should I be mad?

[Reaper]

The girl I'm dating and I had plans tonight to make dinner together, have some wine and just relax together before she heads down to valdosta for the weekend(we both attended there, she's a Chi Omega and is going to see old friends). The girl she's riding down with got someone to cover her work shift tomorrow and they are now leaving tonight...which means our plans our now cancelled..She called to "make sure it was okay"..as if I were to stop her. She was so excited about leaving tonight she actually just seemed like she didn't care as to what I would say, even though knowing how I am I'd just say "take off"..Which is exactly what I did. The MOMENT I said, "I'm not mad, have fun..I'll see ya monday", she said "great! I'll ttyl!" and hung up..

Okay, you would think she'd be SLIGHTLY more concerned with what I was thinking than she is...I'm pretty freaking irritated to be honest, and she thinks I'm not because I told her I wasn't. Do I have the right to be considering we aren't actually together? We dated over a year ago, and things didn't work out due to distance...what do ya'll think?

[imbosile]

That's tough, but I think you have a right to be upset and I know I would have probably done the exact same thing you did. Part of you wants her to know you're mad, but the other half of you doesn't want to ruin her weekend.

It sucks, but I say just suck it up. You never know, one day you may have to do the same thing she's doing to you.

[Reaper]

That's tough, but I think you have a right to be upset and I know I would have probably done the exact same thing you did. Part of you wants her to know you're mad, but the other half of you doesn't want to ruin her weekend.

It sucks, but I say just suck it up. You never know, one day you may have to do the same thing she's doing to you.

Exactly, my thinking right now is life goes on...**** happens..

[ksniperfox]

still, she sounds unconcerned and bitchy. **** a ho while shes out. if she comes back and says she did, atleast you can too. and it wont hurt so bad. and if she says nothing, you say nothing and get some free tang. win/win

[BKgen®]

Women... :no:

I'd get a hitman if i were you.

[BobbyFresco]

That's tough, but I think you have a right to be upset and I know I would have probably done the exact same thing you did. Part of you wants her to know you're mad, but the other half of you doesn't want to ruin her weekend.

It sucks, but I say just suck it up. You never know, one day you may have to do the same thing she's doing to you.


I agree...There's only so much you can do in a situation like this. She asked knowing fully well that you weren't going to object.....

On the other hand, without knowing at what stage in your relationship you guys are in, it's hard to decide if she was being uncaring about how you may have felt.

Take this weekend to have some fun of your own.

[BobbyFresco]

Women... :no:

I'd get a hitman if i were you.


LOL....I've felt that way before as well.......

If it wasn't for pu$$Y, they wouldn't have shyt on us....

[On_Her_Face]

The girl I'm dating and I had plans tonight to make dinner together, have some wine and just relax together before she heads down to valdosta for the weekend(we both attended there, she's a Chi Omega and is going to see old friends). The girl she's riding down with got someone to cover her work shift tomorrow and they are now leaving tonight...which means our plans our now cancelled..She called to "make sure it was okay"..as if I were to stop her. She was so excited about leaving tonight she actually just seemed like she didn't care as to what I would say, even though knowing how I am I'd just say "take off"..Which is exactly what I did. The MOMENT I said, "I'm not mad, have fun..I'll see ya monday", she said "great! I'll ttyl!" and hung up..

Okay, you would think she'd be SLIGHTLY more concerned with what I was thinking than she is...I'm pretty freaking irritated to be honest, and she thinks I'm not because I told her I wasn't. Do I have the right to be considering we aren't actually together? We dated over a year ago, and things didn't work out due to distance...what do ya'll think?

drop her like its hot, seriously.

[On_Her_Face]

EDIT, i'm a dumbass, yall arnt together, just dont talk to her for a bit.

[TheChosenOne]

This is a perfect chance to get the upper hand. Play it cool on the phone, but have a subtle disturbance to your voice. Then, when you see her, be cold. Then all you have to wait for is the classic question;

"Baby, what's wrong?"

