Your Girl's @ the Strip Club...Yes or No??

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Okay, since my other thread seemed to be heading in this direction... Let's talk about it.

Men, what is/are/was/or will be your opinion on your significant other going to the strip club?

I personally go only on special occasions or when my friends or I am feeling down. I only go to female clubs. I dont think I can handle foreign penis flinging everywhere... It's just not me. :no: But according to what some said in my previous thread, girls at the strip club is calling for nothing but failed relationships. Is this true?

[DieselNuts]

I dont see a problem with it really, unless it becomes very frequent and I am not invited to come along. If its a girls night out or something, I dont see the harm in it.

[TicketRedBB6]

I would definately not be okay with my girl goin to the strip club and she wouldn't be okay with me going. Unless you both go together or something, I don't think its a good idea. I'd get super mad the first time if it happened, then probably leave if there was a second time. That just my :2cents:

[Leisa]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

[TicketRedBB6]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..
Lol. It's cool for couples to go together for a night out, party, whatever. But when people their by themselves and their partner is home, it eventually causes problems.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I dont see a problem with it really, unless it becomes very frequent and I am not invited to come along. If its a girls night out or something, I dont see the harm in it.
I dont see it as a problem either! I think that I am entitled to go out and enjoy my night and spend my money how I see fit. Some people just dont understand why I, a female, would go see other females. I get accused of being gay all the time, but seriously...The female body is beautiful! There is nothing in this world that compares to the beauty of it, and it isnt even the appearance of it... I appreciate it as a whole, the fact that a woman can provide life...Is amazing to me, so I guess forgive me for my admiration, but females are great!!!! And females with small waste and big butts are a weakness of mine...I will look, I will stare, and at the strip club it is justified!!!

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I would definately not be okay with my girl goin to the strip club and she wouldn't be okay with me going. Unless you both go together or something, I don't think its a good idea. I'd get super mad the first time if it happened, then probably leave if there was a second time. That just my :2cents:
Okay, well I guess in my scenario... I am a single female that goes from time to time with my male friends. Sometimes I am with more females, sometimes I am the only one, but I am open about the things I do and how I spend my time so when I begin to date someone, I let them know from the beginning that I hang out with mostly guys and attend the strip club from time to time. I invite them, but most either tell me that they do not like the strip club or they just have a problem with me attending, regardless of whether or not they go.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..
:goodjob: :D ;)

[TicketRedBB6]

Okay, well I guess in my scenario... I am a single female that goes from time to time with my male friends. Sometimes I am with more females, sometimes I am the only one, but I am open about the things I do and how I spend my time so when I begin to date someone, I let them know from the beginning that I hang out with mostly guys and attend the strip club from time to time. I invite them, but most either tell me that they do not like the strip club or they just have a problem with me attending, regardless of whether or not they go.
I understand that. I think its cool for people to go when they're single or with a large group of friends. And you atleast ask guys you like to go with you, its not your fault they dont wanna go. Though, I can't see why they wouldnt.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I understand that. I think its cool for people to go when they're single or with a large group of friends. And you atleast ask guys you like to go with you, its not your fault they dont wanna go. Though, I can't see why they wouldnt.
I think some are afraid of how I will react in certain scenarios...:dunno:

[TicketRedBB6]

I think some are afraid of how I will react in certain scenarios...:dunno:
Ohhh that might be why, lol.

[Sammich]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

next time u post some obscene thoughts in a thread i will shoot ur pinky and thumbs off...u got me lol

me myself..i'm too jealous to let my wife go to a strip club...fluck the bs

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Ok, I understand that, but if let's say you were single and me and you began talking and I told you that I go to the strip club and you are more than welcome to come with me, hell we may even come home and have hot wild passionate sex after... Would you still consider it to be a bad thing, even though you are there?

[Sammich]

i duno...i think i'd have to be in that situation....like i said i'm jealous and depending on how i'm feeling towards u depends on how i'd react. right now...at this present thought...i dont think i would mind if i were with you. kinda like i dont even let teh wife go to concerts by herself...call me crazy, but its the same thing...so i think yea...if were just started talking...i dont think i'd mind

[SLOWLYbtngU]

i duno...i think i'd have to be in that situation....like i said i'm jealous and depending on how i'm feeling towards u depends on how i'd react. right now...at this present thought...i dont think i would mind if i were with you. kinda like i dont even let teh wife go to concerts by herself...call me crazy, but its the same thing...so i think yea...if were just started talking...i dont think i'd mind
Ok, so as long as your invited then that is ok?? I am just trying to get it right in my head.

I will not lie, I went once with a guy I liked and I was ready to rip the strippers head off becasue I felt like she was too efficient at her job, but then again, I only blamed myself b/c I was the one that was all for going. I composed myself but after that dance.... We left! I was not mad at him which is how he took it, I just felt the girl was disrespectful, b/c all the other strippers came around and spoke and joked with all of our party, but she solely focused on him... :mad:

[Sammich]

i'm only talking if we just started talking. but if we are bf/gf...fucc it...u aint going, point blank, cuz like u said..i'd rip the strippers head off. theres a lesbo that wants my wife right now and i'm ready to beat the brakes off that tramp cuz she's a habitual line stepper...this aint the first time she came at my wife.

