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lespaulman16
04-28-2008, 10:56 PM
hey guys,
i wanted to link you to a thread over on vwvortex.com where a friend of mine is asking for prayer for his young wife. she is in horrible shape and the doctors give her little to no chance of survival. they are doing their best to save their twin girls but are still not sure if they can or not. please take time to read it and remember them in your prayers.
thanks guys,
Ben K.

Pray for Eric and his girls (http://forums.vwvortex.com/zerothread?id=3792772&page=1)

Dr.G35
04-28-2008, 11:33 PM
best wishes to your friend and his new family

F20Cpsi
04-28-2008, 11:35 PM
they're in my prayers.

lespaulman16
04-28-2008, 11:53 PM
thanks guys... please everyone think about them... i can't imagine

_Christian_
04-29-2008, 06:51 AM
That's really sad. I'm keeping them in my thoughts.

cactusEG
04-29-2008, 07:25 AM
Damn thats sad as hell. Hopfuly thing will work out and get better...

Nitro
04-29-2008, 07:37 AM
Awwww man......best wishes go out to em brah.

Sammich
04-29-2008, 07:48 AM
i hope it works out for the best man

lespaulman16
04-29-2008, 10:01 AM
here is all of the dialog off of the tex that refers to her illness... the forum on there is 21 pages long at the moment iirc. eric is her boyfriend and vdubspornstar08 is her best friend. these are in chronological order from the 16th of april until the present.


My girlfriend and the mother of my unborn twins are in serious condition. Something has caused her to go into a coma and the doctors can not figure out why. She has not been awake since monday before her surgery to relieve the pressure around her brain and the surgery did not help. So, if you could spare a moment and pray for Nikki and my girls, i would appreciate it. If I lose her, i don't know what I am going to do, because she means everything in this world to me. :(


My thoughts and prayers are with you, Tell my best friend get well I need her to help me aggravate you .make you jealous of my Jetta.And I love her. :( .My favorite Prego pic.. Eric's Nikki

http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m258/rollinnavdubgirl/Nicole.jpg


She has been diagnosed with a rare form of cancer - Adrenal cancer. :(


My dear friend Nicole is in surgery fighting for her life as well as her girls, she is very weak from her battle, She is very young which is good. Her twins are due July 29th 2008. So far the twins are stable and the type of cancer she has due to her pregnancy the tumor unknown to her, has grew and is causing her problems. but I know God is with her and the girls, Bless you Eric ,be strong!!


Ok, so they got most of the tumor out, but could not get it all, it was bigger than originally thought. There is medication out there that they can give her to destroy the rest of the tumor, but with this being a rare case still not out of the woods yet.

The twins are doing fine which is really good news. Thank you for all your support, it really means alot. :thumbup: to the vdub community


Got some bad news, they found another tumor that is higher. Problem with this cancer is the only way to get rid of it is surgery. She is already weak and they are deciding whether to go back in to remove this tumor. Pray everyone, pray


They are going back in, if they get it all out, then that is really good, if they don't, then they give her 3 months to a year if she wakes up. Please God, save my girls.


Nikki, these girls are going to be a hand full, I need you to fight.

http://lateapex.baked.net/albums/mygirls/cheyenne.jpg
http://lateapex.baked.net/albums/mygirls/Erika_hi.jpg