That's when you've got her. :goodjob:

[redrumracer]

wow all i got out of that was that she said ttyl instead of talk to you later.
but na dont be mad. she asked you responded how she knew you would, shouldve said what you really meant instead.

[Reaper]

This is a perfect chance to get the upper hand. Play it cool on the phone, but have a subtle disturbance to your voice. Then, when you see her, be cold. Then all you have to wait for is the classic question;

"Baby, what's wrong?"

That's when you've got her. :goodjob:

Thats exactly what I did..and will do:goodjob:

[Reaper]

EDIT, i'm a dumbass, yall arnt together, just dont talk to her for a bit.

which is why when she asked if i'll call her this weekend, I said maybe...and I won't call her..after a little time to think about it...**** it..she can have fun, I'm hitting up the bar tomorrow night with some friends and saturday too:boobies:

[Reaper]

On the other hand, without knowing at what stage in your relationship you guys are in, it's hard to decide if she was being uncaring about how you may have felt.




we dated almost 2 years ago, we're crazy about each other....but we are taking time just b/c she just got out of a relationship....so yeah, its just enough to **** with your emotions

[On_Her_Face]

i still wouldnt call the hoe.

[Reaper]

i still wouldnt call the hoe.

I'm not....she can call me..she wants to hang out monday..which is fine but she can come to me..I'm not putting fourth any effort, no matter how much I like fake tits lol

[On_Her_Face]

good ****.

[Vayda]

I think you should only be mad if you can say with 100% total honesty that you would not do the same to her. If so, then be pissed all to hell.

[DieselNuts]

I would be upset, but I guess the best thing for you to do is to talk to her about it when she gets back.

[Reaper]

I think you should only be mad if you can say with 100% total honesty that you would not do the same to her. If so, then be pissed all to hell.

I wouldn't do it to her...I'd put things off...but thats just how I am. I'm not as mad as I was before, but im still pretty irritated...some friends from UGA are coming into town tomorrow(all girls) and apparently were going bar hoping tomorrow..

[imbosile]

I wouldn't do it to her...I'd put things off...but thats just how I am. I'm not as mad as I was before, but im still pretty irritated...some friends from UGA are coming into town tomorrow(all girls) and apparently were going bar hoping tomorrow..


I could be wrong, but that sounds like an argument waiting to happen. :???:

[Jecht]

I would be pissed. lol

[Got Milk?]

well this is what u do to get her back.

Make some big plans for u and her. Than later when the time comes, cancel the plan and be like "i gotta go hang out with my friends". this will make her upset, end of story.

[tony]

Damn the games, how about just telling her how you feel? Argue, get over it then have good a** makeup sex.

[AnthonyF]

Do you need me to call some people? :ninja:

[Reaper]

Do you need me to call some people? :ninja:

lol

naw, but maybe saturday if we all go out!


as far as everyone else, im sure it is an argument waiting to happen...but arguments w/us =makeup sex...I tend to win so yeah..

and I'll tell her how I feel when she gets home, I don't feel like arguing over a phone...I hate doing that ****

[AnthonyF]

good luck. u know Ive been in the same situations as u. give her her space....if nothing happens....you found a good one. when she comes back. dont question her immediately but try to notice how she speaks or looks away

[Reaper]

good luck. u know Ive been in the same situations as u. give her her space....if nothing happens....you found a good one. when she comes back. dont question her immediately but try to notice how she speaks or looks away

yeah I know, and thanks buddy:goodjob: I appreciate it!

[JITB]

Damn the games, how about just telling her how you feel? Argue, get over it then have good a** makeup sex.


agree...


or u can just take the anger and frustration out on that ass monday night!! :idb:

[Reaper]

agree...


or u can just take the anger and frustration out on that ass monday night!! :idb:

oh I shall:D

[Got Milk?]

this reminds me when my gf planned for us to go to Destin. And at last minute i told her i dont want to go. hahahah

[AnthonyF]

^destin FTW...me and Reaper went there last year, i have a condo there. it'd be bad ass if there were a bunch of us down there.

[81911SC]

Noods?