[DieselNuts]

I invite them, but most either tell me that they do not like the strip club or they just have a problem with me attending, regardless of whether or not they go.
Honestly, I think you are dating the wrong guys...

[Sammich]

Honestly, I think you are dating the wrong guys...

reps if i can for the tr00f

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to DieselNuts again.

[Tracy]

I go to the strip club all the time. Sometimes Dan comes, sometimes he doesn't (He doesn't like to go really...so his friends call me to go). I can frequently be seen making it rain at the Pink Pony. Our relationship is pretty secure, so we don't have any issues regarding it....unless I end up puking on the living room floor and Dan has to clean it up :D When he goes with his friends and I don't...he texts me the whole time. It's cute.

I have been to Swinging Richards once. It was interesting...yea that's a good word. Foreign (tee hee) flinging (you forgot BALD) penis is certainly a different experience. That being said, somehow I ended up in the VIP room with some strippers. One of them called me the next day :D while I was in bed with Dan. He thought it was funny. It was for a bachelorette party, so I haven't been back since. Not to mention most of the patrons were gay and they didn't appreciate a bunch of rowdy women at their super, secret, private joint.

[TicketRedBB6]

i'm only talking if we just started talking. but if we are bf/gf...fucc it...u aint going, point blank, cuz like u said..i'd rip the strippers head off. theres a lesbo that wants my wife right now and i'm ready to beat the brakes off that tramp cuz she's a habitual line stepper...this aint the first time she came at my wife.
Exactly how I feel, lol. +1 if I can

[Scrilla]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..



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[Malice]

Okay, since my other thread seemed to be heading in this direction... Let's talk about it.

Men, what is/are/was/or will be your opinion on your significant other going to the strip club?

I personally go only on special occasions or when my friends or I am feeling down. I only go to female clubs. I dont think I can handle foreign penis flinging everywhere... It's just not me. But according to what some said in my previous thread, girls at the strip club is calling for nothing but failed relationships. Is this true?
depending on what kind of relationship and how much trust you two have, there really shouldn't be any reason why i or any other men would get upset. if you have trust in your girlfriend that you can trust her enough to go anywhere and know she won't do anything that would cause your relationship to fail, whats wrong with going to a stripe club ya know? most men, including myself find that sweet as hell lol. but i guess it also has to do with the type of boyfriend you have, if he has low self esteem issues then he might look at it in a totally different point of view.

[Sammich]

depending on what kind of relationship and how much trust you two have, there really shouldn't be any reason why i or any other men would get upset. if you have trust in your girlfriend that you can trust her enough to go anywhere and know she won't do anything that would cause your relationship to fail, whats wrong with going to a stripe club ya know? most men, including myself find that sweet as hell lol. but i guess it also has to do with the type of boyfriend you have, if he has low self esteem issues then he might look at it in a totally different point of view.

i demand u change that to "some men"

[Malice]

i demand u change that to "some men"
sorry guy, but when you really think about it. most and some used in a certain way could mean the same thing. yea, some men like it(most men like it, see what i mean?) but like i said, if you have issues that would make you feel less of a man by knowing that your girl is out getting lap dances from chicks, then you need to seek help asap. 1) its not healthy to have that attitude because it might cause a pointless and unnecessary arguement between you and your partner. and the one that all men should think about is 2) your relationship would be alot stronger and would have a better chance in making it on the long run. that is if you don't let small things like this get in your way. but not all men are created equal. :P

[BABY J]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..


QFT! ME TOO.

[imbosile]

I would definately not be okay with my girl goin to the strip club and she wouldn't be okay with me going. Unless you both go together or something, I don't think its a good idea. I'd get super mad the first time if it happened, then probably leave if there was a second time. That just my :2cents:


Agree 100%.

[Sammich]

sorry guy, but when you really think about it. most and some used in a certain way could mean the same thing. yea, some men like it(most men like it, see what i mean?) but like i said, if you have issues that would make you feel less of a man by knowing that your girl is out getting lap dances from chicks, then you need to seek help asap. 1) its not healthy to have that attitude because it might cause a pointless and unnecessary arguement between you and your partner. and the one that all men should think about is 2) your relationship would be alot stronger and would have a better chance in making it on the long run. that is if you don't let small things like this get in your way. but not all men are created equal. :P

you make no sense. it was meant one man for one woman. so PERIOD...if another man/woman wana dance or tries to talk to my wife and i'm in her prescence (i say this because my wife comes homes with stories on the regular about lesbos and other dudes coming at her when i'm not with her) that person(male/female) will get a piece of my physical feelings PERIOD. trust is different then what this situation is. this is talking about going to a strip club...FUCC NO she aint going to no strip club and outa respect for my wife i'm not doing the same. thats how i am some will agree with their woman/wife/gf not going to the strip club and some/few will disagree with not going to the strip club outa respect for their significant other.

moral of the story is...just cause you 'allow' your mate to go the strip club doesnt mean that your relationship will get stronger, thats horse sh*t.