My friend Nicole had the surgery, She is clinging to life. They removed all they could of the tumors, The doctors have given her a drug to paralize her,due to swelling and the pain is so horrible, they feel it is the best bet for her at this time.. Her bodies natural defense is to abort the girls, so they are giving her meds to stop the miscarriage. She is a free bleeder which has cause alot of problems for her. If they can keep her alive till she can have the girls taken(c-section) She will then have to get stem cell treatments. Eric cannot post right now ,he cant see to type..he needs his friends. If she lives she will have no recent memory only childhood. But that's nothing we can work on .The problem being Eric and Nicole arent married and her parents are over her, Her parents, have come to the decision that no more attempts to save Nikki or the girls will be done. Eric really could use his friends right now. :( The ones of you that know Nikki, have been blessed like me, she can work on any car as good and better than most men, She is beautiful inside and out, she loves people. She never judges or acts better than anyone. She would give her last dime to anyone.She once traveled 50 miles to get a man's car running so he could go to work and take care of his family. she was really into fund raisiers. Children ,the elderly. Volkswagens has been her dreams and her reality since the age of 4 ,her father said.She worked in his shop since she was old enough to turn a wrench in Virginia. She and Eric are orginally from Virginia, but met each other here on vortex. Then kindled the love connection in Virginia. Please fight Nicole, We need you. I love you. Anyone that knows Eric please keep in touch with him, ,he is really needing us all, to keep him strong...
Nikki with her vdubgirls
http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m258/rollinnavdubgirl/NikkiandVdubGirls.jpg


Eric is asking for no money, he is still working. She has a very large family that stay with her.. she has a very good insurance. he just needs maybe someone to take him out to lunch,or dinner, give him a call or just, PM or IM him, to keep his mind off things,(thats my imput) He does appreciate everyone that has offered,but he and Nicole donot need help with cash,just prayers.,But a very big hand to all the vortex community that has been here for the both of them,and the girls. Tonight they are taking Nicole off the drug that paralizes her,which this kept her from hurting and swelling, then slowly she will have to try to breathe on her own. If she has a reduce amount of brain waves they will not proceed in saving her life,so Eric ask that you all keep her in your prayers.Ericka twin B is having some problems,But Nicole's Dad says that her body was trying to get rid of the girls, its a natural defense for the body to do that.But it has stopped. The one thing that is so amazing about these two people besides them being really good people and friends, Nicole's Girls are miracles,she wasnt suppose to have any kids to begin with, so i just know she has to get better. Thank You all, Bless You

lespaulman16
04-29-2008, 10:02 AM
More:


Thanks everyone, Angel is right, we don't need the money, just need prayers and a miracle. Nikki are our girls have to survive. Thank you for all the support. :thumbup: :thumbup: to you guys and gals


She has started to breathe on her own, but not much, she is in alot of pain.

Please don't send money, Thank you for the offer though. That is not what is needed, her medical expenses are covered.

Please just continue to pray and i am being as strong as i can, though it is hard at times.


She hasn't shown any improvement since other day. I am praying and trying to stay strong and I want to thank you guys for all that ya'll have done. As I have said before, no money is needed, just a miracle.


She has gone back into surgery to relieve some pressure, if this doesn't work, then she is not going to survive. She has to survive, she has to pull through, God, I need her so much.


Hey sweetie you gonna kill me, so i thought what would make you so mad you would want to come and kick my butt, i thought , hmmm... first remember I love you alot, and cry and miss you so bad...well girl,remember when you had this picture taken and told me, NEVER SHOW THIS PICTURE OR I'LL KILL YOU!!!! Cause Im a beached whale!!!(you arent your still beautiful) well this is my reply to you today ,bring it baby here you go!!! Cmere kick my butt!!! I want you to come home to us.
http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m258/rollinnavdubgirl/herewego.jpg


I was told never to post any pictures of her like that, but this one makes me smile, thank you


I was just woke up by Nikki's sister, she told me Nikki made it through surgery,and they found alot more that should have been done the last time. Also they found they were using two items she is severely allergic to on her ,latex and betadine. They got the shunt to working and pressure is being released. She is moving her arms,and wiggling her toes. Still unconcious and the doctors have gave her a slim chance of survial and if she does there will be brain damage. The twins are already doing better,they are both moving now and breathng like they should. Her family and Eric, would like to thank all of you for your prayers,They beleive because of all the vw community,,it is a sign that Nicole will pull though and live and without brain damage. You all have given them strenght to push Nicole and her Doctors to go past what was medically accepted. The doctors also have seen the post and this thread is copied and in frames all over her room, Thank you all. keep the prayers coming and Nicole try hard girlfriend I need you to fight I love you. I want you to teach me snowboarding and for me to teach you how to skate board ,and most of all i want to hold the girls. and see your sweet smile,oh ok and you and I aggravate Eric on who has the best car or who drives the best, Just torture him, you know how we are, Eric she loves you so very much.. Gute Besserung Nikki