[Got Milk?]

^destin FTW...me and Reaper went there last year, i have a condo there. it'd be bad ass if there were a bunch of us down there.

yea Destin is awsome. But at the moment i wasnt feeling good so i called it off(but she went with her sister and some other friends).


Planning on going this summer again.

And u have a ****ing condo down there? As in your condo u own it? If yes, thats pretty sweeet.

[AnthonyF]

my parents own it. ill be going for spring break and then a week in the summer then on my birthday. usually get a few weeks off.

[Got Milk?]

Damn dude, ur so lucky to have a condo down there.

[3.5altman]

oh snap! I forgot to make that phone call ant!

[hydroshutter]

http://i31.tinypic.com/10r7lh4.jpg

[hydroshutter]

but seriously, get a keylogger on all of her accounts (myspace,facebook, etc) and snoop around. You'll get personal satisfaction out of invading her privacy.

[AnthonyF]

oh snap! I forgot to make that phone call ant!u dummy. There are people there now that rent it every year...and spring break its rented by my parents. So, i gotta find a good week to go wit some poeple.

[Sammich]

i'd be pissed...and she would know before she got off the phone...shouldnt have done your pushups...u woulda been able to put her in her place for pulling that stunt...dumb broad..

[Reaper]

i'd be pissed...and she would know before she got off the phone...shouldnt have done your pushups...u woulda been able to put her in her place for pulling that stunt...dumb broad..

I went to the gym to work out frustration last night...I'm not nearly as mad today as I was yesterday, but I'm still a little irritated....but whatever, I'm just gonna go out this weekend and have fun, lifes too short to stress of this BS.

[Tracy]

She's not your girl, you told her to go. WTF are you whining about :) next time speak your mind and don't play girly games.

[Reaper]

She's not your girl, you told her to go. WTF are you whining about :) next time speak your mind and don't play girly games.

true, and believe me monday I plan to speak my mind..

[Tracy]

true, and believe me monday I plan to speak my mind..A day late and a dollar short.

[Reaper]

A day late and a dollar short.

lol thats something my mom would say..she's there now and there's nothing I can really do about it. So I'm wishing her well, I'm not going to be an ass when she gets home...just explain things and see what happens..

[Tracy]

lol thats something my mom would say..she's there now and there's nothing I can really do about it. So I'm wishing her well, I'm not going to be an ass when she gets home...just explain things and see what happens..

Well that sounds nice. Just tell her you are a silly goose and really didn't want her to go, but didn't want to sound like a gayfer and you really were mad, but mostly at yourself since you were to shy to tell her you were disappointed..but you are ok now and just wanted her to know that it DID bother you and she can make it up to you with butt secks :)


WAY TO COMMUNICATE :D

[Reaper]

Well that sounds nice. Just tell her you are a silly goose and really didn't want her to go, but didn't want to sound like a gayfer and you really were mad, but mostly at yourself since you were to shy to tell her you were disappointed..but you are ok now and just wanted her to know that it DID bother you and she can make it up to you with butt secks :)


WAY TO COMMUNICATE :D


LOL! she already knows I'm dissapointed I told her that on the phone, I just told her I wasn't mad...

yay for buttsecks:idb:, fake tits :boobies:and communication:blah:

[Sammich]

shoulda gave her a peace of your mind...i always do...to my wife not urs :D

[Tracy]

If I'm mad, I say that ****.....and LOUD might I add.

[Crazy Asian]

tracy goes MOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[Reaper]

shoulda gave her a peace of your mind...i always do...to my wife not urs :D

lol you fckin crack me up:lmfao:

[Sammich]

lol but real talk..she may be pissed at the time..but she wont pull that stunt next time..guaranteed..everytime i raise hell, adam, and eve...she wont pull that card again..

[Reaper]

If I'm mad, I say that ****.....and LOUD might I add.