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[Malice]

you make no sense. it was meant one man for one woman. so PERIOD...if another man/woman wana dance or tries to talk to my wife and i'm in her prescence (i say this because my wife comes homes with stories on the regular about lesbos and other dudes coming at her when i'm not with her) that person(male/female) will get a piece of my physical feelings PERIOD. trust is different then what this situation is. this is talking about going to a strip club...FUCC NO she aint going to no strip club and outa respect for my wife i'm not doing the same. thats how i am some will agree with their woman/wife/gf not going to the strip club and some/few will disagree with not going to the strip club outa respect for their significant other
you're talking about my post not making sense, then you marinate this? this ridiculous excuse of combined letters to prove nothing except that you lack any confidence and would much rather have your wife tied down to a chair then to let her do anything entertaining. now, if she doens't like those kind of things, ok, if she does and you don't let her have fun, you and all the other uptight guys are the reason why females turn to lesbiens. stop wiping the drool out of your mouth and concentrate on the real topic, don't change it up to make all the guys out there sound like fresh virgins who are scared to let their girls experience alittle stripe club excitement.


moral of the story is...just cause you 'allow' your mate to go the strip club doesnt mean that your relationship will get stronger, thats horse sh*t.
yet again, another ingenious combination of words by none other than you! did you have to ask jeeves for help on this one? wow, of course your relationship will be stronger, living day in and day out doing the same old boring stuff will get you and your partner no where. think about this pbs, do you seriously think that by not trying new things that your relationship will remain as strong as the first time yall went out? let me answer that for you, of course not! how dull can you be, like seriously?

[BABY J]

I'll drop some science in a bit... for now I'm enjoying the show. LOL

[Frög]

i dont really see a problem with my significant other going to a female strip club..

[SLOWLYbtngU]

depending on what kind of relationship and how much trust you two have, there really shouldn't be any reason why i or any other men would get upset. if you have trust in your girlfriend that you can trust her enough to go anywhere and know she won't do anything that would cause your relationship to fail, whats wrong with going to a stripe club ya know? most men, including myself find that sweet as hell lol. but i guess it also has to do with the type of boyfriend you have, if he has low self esteem issues then he might look at it in a totally different point of view.
Well, I think that I was more wondering if a girl goes to the strip club, would you see it as a turn off or a warning sign to stay the hell away from her? I had one guy stop talking to me completely when he found out that I went to the strip club. It didnt matter who I went with or if he was invited, he just saw it as morally wrong, and I respected him for that, because seriously...I do not want to be with someone that doesnt support me at least 75% of the time in things that I decide to do... :no: To each his own... It isnt like I live at the club... I go for fun. :bootyshak :look: and that.... :D

[Malice]

Well, I think that I was more wondering if a girl goes to the strip club, would you see it as a turn off or a warning sign to stay the hell away from her? I had one guy stop talking to me completely when he found out that I went to the strip club. It didnt matter who I went with or if he was invited, he just saw it as morally wrong, and I respected him for that, because seriously...I do not want to be with someone that doesnt support me at least 75% of the time in things that I decide to do... To each his own... It isnt like I live at the club... I go for fun. and that....
so answer your question, no. i personally wouldn't feel any differently, id feel the same if i saw a girl walking around at the mall or where ever, ya know. if a guy makes his own conclusion about a person just cause of that, they have alot of growing up to do. you havr to test out the car before buying it, and by test driving it i don't mean having sex, i mean getting to know it.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

moral of the story is...just cause you 'allow' your mate to go the strip club doesnt mean that your relationship will get stronger, thats horse sh*t.


I love you Bryan, I really do... But I DO NOT agree with your statement... It is a generalization based on your view point. Some people are perfectly fine with their significant other going to the strip club... Hell, it was Dirty Oct's fiance that wanted to take him to the strip club for his b-day... She makes it rain on the hoes as does he...They leave at the end of the night having had a great time! You cannot tell me that their relationship isn't secure... I mean sh*t I am a bridesmaid in their wedding next month. I am sorry but I think it depends on the man. The last guy I dated didn't like the strip club, but he never told me I couldn't go. Hell, I invited him even though I knew it wasn't his scene. He knew I wouldn't do anything stupid at the end of the night b/c he knew who I was going with and knew that they wouldn't let me make an ass outta myself...He thought/thinks I was/am gay... but that is besides the point...lol

[BABY J]

The kicker is all of you fags thinking it's all about YOU. LOL - kids I swear. "I don't mind if my lady goes to a female strip club..." OH YEAH??? PROBABLY b/c YOU like to go to them too (or WILL go, or HAVE gone to them). Double f*ckin standard. If it's okay for you to see tits and a$s, then it needs to be okay for HER to see c0ck'n balls. In fact... the next time "u an the boys" go see some a$s, then she should go out w/ her gfs to get c0ck rubbed on her lap and in her face for $20 as well.