I need you fight Nikki cause I know that you want to do this one day. Fight because I love you.
http://video.google.com/videop...hl=en (http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5688663593845269973&hl=en)


I am not trying to be rude or Nicole's family are not trying to be disrespectful, but today they ask all friends to please let this day just be for the family, today a host of neices and nephews from all over the world,and brothers and sisters,cousins aunts and uncles will come to see Nikki, Then the parents will decide along with Nicole's connected sister ,what they are going to do, It is a terrible and horrible decision they must make. It will effect Nikki and her girls, They asked me to ask all you kind wonderful people to please give them today alone the hospital is complaining that so many people are there, This will be a very hard day on her sister and Eric,My prayers go out to them, to give them the strenght to decide what the best thing to do for them all. Nicole's body is starting to decay, this does not mean she cant come back to us, but she cant be touched at all.Only medical staff. She just cant seem to learn how to inhale .The twins have 20 days and they can be taken and survive, but the question is can Nicole make it those 20 days and should they abort the twins to save her. This truly will be a very hard day on the family, They appreciate all of you guys that have come to see her,radio stations picking up on the request to pressure the hospital to go futher than that is normal. Mostly for the Volkswagen community for all you guys prayers. Id like to give you all a big :thumbup: Thank You, God Bless you all!!!

lespaulman16
04-29-2008, 10:03 AM
Most recent updates:


I sure hope so because I am finding it hard right now, it is just hard think of life without her, so i try not to, trying to stay positive, i really am, if I could figure out a way for me to take her place, I would do it, let me take all the pain


At 2 am they are making a final decision, Her older brother will be here to see her. Im sure they have already decided ,but they are giving her a little more time..She isnt inhaling at all, no longer gasping or choking to bring in air,,she just does nothing till the machine cuts back on, so she isnt breathing at all on her at this time :( But a tape recorder with each post is on it and it is being played over and over......Thanks everyone. Along with voice clips of Eric and of her oldest nephew Tyler. But she needs to breathe or we all know the results :banghead: I love you Nicole


I love you Nicole, please, I need you :(


Nicole's oldest sister just woke me.All attemts will be to save the twins,nothing more to save Nicole,but to keep her body as a incubator till the girls are taken c-section,then my friend Nikki will be not given any help to live she will perish that day..Nikki I love you girl, who will I tell my secrets too, my dreams ,my future plans, times when im sad and you cheer me up, :( I hope I did all that for you too my dear sweet Nic.


I hope so, i have been pretty down in the dumps today, but we found a letter that she wrote right before she went into the hospital and it is my reminder that she loves me, no matter what happens. There is just so many things I want to tell her, so many things that I want to do with her. So many things I want to show her.


Well, the hospital took all of her monitoring equipment off which isn't right, even took the tubes out for drainage, so this morning, she went back in to surgery have everything put back in, we think that she does hear us because she does have brain activity, but we aren't sure how much she will remember

I am hoping and praying for a miracle everyday.


Thank you , I didnt know there was people like this all of you, thank all 700 sailors. I bet if she pulls through she would want to kiss and hug all you guys, and everyone on vortex .