See I'm relatively quiet...the ONLY time I yell are at sports event(thrashers, braves, falcons, UGA games:D) and when I'm in a dimension of pissed of that happens once a decade lol It's a rare occurance to get me to that point, I'm just the type to grin and bare it

[Sammich]

i said the same..until i got into a real SERIOUS relationship where i cared..then i voiced myself

[Reaper]

lol but real talk..she may be pissed at the time..but she wont pull that stunt next time..guaranteed..everytime i raise hell, adam, and eve...she wont pull that card again..

yeah but thats the thing, im so mild-tempered that I rarely raise hell...I just can't get to that point, even when I am mad.

[Reaper]

i said the same..until i got into a real SERIOUS relationship where i cared..then i voiced myself

see were already on that road to being serious again...so I'm sure I'll voice myself more, but I could never yell/cuss at her or anything like that..just not me I guess lol

[Sammich]

i dont curse..but i do raise my voice when she tries to raise hers then i put her in her place about trying to curse at or cursing when we are talking/arguing lol..a string will be hit..believe me and it will pull out the anger...until then..wait to get engaged until you hit that breaking point..believe me..it maybe a suprise to you

[Tracy]

See I'm relatively quiet...the ONLY time I yell are at sports event(thrashers, braves, falcons, UGA games:D) and when I'm in a dimension of pissed of that happens once a decade lol It's a rare occurance to get me to that point, I'm just the type to grin and bare itDan doesn't yell either, but he lets me know when he isn't happy with tone of voice.

[Reaper]

Dan doesn't yell either, but he lets me know when he isn't happy with tone of voice.

exactly, when we talked she knew immidiately i wasn't thrilled...

[Reaper]

i dont curse..but i do raise my voice when she tries to raise hers then i put her in her place about trying to curse at or cursing when we are talking/arguing lol..a string will be hit..believe me and it will pull out the anger...until then..wait to get engaged until you hit that breaking point..believe me..it maybe a suprise to you

yeah I'm sure lol

I heard somewhere that when girls get engaged they are that much more attractive to there fiance's...is that true? i know its random but it just popped in my head and I wanna say Jenn(girl im dating) said that but not sure..

[Sammich]

yeah I'm sure lol

I heard somewhere that when girls get engaged they are that much more attractive to there fiance's...is that true? i know its random but it just popped in my head and I wanna say Jenn(girl im dating) said that but not sure..

i duno about that..my girl is so laid back when it comes to expressing herself its crazy. i mean..2-3months before the wedding i saw the bridezilla...but i duno..maybe this will help
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f73/integra_hot/FirstRemote.jpg


exactly, when we talked she knew immidiately i wasn't thrilled...

no offense..but if she did..then she wouldnt have said 'great, bye.' she woulda recognized that and called back or stayed on the phone for that matter

[Reaper]

i duno about that..my girl is so laid back when it comes to expressing herself its crazy. i mean..2-3months before the wedding i saw the bridezilla...but i duno..maybe this will help



no offense..but if she did..then she wouldnt have said 'great, bye.' she woulda recognized that and called back or stayed on the phone for that matter

None taken..and your right, which is really why I'm pissed...

[Sammich]

u talked to her since?? text? phone call?

[Reaper]

u talked to her since?? text? phone call?

text and it wasn't about that....it was about me taking care of her 3 horses,4 dogs, and 2 cats.....yeah I got jewed this weekend

[Sammich]

ill let them b*tches fend for themselves...text that bamma back and release it

[Sammich]

naw dont do that...TRY to wait til she comes back and tell her u didnt appreciate that not one bit..how long til she comes back?

[Reaper]

naw dont do that...TRY to wait til she comes back and tell her u didnt appreciate that not one bit..how long til she comes back?

sunday night...ill see her monday..

[Sammich]

long weekend..i dont know if i could hold it in that long..but release..like u were holdin back in sects lol

[Reaper]

just got off the phone w/her.....she called to check on the damn cat....she JUST woke up from partying and was like "whats wrong" I just said, "I'll talk about it with you when you get home"

I really don't like fighting over the phone

[Kevykev]

i didn't read what you typed but it caused to to compose 2 paragraphs so i will go with.

YES!