Don't make dumba$s rules that only apply to YOU in the relationship... you're a hypocrite if you do. I wish I had more time I'd call a lotta people out in here... LOL. They want their women to be ready to accept something that they are not ready to accept themselves. /rant

More to come... gtg kids.;)

[Malice]

Don't make dumba$s rules that only apply to YOU in the relationship... you're a hypocrite if you do. I wish I had more time I'd call a lotta people out in here... LOL. They want their women to be ready to accept something that they are not ready to accept themselves. /rant
am i one of those people who you would like to "callout?" just curious... lol

[BABY J]

PS: Sorry Joss... PBS is right. Your relationship is in no way strengthened by enjoying a night at the strip club together. You have to ALREADY have that strength b4 u get there or it can/will send sh1t downhill in a hurry. If ur not ready for it, tread softly b/c that can be an interesting drive back home (or WALK back home... LOL). Octopus and his lady may very well have a secure relationship - that security ALLOWS them to go to strip club w/ no worries... but the club in NO WAY is responsible for the security they have.

Grrr... I got more... but I'm on a time crunch sweets.. toodle loo.


am i one of those people who you would like to "callout?" just curious... lol

If the shoe fits wear it. If not, disregard. :goodjob:

[SLOWLYbtngU]

so answer your question, no. i personally wouldn't feel any differently, id feel the same if i saw a girl walking around at the mall or where ever, ya know. if a guy makes his own conclusion about a person just cause of that, they have alot of growing up to do. you havr to test out the car before buying it, and by test driving it i don't mean having sex, i mean getting to know it.
Oh, I am totally with you. I only brought up this topic b/c it seemed like my other thread about me and my issues with letting a guy pay was turning into a girls-shouldnt-go-to-the-strip-club-if-they-want-to-be-taken-seriously thread.

I think that most of the guys that I date or have gone out with love that fact that I am secure enough with myself and my body to go into a place that has nothing but naked women flaunting their natural given beauty(well sometimes) and I dont give a damn. I may be a big girl...but f*ck I am cute and I dont mind putting myself in that situation..Like I said before, only once have I wanted to beat the living sh*t out of a stripper but I had to get over it, because she was doing her job.

[Scrilla]

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[SLOWLYbtngU]

PS: Sorry Joss... PBS is right. Your relationship is in no way strengthened by enjoying a night at the strip club together. You have to ALREADY have that strength b4 u get there or it can/will send sh1t downhill in a hurry. If ur not ready for it, tread softly b/c that can be an interesting drive back home (or WALK back home... LOL). Octopus and his lady may very well have a secure relationship - that security ALLOWS them to go to strip club w/ no worries... but the club in NO WAY is responsible for the security they have.

Grrr... I got more... but I'm on a time crunch sweets.. toodle loo.



If the shoe fits wear it. If not, disregard. :goodjob:


I never said that the going to the strip joint would make you stronger as a couple... I def think it will show how secure you are when you're there. My problem is I am not in a relationship and some blame it on many different reasons (as you saw in my other thread) but this is one also. I have many many more, but I am trying to figure out how much of my life I want to put out there. I have had stalker issues recently, and uhh yeah.. :no:

[Malice]

If the shoe fits wear it. If not, disregard.
good responce, because you would fail going up against me. and i just wanted to let you know. no hard feelings though, everyone has different point of views when it comes to not only this but but if the sky is blue or green. of course, im the person who knows the sky is blue, but you and all the others keep repeating, "no the sky is green."

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Oh and J'son, dude...I have seen some nasty ass videos on youtube of chicks at the dude strip club...I am sorry...I cant do it... I think it is disgusting :upchuck: , so I will stick to the chicks...

[BABY J]

good responce, because you would fail going up against me. and i just wanted to let you know. no hard feelings though, everyone has different point of views when it comes to not only this but but if the sky is blue or green. of course, im the person who knows the sky is blue, but you and all the others keep repeating, "no the sky is green."

Going up against you? :thinking: For serious?? :thinking: Why do I need to do that? I get it... I'm scared, I better "e-back down". I'll tell you what... how about you learn how to learn how to spell "reponse" before you worry about an e-battle kid. You ARE the weakest link... goodbye!


Now back to your regularly scheduled thread.


*points to chest, mumbles under breath*

"Almost had ME? He NEVA had me."

[Malice]

Going up against you? For serious?? Why do I need to do that? I get it... I'm scared, I better "e-back down". I'll tell you what... how about you learn how to learn how to spell "reponse" before you worry about an e-battle kid. You ARE the weakest link... goodbye!
response response response... sorry lord. your presense in here mad me nerves and i made a small grammatical error. and again, sorry but i don't know what this "e-thug" means. sounds alot like the babbling you're doing in this thread. you must not be very successful when it comes to keeping a girl for much longer than a week huh? all that im saying is coming from someone who is very successful when it comes to dating girls, not to brag but yea, im pretty good.



*points to chest, mumbles under breath*

"Almost had ME? He NEVA had me."
hahaha, btw my name is Alex, i have a last name too but i don't know how to pronounce it.

