not.

Good luck man.

[Julio]

crazy ****.. but hey.. thanks for the good words my peeps.. gotta keep hustling..

[Julio]

Damn $71K tell me how!!

Oh and at least you'll know that you have a pretty high sperm count and you're not infertile. To me children are angels so do the right thing.

I don't have any but hopefully one day when I "think" I'm ready.

Good luck and things generally work out for the best.

And also you're one of the few whose gotten out of a murder rap!!



High fertile count ahhaha .. I think the dominican beer dont play !


Im glad for eye witness who decided to speak up.. + the guy admited after all.. so somebody was looking down on me..

If you find one good company to work for man..and is moving foward and you can move up easy then stick it out.. You know I work @ Racetrac... a brand new GM there makes a min of 50 to 53k a year.. Ive been there 7+. Money is not bad there.. I also had a PT job last year..Just got to stick it out.. and other little things I had here and there....

[PIprez]

****, sorry to hear of all the troubles. if you need anything man let me know, even if is just a cold beer. you know I'll be there for ya.

[GuessWho]

Cya on Maury Povich...
That sucks man but good luck...

[osiriskidd]

good luck man. one careless act can change your whole life. i'm sure you can do it though.

[dkjohnson04]

props for being a man!! thats some real shi* right there, hope it all works out for ya man!