[Sammich]

just got off the phone w/her.....she called to check on the damn cat....she JUST woke up from partying and was like "whats wrong" I just said, "I'll talk about it with you when you get home"

I really don't like fighting over the phone

she called to check on the cat? good lord dude u are WAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY better off then me..she woulda caught hell

[Reaper]

she called to check on the cat? good lord dude u are WAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY better off then me..she woulda caught hell

what do you mean? she knows I'm pissed...she asked what was wrong like 5 times...I basically said, don't worry about it, I'll just ttyl about it.

that was the end of that...But yay for working out of the house, I'm already drinkin:crazy:

[ZeDFuNk]

i think she's gonna go **** some other dude while she's down there. 100% for sure. she will probably call you when she gets back and **** you. (if you guys still do that). In any case, you should be mad she blew you off, and not talk to her ever again ( i would do that.) But if you're a ***** then you can keep in contact, tell her that's ****ed up, and she owes you one.

[Echonova]

i think she's gonna go **** some other dude while she's down there. 100% for sure. she will probably call you when she gets back and **** you. (if you guys still do that). In any case, you should be mad she blew you off, and not talk to her ever again ( i would do that.) But if you're a ***** then you can keep in contact, tell her that's ****ed up, and she owes you one.http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z231/kansas_dude_photos/Truth.jpg

[Reaper]

i think she's gonna go **** some other dude while she's down there. 100% for sure. she will probably call you when she gets back and **** you. (if you guys still do that). In any case, you should be mad she blew you off, and not talk to her ever again ( i would do that.) But if you're a ***** then you can keep in contact, tell her that's ****ed up, and she owes you one.

I've known this chic for 5 years, she wouldn't do that...even if she did I know her well enough that she'd tell me and then I'd tell her to **** off...and I'm damn close to just telling her that anyways..

[ZeDFuNk]

I've known this chic for 5 years, she wouldn't do that...even if she did I know her well enough that she'd tell me and then I'd tell her to **** off...and I'm damn close to just telling her that anyways..

You never know a chick. If she got drunk and partied, more than likely she hooked up with a guy. Especially if she's with her FRIENDS in a whole nother county. Friends are your girls worst drunk enemy, they always convince them to do something they don't want to do, like get some ass.

[Reaper]

You never know a chick. If she got drunk and partied, more than likely she hooked up with a guy. Especially if she's with her FRIENDS in a whole nother county. Friends are your girls worst drunk enemy, they always convince them to do something they don't want to do, like get some ass.

very true, which is why im so close to kicking her to the curb...

[BobbyFresco]

I've known this chic for 5 years, she wouldn't do that...even if she did I know her well enough that she'd tell me and then I'd tell her to **** off...and I'm damn close to just telling her that anyways..


If that's how you really feel, then by all means do it.

Maybe it's just me but I think she could have given a fuk about how you felt and not left last night... Was there anything that she had to do last night that she couldnt have waited until today to do?

People always talk about not sweating the small things but somtimes the smaller details hint to bigger things.


At this point bro, worry about yourself because obviously she's not worried about you or your feelings, or at least it seems that way.

[ZeDFuNk]

very true, which is why im so close to kicking her to the curb...

yup. however you're not dating so you ca'nt really get mad.. but either way, i wouldn't put up with a girl blowing me off after she told me she was comin to hang out. that's curb kickage to the max.

[ZeDFuNk]

If that's how you really feel, then by all means do it.

Maybe it's just me but I think she could have given a fuk about how you felt and not left last night... Was there anything that she had to do last night that she couldnt have waited until today?

People always talk about now sweating the small things but somtimes the smaller details hint to bigger things.


At this point bro, worry about yourself because obviously she's not worried about you or your feelings, or at least it seems that way .


qfmft. repped.

[Reaper]

If that's how you really feel, then by all means do it.

Maybe it's just me but I think she could have given a fuk about how you felt and not left last night... Was there anything that she had to do last night that she couldnt have waited until today to do?

People always talk about not sweating the small things but somtimes the smaller details hint to bigger things.