[Dirty Octopus™]

oh okay... well you know me and my wifes first meeting was in a strip club.

the way she sees it is she likes to see me have a good time. She knows i LOVE women but she is the only woman that i love. if that makes any sense :thinking:

ass and titties in my face is great! :D :yumyum:

but uhh... yeah. She would not mind me at all going to a club without her. We're secure with one another. the hoes are there to work and that's it.

[tony]

My sister goes.. no big deal to me but in a relationship, someone that compliments me most likely has matured past that club/strip club stage.

[KevinT707]

I have mad respect for a girl that doesn't mind throwin' a few $1s on stage.

And if my girl doesn't like that I go to the strip club then she'll just have to compromise with me because I'm not stopping.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

oh okay... well you know me and my wifes first meeting was in a strip club.

the way she sees it is she likes to see me have a good time. She knows i LOVE women but she is the only woman that i love. if that makes any sense :thinking:

ass and titties in my face is great! :D :yumyum:

but uhh... yeah. She would not mind me at all going to a club without her. We're secure with one another. the hoes are there to work and that's it.
lol, yeah... I dunno if you read back but I spoke of you two already. Hell my first time was with you wasnt it? Remember, I was so against it?? Lol... I was such a pansy. Then I got over it and whenever you all decide to go, I am down. I, like you, have an appreciation for the female body....I already spoke on that, but whatever. Thx best friend!!! :kiss:

The bolded, makes PERFECT sense :goodjob: The trust that you two have has no comparison. It's great to be a part of it... I mean hell think about it. She trust you enough to have a female bestfriend....




ME=Your best friend...(just for clarification) :ninja:

[SLOWLYbtngU]

My sister goes.. no big deal to me but in a relationship, someone that compliments me most likely has matured past that club/strip club stage.
Exactly, I think it is something that will phase out. I dont go all the time, but when I do go, I enjoy it! :)


I have mad respect for a girl that doesn't mind throwin' a few $1s on stage.

And if my girl doesn't like that I go to the strip club then she'll just have to compromise with me because I'm not stopping.
:lmao: That is one hell of a compromise..lol

[Leisa]

Lol. It's cool for couples to go together for a night out, party, whatever. But when people their by themselves and their partner is home, it eventually causes problems.


Not at my house.. I dont care if Brett goes to a strip club.. I know he is coming home to me ;)

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Not at my house.. I dont care if Brett goes to a strip club.. I know he is coming home to me ;)
I want to say that this would be my response too.

[BLK JDM]

I frequent the strip clubs quite a bit. I've slowed down a lot in the last year but I've taken my girl and she got dances for herself and tipped the stage when the danger gave good performances. Now of course I didn't act totally the same as I normally do but it wasn't strange nor did it turn out bad. I know a lot of the girls in the clubs I frequent so I couldn't just have them sitting next to me holding long conversations like normal but I did get dances from the chicks I normally talk to or get dances from. It's all about the security in your relationship. Some people can do anything and their significant other won't trip or even think about it while others have no leway. It's all how you start your relationship and what you allow not allow in your relationship. I want to go and come as I please but I also need someone that trusts me and also that I can trust.

My girlfriend is a nurse and works a lot of nights and weekends so it works out that I can go out and ride my motorcycle all weekend or go to the stripclub or go to out of town drag races w/ no problems. Because she's either at work or sleeping. Now if she worked a regular M-F 8-5 like me then I think we'd have more problems b/c I'd feel more tied down or trapped b/c she'd want to be around me more on the weekends when I want to be out w/ my boys and it would be hard to separate the times. I see a lot of my other friends go through it and I'm very lucky I don't have that problem. Now believe me some weekends she's off so those times I know I have to take her out and do stuff she wants to do but it works out better for me w/ the schedule she has.

Sorry for the rant-I got carried away.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

lmao... it's ok.

[ahmonrah]

personally, i'd like my girl to go to a SCRIP(you gotta say it "HooD", shawty) club. i've actually offered to pay for her to go.

not 'cause i'm trying to run her off, but looking w/o touching and touching w/o tasting, is sometimes good for the health of SOME relationships. especially someone that's never went. it's would be a time experience for her.

[ahmonrah]

I want to say that this would be my response too.and a woman that has that response is strong in the relationship she's in. and her man most likely respects her more for realizing that.

i only went to strip clubs as an invite type situation. i dont go when i'm alone. and though i may get a dance from the baddest mofo in there, it's just that, A DANCE, and it AINT FREE. the dancers (except the one i made orgasm ~ahem i was single them~ when she danced for me) really are there to do a job. nothing more, nothing less, and that's get MONEY.....if you blow up when you leave the club, they dont care.

[Turbo04]

I don't think there really is a right or wrong answer to this topic. Personaly, when I was dating if I went out with a girl and she told me she enjoyed going to the Sclub I would be put off by it. Don't get me wrong I love women's bodies as much as the next guy, but there is no way in hell I'd ever pay to look at em. Even more so when you think they use their body like a pizza delivery guy uses his car.

Now I would never be ok with my wife going to a place like that (notice I say being ok with, cause as an adult she is able to make her own choices and I don't own her) but thankfully I don't have to worry about that. She is not the type of woman to enjoy stuff like that. Does that mean my relationship is not strong?