Thank you all for the support :thumbup:


Nicole has been moved to a private owned convelesant home. She wasnt given correct care and the hospital has rules on when its time to give up. At this new place she has several good Doctors that want to go farther than normal,and the family can see her daily. Which had been taken away, I want you to know that every page is going on her walls in frames. And her sister has recorded herself reading them, all the prayers will help, Eric has his videos playing and sound clips of him telling her to fight. Along with a host of nieces and nephews begging her to wake up,because they only get 10 mins every 2 hours.. Heartbeats of the girls are loud and strong, She has some good God fearing Doctors that beleive in miracles now. So now we just pray, They are operating this morning, to see if there is a blockage to why she cant inhale. We are praying that she is strong enough to pull through. Thank all of you and your family's keep those prayers coming. Nic fight like you never have before, like when you struggled with that transmission, all the guys laughed said you couldnt do it by your self ,lol you did, jacks and stands ,blocks and time, few broken nails but you did it, come on show us all you can get thru this, I love you ..Eric and your sister arent giving up on you, so you dont either girl.

TheProfiteer
04-29-2008, 10:14 AM
Oh man, this is really heartbreaking.

Best wishes to Nikki and Eric, I really hope the twins pull through.

Leisa
04-29-2008, 10:35 AM
That is absolutely horrible.. They dont know what caused her to have this problem?.. What about the babies, are they ok? You definitely have my prayers! :(

Leisa
04-29-2008, 10:42 AM
Oh man, this is really heartbreaking.

Best wishes to Nikki and Eric, I really hope the twins pull through.


OMG.. yes it is!

SLOWLYbtngU
04-29-2008, 10:59 AM
Wow, I am crying at work... :(

_Christian_
04-29-2008, 11:29 AM
boo freakin hoo.

you should learn to have some level of decency

Brett
04-29-2008, 11:54 AM
Wow, Please keep us updated on that thread there, I hope she pulls through

HeLLo iM iZzY
04-29-2008, 02:04 PM
boo freakin hoo.

http://www.blackratchet.org/etc/waaahmbulance.jpgWhat a fukin ****.

Anyways, I wish the best of everything to these guys. I couldn't imagine going through something like this.

Killer
04-29-2008, 02:09 PM
i didn't read this whole thread.. but i did read the OP on the other forum.. that's horrible.. prayers and thoughts are with them...

i couldn't even imagine...

Revmaynard
04-29-2008, 02:16 PM
boo freakin hoo.

http://www.blackratchet.org/etc/waaahmbulance.jpg


Too bad this guy isn't the one in the comma. My best wishes go out to anyone related.

Elbow
04-29-2008, 06:14 PM
They are all def. in my prayers

dohc4.6sc
04-29-2008, 07:58 PM
i literally cryed while reading all of that, my prayers thoughts and wishes have gone out and will go out again tonight before i go to bed.

rupertaker
04-29-2008, 10:34 PM
I read the updates and just started to cry.

They are all in my prayers.

chinitoxamor
04-29-2008, 10:59 PM
boo freakin hoo.





i hope someone hits your car on the highway and flip your damn car into the median. learn to be more polite and caring about whats going on in other people's lives

IndianStig
04-29-2008, 11:04 PM
didn't read it all but i hope they get better!

EM1toEVO
04-29-2008, 11:27 PM
I will keep them in my prayers.

lespaulman16
04-29-2008, 11:29 PM
guys i talked to eric on aim tonight and was physicaly in tears... he's an amazing person... please continue to call out Nikki's name to the Lord (or think or whatever you do). Nikki's family seems to have resolved in their mind that she is gone so it's only us believing for a miracle now... come on Nikki, you can do it!!

Jecht
04-29-2008, 11:33 PM
boo freakin hoo.

http://www.blackratchet.org/etc/waaahmbulance.jpg

What a ****ing douchebag, major reps to you.

Hope she makes it through it, I feel sorry for the guy. :(

Leisa
04-30-2008, 11:56 AM
guys i talked to eric on aim tonight and was physicaly in tears... he's an amazing person... please continue to call out Nikki's name to the Lord (or think or whatever you do). Nikki's family seems to have resolved in their mind that she is gone so it's only us believing for a miracle now... come on Nikki, you can do it!!


this is awful.... do they know whats going to happen to the babies?