At this point bro, worry about yourself because obviously she's not worried about you or your feelings, or at least it seems that way.

repped...thanks man

[Reaper]

yup. however you're not dating so you ca'nt really get mad.. but either way, i wouldn't put up with a girl blowing me off after she told me she was comin to hang out. that's curb kickage to the max.

agreed...thanks bro

[ZeDFuNk]

agreed...thanks bro

anytime.

[BobbyFresco]

repped...thanks man


No problem man....
Been there, done that.


The best thing you can do now is not torture yourself over this.

[Reaper]

No problem man....
Been there, done that.


The best thing you can do now is not torture yourself over this.

Im throwing down at my house...Girls from UGA are coming home...and some buddies from around town..first of to taco mac for dinner then heading back home for beer pong:cheers:

[BiH1320]

DONT EVER WORRY ABOUT GIRLS.
THEY COME AND GO.

GET ****FACED AND DONT CALL THAT *****.

[Sammich]

DOOMS DAY

[1000cckiller]

LOL....I've felt that way before as well.......

If it wasn't for pu$$Y, they wouldn't have shyt on us....They still don't have **** on us. We can fack whoever and not feel like whores, if they fack two guys in a lifetime they believe they are sluts.

[Sammich]

They still don't have **** on us. We can fack whoever and not feel like whores, if they fack two guys in a lifetime they believe they are sluts.

thats where you are wrong kemosabe..."if the fack two guys in a lifetime THE WORLD KNOWS they are sluts

[1000cckiller]

thats where you are wrong kemosabe..."if the fack two guys in a lifetime THE WORLD KNOWS they are sluts
yo stay your hating ass out my post. :lmfao: :lmfao: :lmfao:

[Sammich]

lol

*waits for reaper to disclose some info to us on how he manhandled his situation*

[1000cckiller]

lol

*waits for reaper to disclose some info to us on how he manhandled his situation*
He fab fab fab fab all night long with his right, then his left. :lmfao: :crazy:

[Reaper]

He fab fab fab fab all night long with his right, then his left. :lmfao: :crazy:

actually she came home last night and I explained everything to her. She was actually pretty apologetic, but I told her that I work 70hours a week + school and all kinds of other ****..she's just adding to the stress. As upset as she got(she was crying, to the point of annoyance) she said she understood. Were still friends and are gonna hang out from time to time but I'm not the type to party 24/7 and she's still not living in the real world(parents pay for everything) so she is always out throwing down..I can't deal with that stuff. So in the end I still can't get her off my mind but everything gets better with time(I guess), and she hasn't stopped texting me all morning(wants what she can't have).

awesome lol

[Sammich]

bask in the bliss..sometimes i wish i did the same....only thing with my situation..she dont like to understand and reason...SHES ALWAYS 100% RIGHT..other than that...yea..ull find someone else better homie.

[Reaper]

bask in the bliss..sometimes i wish i did the same....only thing with my situation..she dont like to understand and reason...SHES ALWAYS 100% RIGHT..other than that...yea..ull find someone else better homie.

thanks man, its just hard to find a tall blonde w/an incredible body thats into sports/cars/bikes/great sex...etc..there's always a catch

[Sammich]

lol good thing i'm not that into blondes

[Reaper]

lol good thing i'm not that into blondes

she doesn't have to be blonde, I'm just describing her..lol

They don't have to be blonde haha

[Sammich]

lol..find a hot brunette

[Reaper]

lol..find a hot brunette

planning on it...:D

its kinda like getting a new car...ya always wanna upgrade...same thing with woman, ya never downgrade lol

[Sammich]

GAH DAMNIT I REPPED U ON THE WRONG POST..THIS POST HAS REP ALL OVER IT lolololol

[Reaper]

LOL

[1000cckiller]

bask in the bliss..sometimes i wish i did the same....only thing with my situation..she dont like to understand and reason...SHES ALWAYS 100% RIGHT..other than that...yea..ull find someone else better homie.that means she has the balls

[Sammich]

well i crushed her balls AGAIN last night then :lmfao:

[1000cckiller]

well i crushed her balls AGAIN last night then :lmfao:you are such a drama queen

[Sammich]

suck mii diques brian

[1000cckiller]

suck mii diques briansuck your wifes tj hooker

[Sammich]

liq eet...of course..tonight? or tomorrow?