When you set a precedence early in the relationship for **** like that, I see it as setting the relationship up for failure. People change, and while it might have been ok with both people early in the relationship, one day one party won't be as ok with for whatever reason and then the crap starts. Not to mention when you get into aspects of marriage, your making a partnership with another saying that you give up all aspects of things like that to be with one person. Spin it how you want but the truth remains that your in the club looking at other's nuditiy in a sexual way and that act in itself is a form of cheating on the other person. All this jabbering about "trust" and " respect" in this thread is crap. Sure you may "trust" them not to go cheating in the traditional way, but if they are going in the first place it's a sure sign that there is no respect there. I don't see couples going together makes a bit of difference, and I don't believe it's a sign of a strong realtionship either. At best it's a game of playing the odds that neither person gets hurt/offended which is the fastest way to end said relationship. Sure many couples go and have no problems, but many people go to the wrong part of town at the wrong time and nothing happens either. Doesn't make it a smart/right move. A strong relationship isn't about what you can or can't do or go to without hurting/upsetting the other person. It's about having enough respect for them to NOT put you or them into a situation that could bring questions or emotions into play that need not have been brought up, and folks a strip club is the up near the top of the list of things do do/go to when you really don't care about the other person or what they think. besides....Do you really suck that bad at your game that you need to pay to see it anyway? :)

[j0nbunklah0m]

i wouldnt mind my girl going to the strip club as long as shes only lookin at girls.. n she brings me home one for the 3some.. jk :cheers:

[GuessWho]

From wat i've been told through the great vine...
Girls do get turned on more than guys do at strip clubs...
And i love going to them myself with all my friends...


Whose in for next weekend ????????

[wrekonize]

you should get all the girls from IA and have a meet at a strip club that way you can just say your going to a meet....thats if your dude is not comfortable with you going to the strip club. i think theres nothing wrong wit it, my girl went with her girlfriends once and i was kool with it. since she went out i went to the pool hall with my homeboys. this is all just a trust test for relationships.....

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I don't think there really is a right or wrong answer to this topic. Personaly, when I was dating if I went out with a girl and she told me she enjoyed going to the Sclub I would be put off by it. Don't get me wrong I love women's bodies as much as the next guy, but there is no way in hell I'd ever pay to look at em. Even more so when you think they use their body like a pizza delivery guy uses his car.

Now I would never be ok with my wife going to a place like that (notice I say being ok with, cause as an adult she is able to make her own choices and I don't own her) but thankfully I don't have to worry about that. She is not the type of woman to enjoy stuff like that. Does that mean my relationship is not strong?

When you set a precedence early in the relationship for **** like that, I see it as setting the relationship up for failure. People change, and while it might have been ok with both people early in the relationship, one day one party won't be as ok with for whatever reason and then the crap starts. Not to mention when you get into aspects of marriage, your making a partnership with another saying that you give up all aspects of things like that to be with one person. Spin it how you want but the truth remains that your in the club looking at other's nuditiy in a sexual way and that act in itself is a form of cheating on the other person. All this jabbering about "trust" and " respect" in this thread is crap. Sure you may "trust" them not to go cheating in the traditional way, but if they are going in the first place it's a sure sign that there is no respect there. I don't see couples going together makes a bit of difference, and I don't believe it's a sign of a strong realtionship either. At best it's a game of playing the odds that neither person gets hurt/offended which is the fastest way to end said relationship. Sure many couples go and have no problems, but many people go to the wrong part of town at the wrong time and nothing happens either. Doesn't make it a smart/right move. A strong relationship isn't about what you can or can't do or go to without hurting/upsetting the other person. It's about having enough respect for them to NOT put you or them into a situation that could bring questions or emotions into play that need not have been brought up, and folks a strip club is the up near the top of the list of things do do/go to when you really don't care about the other person or what they think. besides....Do you really suck that bad at your game that you need to pay to see it anyway? :)

LMMFAO!!! First off, I am a girl and in no way shape or form am I gay, so the there goes most of what you wrote. As far as going to the strip club for "cheating purposes," I am single. I believe that my original question was more along the lines of whether or not it would stop a guy from talking to me if I told them that I went to the strip club. Once again, I AM SINGLE... No one owns me, no one can claim me, which means that at the end of the day... I am going to do as I damn well please. I just wanted opinions. You stated yours... I respect that. It is possible in this day and age to state an opinion without attacking the person in question.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

i wouldnt mind my girl going to the strip club as long as shes only lookin at girls.. n she brings me home one for the 3some.. jk :cheers:
:rolleyes:


From wat i've been told through the great vine...
Girls do get turned on more than guys do at strip clubs...
And i love going to them myself with all my friends...


Whose in for next weekend ????????
If I have my car, I am down!! I think it is true, about the girl getting turned on more than men. Whyte Chocolate at Strokers... OMG!!!! I swore that girl would be the reason that I got turned out... If you dont know who that is, she is Nelly's Tip drill girl...


you should get all the girls from IA and have a meet at a strip club that way you can just say your going to a meet....thats if your dude is not comfortable with you going to the strip club. i think theres nothing wrong wit it, my girl went with her girlfriends once and i was kool with it. since she went out i went to the pool hall with my homeboys. this is all just a trust test for relationships.....