The Yousef
04-30-2008, 08:49 PM
OMG....she's in my prayers :(

dohc4.6sc
04-30-2008, 09:37 PM
any update as of tonight?

lespaulman16
04-30-2008, 10:21 PM
yeah they moved Nikki to a different hospital last night (iirc). the one she was in didn't read her chart correctly and they gave her some form of medicine that she is deathly allergic to as well as using latex gloves when operating on her. besides her own body's struggle to survive, they triggered 2 separate severe anaphylactic reactions. the new hospital thinks that they can stop the reactions though.
the big news is that she moved her hand today. she moved her hand from her side and laid it on top of her stomach. this is an incredible step. the doctors said that they will work on her for the next 8 days to try to get her breathing on her own again. if after 8 days, she is not breathing on her own, they will go ahead and do a c-section then remove her from the machines that are keeping her alive. she will then perish in a matter of minutes.
PLEASE PRAY THAT WITHIN THE NEXT 8 DAYS NIKKI BEGINS TO BREATH ON HER OWN

lespaulman16
04-30-2008, 10:24 PM
this is awful.... do they know whats going to happen to the babies?

they are hoping that they can save them. they have given her 8 days to begin breathing on her own or they will do an emergency c-section to remove the twins. after the twins are safely free, they will take Nikki off of life support and let nature run it's course :cry:

let's agree together tonight (and for the next 8 days) that this is not going to be the case.

FasTech
04-30-2008, 10:50 PM
Sorry to hear bout it, but no matter what happens, God has a reason for it and don't lose faith in him, they will be in my prayers and this Sunday at church, I'll put them on the prayer list.

lespaulman16
04-30-2008, 10:52 PM
Sorry to hear bout it, but no matter what happens, God has a reason for it and don't lose faith in him, they will be in my prayers and this Sunday at church, I'll put them on the prayer list.

thanks buddy... i've been trying to remind eric that philipians 4 13 says "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

FasTech
04-30-2008, 10:55 PM
thanks buddy... i've been trying to remind eric that philipians 4 13 says "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

^amen, Tell eric not give up.

lespaulman16
05-01-2008, 01:14 AM
before bed bump

puregroove
05-01-2008, 01:43 AM
man... +1 that is extremely heartbreaking...

Eric, Nikki, and the twins are lifted up fa sho...

please keep us up to date...

GSRteg®
05-01-2008, 01:53 AM
My prayer for you family is going out tonight.

buddha@TeamFX
05-02-2008, 01:58 PM
My prayers are with them.

ksniperfox
05-02-2008, 02:20 PM
just a heads up-my previous post on the first page will be deleted. my sole intent was to make people angry, as it causes me to lirl at people getting mad over the internets. i apologize if anyone took this personally. hopefully the girl will be ok.

Leisa
05-02-2008, 05:09 PM
update?

lespaulman16
05-03-2008, 01:15 AM
update?
none yet chica... i was out in knoxville with bryant tonight and eric didn't text me. last i heard the breathing lung thingy was doing 92 percent of the work for her and she was doing 8 on her own. some brain activity present. she had NO brain activity last weekend and was not breathing on her own whatsoever... this is quite an improvement in eric's eyes... you all PLEASE continue to pray!!

lespaulman16
05-03-2008, 11:41 PM
no update today... i have not talked to eric in a little while (which means nothing has gotten worse). as soon as i do i will update this thread. guys i really appreciate all the thoughts/ prayers and covet your future ones for eric, nikki, and the twins. please do not slack off as i can not imagine what it would be like to loose my best friend/ fiance and my baby girls...
thanks so much,
Ben K.

lespaulman16
05-04-2008, 09:52 PM
bad update... NEED PRAYER... here's a copy paste of it:

I think alot of you didnt understand what Eric posted, her lungs have collasped she was good yesterday till last night, they operated and tried to help. But today she has gotten weaker and weaker.Her Sister told me Nic is on full ventalator now,they are allowed to stay around the clock for 10 mins every 2 hours. (2 people) immediate family. They have decided to let God decide Nikki and the girls future, I personally am not letting her give up, Get up girl im tired of this, I know you hurt hunny ,but you have to try for our girls and yourself.

dohc4.6sc
05-04-2008, 10:36 PM
bad update... NEED PRAYER... here's a copy paste of it:

she has faught this long, i hope and pray everything will be ok. but i am being very optimistic and i think everything will work out. they are still in my prayers every minute of the day. just keep us updated and dont make us cry. we want news but would perfer good news. im prayin/cryin for the whole family now.

lespaulman16
05-04-2008, 11:49 PM
she has faught this long, i hope and pray everything will be ok. but i am being very optimistic and i think everything will work out. they are still in my prayers every minute of the day. just keep us updated and dont make us cry. we want news but would perfer good news. im prayin/cryin for the whole family now.
man i've cried on and off since i posted this up... it's kiling me... keep praying

ilovemyhonda.
05-05-2008, 07:35 AM
i just now read everything, and i started to cry at work. i cant imagine this happening to anyone. i will pray for nikki, eric and the twins..i hope she pulls through and everything gets better.

Elbow
05-05-2008, 09:20 AM
They have been on my mind since I first read this.

lespaulman16
05-05-2008, 10:11 AM
eric just sent this out. she wrote it for him the night she blacked out for the last time:


Dearest Eric,
I know things are so hard right now,my family not
liking you cause you are OSD. But I have been crazy about you since
the first time,you pm me on the forum, And even more funnier my sister
say's get in my name and talk to this guy he sounds real sweet and you
two may hit it off, I fell for you that first day,knowing you were
from Virginia and I was from Newport News,Va. I knew hun we were meant to be, forgive me for my stupid ways.
Growing up in a home of drunks,I know I had to be a
pain to you,but you hung on and stopped being that, I never asked you
to lose weight,you look so handsome,I am very proud of you my love.
But dont lose it so fast. Which is why i need to ask you to always
love the girls ,teach them about cars,how to overhaul them and make
theirselves proud, just like if they were boys, I want them to be like
me in that manner , But still very girlie, Take care of them, Im
thinking my cancer is worse or something is wrong, I hurt and I know
somethings not right. I have asked the Dr. but he says settling pains,
hun, if something happens, save my girls.
My racing hot hunny, I love you, My family may not like you ,but we are one, no one but God can separate us. Please tell my new mom (your mother) Thanxs for being so kind and loving. I thought she would hate me,being younger than you and getting pregnant. I'm gonna close my eyes ,wake me when you get home, I want kisses..

here is the latest update. im in tears:


Nicole is still not improving yet, her kidneys have shut down,She is not responding ,but some experimental meds are being used now. So pray please

P. A.
05-05-2008, 11:54 AM
They are in my toughts and prayers...

Leisa
05-05-2008, 11:58 AM
OMG.. that is sooo sad.. Are they going to try to save the babies... ???

Kevykev
05-05-2008, 12:53 PM
Unbelievably sad story.

Prayer said.


Ksniper wtf is your problem man?

lespaulman16
05-05-2008, 10:20 PM
OMG.. that is sooo sad.. Are they going to try to save the babies... ???
they are. the problem is that they are not due until the last week of JULY. not june like i first thought. at this point their lungs have not developed to the point to allow them to survive without being connected toher umbilical cord (or at least my understanding, any mothers/ doctors/ knowing individuals post up if you know about something that lets them do that... im not real up to date on this kinda stuff). everyone on vortex lit candles at 9 o'clock tonight for nikki, eric, and one for each twen. if you want, light candles and post up pics... i'll post them up for eric to see... here's one that brought a tear to my eye:


This is for you Nikki, that seat right there is saved for you

http://lateapex.baked.net/albums/mygirls/fornikki_010.sized.jpg

http://lateapex.baked.net/albums/mygirls/fornikki_011.sized.jpg

Leisa
05-06-2008, 09:40 AM
Damn.. thats sad... I will continue to pray... I hope everything turns out well..

topsecret2JZ
05-06-2008, 01:02 PM
we are praying

dkjohnson04
05-06-2008, 01:13 PM
Best wishes to the family and i hope everything works out for the best!! My prayers are with ya'll!! God bless.

buddha@TeamFX
05-06-2008, 01:17 PM
Still in prayer for that family...

