Ever end up liking someone you turned down?

[tony]

Yeah.. I got this issue right now and I'm not sure how to approach it, anyone else?

[Dirty Octopus™]

well i turned my wife down back in 98. but... yeah...
:dunno:

[HalfBaked]

Yes.

I turned down this girl that I liked because I was trying to get with another girl at the time. After it didn't work out with other girl I tried to go back but it was too late.

Has happened multiple times.

[MistaCee]

Yes I did....Really did regret it too. I still am trying to talk back to her but she has a bf now..... I would just call her up and hang out with her and just tell her straight up how I feel. Just keep it real with her tell her what made you realized that you like her.

[wantboost]

yep, the key is "how" you turned her down imo.

[MistaCee]

yep, the key is "how" you turned her down imo.

Yes very true. But judging by tonys posts it doesn't seem like he would have turned her down in a bad manner. As long as he did it nice he's still in:goodjob:

[tony]

yep, the key is "how" you turned her down imo.

I told her I saw her more as a "sister" type friend than anything more :( Kind of harsh when you consider we were acting more than friendly on a few occasions. Now I'm regretting the decision like you guys said.

[Kevykev]

Depends on your situation Tony. If you're single, get back in touch!

If you're taken - WE HAVE A PROBLEM!

To answer your question, it worked the other way for me in the past - as in "Golly, what did I see in that chick"

[MistaCee]

I told her I saw her more as a "sister" type friend than anything more :( Kind of harsh when you consider we were acting more than friendly on a few occasions. Now I'm regretting the decision like you guys said.

Yea yikes if you was messing around with her and then told her she's the "sister" type its definitely going to be hard to get her to like you like that again unless she was really feeling you.

[Got Milk?]

yeah, i turned this girl down like 3 years ago. But now that her boobs her butt and her sexines have evolved she is ****ing hot.

[man]

Sounds like every single guy has this problem. Me too, with a couple girls. If anyone knows a solution to this let me know, lol

[MistaCee]

It all depends on how you turned the girl down really.

[Turbo04]

Years ago I was dating this girl, she was nice, even got to hit it ( bad part was I was her first) I got bored with her, broke up with her with another girl in the bed with me, then years later I ran back into her, she was HOT. Needless to say I fooked myself bad that night. No recovering from that one.

[DieselNuts]

yeah, I did. Im sure nothing would have come out of it but I dated this chick once and she broke up with me. A few years later she wanted to date again and I turned her down.....now the biitch is fine....damnit...

[Motivation]

I told her I saw her more as a "sister" type friend than anything more :( Kind of harsh when you consider we were acting more than friendly on a few occasions. Now I'm regretting the decision like you guys said.


Tell her you regret it. Tell her you told her that because you were not sure about the situation at the time and you didn't want to ruin any chances of it turning into something by rushing into it. But most of all, be sincere when you talk to her man. Good luck with it!

[MR2DR]

Yes.

I turned down this girl that I liked because I was trying to get with another girl at the time. After it didn't work out with other girl I tried to go back but it was too late.

Has happened multiple times.

Amen to you sir. This has happen multiple times to me too. In fact, I'm sort of in that situation right now. It's funny how when you're with someone, girls tend to throw themselves at you and when you're back on the market.. yea..:ninja:

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I too have gone through this. I have a tendancy to fall for the assh0les... Nice guys get snubbed and yet I am always left wanting them instead... :(

[Sammich]

yeah, i turned this girl down like 3 years ago. But now that her boobs her butt and her sexines have evolved she is ****ing hot.

I WAS ABOUT TO SAY NO I CANT RELATE, BUT READING YOUR POST MADE ME REMEMBER...

YEA I HAVE REGRETS LOL. O WELL I'M WITH MY FIRST CRUSH AS MY WIFEY

[Sammich]

I too have gone through this. I have a tendancy to fall for the assh0les... Nice guys get snubbed and yet I am always left wanting them instead... :(

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[Ran]

A few years ago I had a turn down a girl because she wanted more between us, but I didn't think it was right. Now she's 17 and gone. Oh well.

[Sammich]

lol @ ran

[MistaCee]

A few years ago I had a turn down a girl because she wanted more between us, but I didn't think it was right. Now she's 17 and gone. Oh well.

:lmfao:

[man]

I may have a solution (for my situation at least)

[LQQKITZME]

Yeah.. I got this issue right now and I'm not sure how to approach it, anyone else?

damn that is pretty tough