See, that is cool! That is what I think it should be like. I mean if the strip club is something you are jsut not into, then fine I respect that, and in all honesty IF I were in a relationship and IF I were in love and my significant other told me not to go... I wouldnt go. Simple as that, the strip club doesnt make or break me...I just enjoy going with friends... The same way you can find me in a pool hall losing like crazy, or find me at a sports bar being the most obnoxious person without drinking...It is just the things that I enjoy doing.

[Sammich]

jose dont lie you are my woman :ninja:

i know where i stand on this topic

all people have diff outlooks on this

some say, its ok, some say, it strengthens your relationship, some say, its all about trust, some say, (like me) aint no way that my wife/gf is going to a strip club, some say, if we are just talking, or just started talking that its ok.

all in all..diff people, just like people in the world. so u just gota find the dude who feels the way u do..like kashime and his wifey feel about it, figadeal me suga :D

[GuessWho]

:rolleyes:


If I have my car, I am down!! I think it is true, about the girl getting turned on more than men. Whyte Chocolate at Strokers... OMG!!!! I swore that girl would be the reason that I got turned out... If you dont know who that is, she is Nelly's Tip drill girl...



See, that is cool! That is what I think it should be like. I mean if the strip club is something you are jsut not into, then fine I respect that, and in all honesty IF I were in a relationship and IF I were in love and my significant other told me not to go... I wouldnt go. Simple as that, the strip club doesnt make or break me...I just enjoy going with friends... The same way you can find me in a pool hall losing like crazy, or find me at a sports bar being the most obnoxious person without drinking...It is just the things that I enjoy doing.

Idk who Whyte Chocolate is ...
Is it really the girl off that video ?????????
If so....I'M FUCCING DOWN anytime girl....

[Turbo04]

LMMFAO!!! First off, I am a girl and in no way shape or form am I gay, so the there goes most of what you wrote. As far as going to the strip club for "cheating purposes," I am single. I believe that my original question was more along the lines of whether or not it would stop a guy from talking to me if I told them that I went to the strip club. Once again, I AM SINGLE... No one owns me, no one can claim me, which means that at the end of the day... I am going to do as I damn well please. I just wanted opinions. You stated yours... I respect that. It is possible in this day and age to state an opinion without attacking the person in question.

Well first off here is your exact topic starter:


Okay, since my other thread seemed to be heading in this direction... Let's talk about it.
Men, what is/are/was/or will be your opinion on your significant other going to the strip club?
personally go only on special occasions or when my friends or I am feeling down. I only go to female clubs. I dont think I can handle foreign penis flinging everywhere... It's just not me. But according to what some said in my previous thread, girls at the strip club is calling for nothing but failed relationships. Is this true?


Doesn't look to me that the original question being asked was whether or not a guy would be put off talking to you if he knew you went to a strip club. Looks like was exactly what I answered. My views on it. I don't believe I was at all insulting to you at all. Matter of fact I did not even refer to you at all in my post as far as I can remember. Most of my post was in response to what others (not calling anyone out at all) had been posting regarding this so called "real trust" in one person going to a strip club. guess I should've summed it up like this :
Single = Do what ever you want
Dating/marriage = Not ok to go there.

[BABY J]

TURBO04 is my hero.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Idk who Whyte Chocolate is ...
Is it really the girl off that video ?????????
If so....I'M FUCCING DOWN anytime girl....
yeah that is her...

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Well first off here is your exact topic starter:



Doesn't look to me that the original question being asked was whether or not a guy would be put off talking to you if he knew you went to a strip club. Looks like was exactly what I answered. My views on it. I don't believe I was at all insulting to you at all. Matter of fact I did not even refer to you at all in my post as far as I can remember. Most of my post was in response to what others (not calling anyone out at all) had been posting regarding this so called "real trust" in one person going to a strip club. guess I should've summed it up like this :
Single = Do what ever you want
Dating/marriage = Not ok to go there.

Sorry! I got my thread mixed up...I have two going and the question that I posed in this one has to do with the opinons in the other thread talkin about independent women.

I am not the most pleasant in the morning so I apologize. :D

[SLOWLYbtngU]

TURBO04 is my hero.
:rly:

[Turbo04]

Sorry! I got my thread mixed up...I have two going and the question that I posed in this one has to do with the opinons in the other thread talkin about independent women.

I am not the most pleasant in the morning so I apologize. :D

No biggie. :) :cheers:

[BABY J]

But Joss is me heroess. LOL

[Mike Lowrey]

My wife goes with me to the strip club. She likes to watch the women swing on the pole. :D

[Tasuki_Civic]

I would definately not be okay with my girl goin to the strip club and she wouldn't be okay with me going. Unless you both go together or something, I don't think its a good idea. I'd get super mad the first time if it happened, then probably leave if there was a second time. That just my :2cents:

(Women Strip Club)
:no: oh hell nah! i would never want to go to the strip club with my dude. Not just cause i wouldnt want to see some other chick doin her thing ( im a Leo so im territorial) but i like to go with my guy friends or my girlfriends. I cant have fun with my other half with me like that.