Brett
05-06-2008, 01:32 PM
Just seems bad news is coming from everywhere these days. she and the twins are still in my prayers

Sibious
05-06-2008, 01:34 PM
best wishes, very sad moment in time.

lespaulman16
05-06-2008, 01:42 PM
New update:


I have some good news but yet sad news. Nicole is been receiving the new drug to help her and the girls lungs and reduce swelling (fluid). And this morning at 4:27 am they started taking off the paralizing drug, She is now breathing(inhaling something she could not do before, at 5 percent (her breathing 5% and the ventalator doing the rest at 95%, She has moved her hand to her belly, and she keeps it there,if you pull her hand down she will put it back.. Her pnuemonia is better. She has learned to inhale some on her own now 5%, But Erikka twin b named after Daddy Eric, is not doing good, her lungs are not developed enough to be taken by c-section, but the fluid that surrounds the babies is not what it should be, there seems not to be enough, Twin B is in stress. They are having to come up with the hardest decision ever, we all know what Nic wanted, But to her mom and dad and stepdad, she is their lil girl, they dont want to lose her. Eric doesnt want to lose Nic but knows her wishes. I know what she told me, without my girls I would not want to spend a day on this earth . and the other thing is, Doctors have to do what is the best for each. At this time,Nicole and Erikka probably would not make it through surgery, So before everyone condems the parents, its a decision made by them all, Nikki and the twins will remain together,in God's hand, It is going to be all three or none at this time. If Nikki was to keep getting better they will save her, If the girls with increased meds and new filters and mostly just time ,time they need to grow and develope ,they will save the girls. C-section is not a alternative at this point. It's a hard decision one they are having a hard time over, but have decided to let God's mercy save them all,or let him take the ones he wants, Please dont think them mean, there is really no option, but that could change at any given day, Nicole has a guardian and eric and her dad and her sister will do the decisions all together. I hope its all the right decisions , they ask for understanding and more postive posting and prayer. Where she is at Eric has no rights over her and the girls are not considered anything but fetus,(he has attorneys) but they are allowing him to have a say in this. I know it has to be very hard on him,and on her family. Tonight please light those candles flashlight carlights matches lighters this will be it. There is improvement in Nicole and i pray for more for her and for Erikka (Twin B) she is having a ruff time :( :lips:

9:00 tonight i'm gonna be burning 4 candles, one for eric, nikki, and each girl... if you do the same, post up a picture

puregroove
05-06-2008, 01:53 PM
I am working but I will be praying with you at 9p bro:::

dkjohnson04
05-06-2008, 01:58 PM
9 pm i will stop my forklift wherever i am at in the chicken plant and pray for them again!!!!..........I'm serious too, no sarcasm here!! Glad to hear there has been some progress!! God Bless

lespaulman16
05-06-2008, 04:18 PM
thanks guys... i'll keep you posted

90_ACCORD
05-06-2008, 04:21 PM
im prayin 4 them
i wish them the best

dohc4.6sc
05-06-2008, 08:05 PM
i got the candles lit and the prayers going.

lespaulman16
05-06-2008, 09:25 PM
awesome man me too

04CoorsCan
05-07-2008, 05:43 PM
I can't even imagine having to go through all of the emotions he's going through. All you can do is try and keep your wits about everything and concentrate on whats best for Nikki and the kids. I know when my wife was pregnant with our son, she had a ton of complications due to her having diabetes. The Dr. that was there to monitor her insulin dosage did just about everything wrong...and her blood sugars would sky rocket....then she would crash really bad....and during delivery I almost lost them both...it was very scary and I can honestly say that I thank God every day for him letting me keep and enjoy my family....