(Men Stip Club)
I know my man wouldnt go. i barely go to those myself. the only reason why i would is cause my girlfriends would go. I prefer to see women (so i can learn a trick or 2) But dont get it twisted. there is a male dancer that i love to see and i will ony go to see him...( Bodacious )...he is incredible and i wouldnt want my man to know about him.

so i rest my case.................partners should go separat unless they like that 3 sum bullcrap.

[jaystar]

i dont care if she went its wha eva

[Scr00G]

Me and the wifey always go together. As far as her going by herself, I would be pretty jeluz, only because she should have invited me, and it's vica versa for her as well. She's the type that loves the female body, and if it ends up gettin us into that 3 SUM BULLCRAP, so be it!

[thinkfast®]

THATS WHERE ME AND THE BABY MOMS MET..........

AAAHH OASIS, WHERE MEMORIES ARE MADE

[nextelbuddy]

you're talking about my post not making sense, then you marinate this? this ridiculous excuse of combined letters to prove nothing except that you lack any confidence and would much rather have your wife tied down to a chair then to let her do anything entertaining. now, if she doens't like those kind of things, ok, if she does and you don't let her have fun, you and all the other uptight guys are the reason why females turn to lesbiens. stop wiping the drool out of your mouth and concentrate on the real topic, don't change it up to make all the guys out there sound like fresh virgins who are scared to let their girls experience alittle stripe club excitement.


yet again, another ingenious combination of words by none other than you! did you have to ask jeeves for help on this one? wow, of course your relationship will be stronger, living day in and day out doing the same old boring stuff will get you and your partner no where. think about this pbs, do you seriously think that by not trying new things that your relationship will remain as strong as the first time yall went out? let me answer that for you, of course not! how dull can you be, like seriously?


Reps to you.

if i'm with a girl its because we have built a trust in our relationship and i can trust her to go out because i know at the end of the night shes coming back to me.



I actually get mad when i want to go to the strip club with the boys and the ones that are married teir wives throw a hissy fit about them going and then the guy wusses out and stays home (hears whip crack)

that will not be be my girl can do what she wants and i can do what i want to certain extents because of trust built into the relationship.

[Turbo04]

I actually get mad when i want to go to the strip club with the boys and the ones that are married teir wives throw a hissy fit about them going and then the guy wusses out and stays home (hears whip crack)

that will not be be my girl can do what she wants and i can do what i want to certain extents because of trust built into the relationship.

So they are "wusses" cause they decided going to the club isn't worth having a pissed off/hurt/angry wife at home? Yeah their prioritys are screwed up. :screwy:

[nextelbuddy]

So they are "wusses" cause they decided going to the club isn't worth having a pissed off/hurt/angry wife at home? Yeah their prioritys are screwed up. :screwy:

YUP :blah:

if they married a woman that is that insecure and not trusting enough to let a man go see a few naked women then they have other issues as well.

[Turbo04]

YUP :blah:

if they married a woman that is that insecure and not trusting enough to let a man go see a few naked women then they have other issues as well.

Wow...ignorance is bliss eh...:) :goodjob: So how much personal marriage experiance you have, or are you just talking out of your ass? The whole issue has way more to do with respect then it does anything else. If you don't respect your partner or relationship enough to NOT go do things like that, then you more then likely shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. But hey, what do I know. I'm just a married wuss that wouldn't do something that hurt or upset my wife in that manner. :D

[tubby]

i'm only talking if we just started talking. but if we are bf/gf...fucc it...u aint going, point blank, cuz like u said..i'd rip the strippers head off. theres a lesbo that wants my wife right now and i'm ready to beat the brakes off that tramp cuz she's a habitual line stepper...this aint the first time she came at my wife.


is ur wife the girl in ur sig? is so i would feel the same way bro. girl is slammin. but if the lez looked good id let her smash wit me! u hurd? lol

[quickdodge®]

Wow...ignorance is bliss eh...:) :goodjob: So how much personal marriage experiance you have, or are you just talking out of your ass? The whole issue has way more to do with respect then it does anything else. If you don't respect your partner or relationship enough to NOT go do things like that, then you more then likely shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. But hey, what do I know. I'm just a married wuss that wouldn't do something that hurt or upset my wife in that manner. :D

Married men/women have no business in a strip club. If you think otherwise, you have no ideas on what a real relationship is all about. Later ,QD.

[Turbo04]

Married men/women have no business in a strip club. If you think otherwise, you have no ideas on what a real relationship is all about. Later ,QD.


Thank you sir, exactly what I have been saying :)

[0p7!mu5]

hrm Its kinda complicated. Like Im not a big fan of strip clubs at all. i dont see the point. I agree the female anatomy is beautiful in all its glory but i cant see myself going. My girl would go i'd join her just for ****s and giggles but knowing the both of us we'd be more content without going.