My prayers are with Eric, Nikki, and the twins......God bless.

The Yousef
05-07-2008, 06:34 PM
any updates?

Elbow
05-07-2008, 08:51 PM
Yeah anything? They are on my mind A LOT

lespaulman16
05-07-2008, 10:22 PM
hey guys, the smile is glued to my face... read it boys :D :D :D


This update is for Eric to since he doesnt know either, Nicole has been moving some on her left side, She keeps her hand moving slowly more and more,She is breathing 27 percent on her own, http://media.firevortex.net/icons/custom/green/fv-green-yippie.gif Clinically Dead People must do that :laugh: ,I think its because of you guys,All the prayers and posting you all do. Erikka is still in stress :( but her sister is a kicking lil thing ,she had her foot in erikka's face, her butt in her face,She is doing great. So just to let you know,they are concerned that when Nikki had the stroke it may have effected her right side, but they dont know yet. Eric she is doing better just so you know. And she isnt a passenger type girl,she would drive you and tell you to hold on, you know that, or she would say !!, is this all this car can do? :laugh: Thank all of you from her mother ,father,stepdad,guardian and her brothers and sisters, And Bless you all guys ,You guys are all winners in my book thanks, I love you Nic, im waiting for thathttp://media.firevortex.net/icons/custom/green/fv-green-bat.gif

x Resilience
05-07-2008, 10:25 PM
hey guys, the smile is glued to my face... read it boys :D :D :D

Thats great news, I hope she pulls through. :goodjob:

lespaulman16
05-07-2008, 10:46 PM
Thats great news, I hope she pulls through. :goodjob:
thanks man keep up the prayers!!

ATK_Designs
05-07-2008, 11:02 PM
Sorry I couldn't get to this sooner. I hope the best for her and the twins.

topsecret2JZ
05-07-2008, 11:04 PM
we are really glad to hear that

dkjohnson04
05-08-2008, 02:23 AM
thats awesome!!!!!!!!!!!! Praying FTW!! hope to hear more good news soon!! praying will continue here.............

Frög
05-08-2008, 04:41 AM
wow i hope she makes it through!! im not going to lie, i had to stop reading at times.. i couldn't imagine..

Frög
05-08-2008, 04:42 AM
just a heads up-my previous post on the first page will be deleted. my sole intent was to make people angry, as it causes me to lirl at people getting mad over the internets. i apologize if anyone took this personally. hopefully the girl will be ok.

right time and a right place for everything.. now isn't..

Brett
05-08-2008, 06:30 AM
Any good news at this point is great

Elbow
05-08-2008, 08:35 AM
That's great to hear, I will continue my thoughts 24/7

Leisa
05-08-2008, 08:44 AM
Thats awesome to hear... wow~

Elbow
05-09-2008, 06:22 AM
Anything new?

dohc4.6sc
05-11-2008, 08:06 PM
candles and prayers going, any update?

Frög
05-11-2008, 09:04 PM
WTF? how can you bring it up like this and then suddenly not give any updates..

Kevykev
05-11-2008, 09:38 PM
^ wow man hold the emotion, there's obviously a reason for the delay. Don't let the anticipation get to you.

Give him time.

Frög
05-12-2008, 03:36 AM
^^ ah touché ..

Elbow
05-12-2008, 06:40 AM
Just read the real thread on VWVortex the link is on page one. That's what I have been doing.

Leisa
05-26-2008, 09:01 PM
update please?

dohc4.6sc
05-26-2008, 09:38 PM
the thread is closed over there, i hope nothing bad happened. but leisa not to thread jack but check out my prayer thread, our family and my granddad really needs them right now.