[1000cckiller]

liq eet...of course..tonight? or tomorrow?YOU SUCK HER CUMZ TRUZ A STRAW?

[Ruiner]

Are you in high school? I know that you go to college down there, but this sounds like Jr. High or High School bull****... So she left early? So what? It isn't like she isn't coming back.

Besides, she just wanted to get down there early 'cause there were a FEW guy that she wanted to bang and another day gives her more time to do so.

[1000cckiller]

Are you in high school? I know that you go to college down there, but this sounds like Jr. High or High School bull****... So she left early? So what? It isn't like she isn't coming back.

Besides, she just wanted to get down there early 'cause there were a FEW guy that she wanted to bang and another day gives her more time to do so.damn Ruiner so harsh, but so true.

[Reaper]

Are you in high school? I know that you go to college down there, but this sounds like Jr. High or High School bull****... So she left early? So what? It isn't like she isn't coming back.

Besides, she just wanted to get down there early 'cause there were a FEW guy that she wanted to bang and another day gives her more time to do so.

It was the fact that I got ditched w/original plans...it was BS..and I don't go there anymore..but yeah I get what ur saying.

[Ruiner]

damn Ruiner so harsh, but so true.

I'm serious, though. Okay, so she left a DAY earlier? So what? You didn't get to have your relaxing night with her when YOU wanted to? Okay, wow...

You can still have more in the future. It isn't the end of the world. Ask ANYONE on here who is in their 30s and/or married. There are A LOT bigger things to get upset about in a relationship...A LOT. If this is stressing him out so much, he is going to have a heart attack when he gets married. :lmfao:

With that said, I stand by my statement that she wants to **** some guys down there. Sorority girls can be sneaky like that... :)

[Ruiner]

It was the fact that I got ditched w/original plans...it was BS..and I don't go there anymore..but yeah I get what ur saying.

Look, relationships take work. Somethint like this is VERY small in the grand scheme of things. It wasn't like she was breaking up with. She was only leaving a day earlier. Nothing more. Fine, you had small plans....not huge plans where you made reservations or anything. It was small in comparison.

You can't get overworked with little stuff like this 'cause when the real hard stuff hits you in a relationship, you will just crumble.

[Reaper]

Look, relationships take work. Somethint like this is VERY small in the grand scheme of things. It wasn't like she was breaking up with. She was only leaving a day earlier. Nothing more. Fine, you had small plans....not huge plans where you made reservations or anything. It was small in comparison.

You can't get overworked with little stuff like this 'cause when the real hard stuff hits you in a relationship, you will just crumble.

I agree, but this is something that's repetative, ontop of the fact that nothings appreciated...she's used to getting everything she wants without having to put fourth any effort...just got tired of it, and as small as it may have been it was something in a sense pushed me over the edge

[1000cckiller]

I'm serious, though. Okay, so she left a DAY earlier? So what? You didn't get to have your relaxing night with her when YOU wanted to? Okay, wow...

You can still have more in the future. It isn't the end of the world. Ask ANYONE on here who is in their 30s and/or married. There are A LOT bigger things to get upset about in a relationship...A LOT. If this is stressing him out so much, he is going to have a heart attack when he gets married. :lmfao:

With that said, I stand by my statement that she wants to **** some guys down there. Sorority girls can be sneaky like that... :)The whole statement is true, he has to have fun right now. If he let's something that small stress him out, he deserves it.

[Sammich]

I agree, but this is something that's repetative, ontop of the fact that nothings appreciated...she's used to getting everything she wants without having to put fourth any effort...just got tired of it, and as small as it may have been it was something in a sense pushed me over the edge

basically you are with a spoiled girl...drop her..she sounds like a kind that will/can cheat quick

[Reaper]

basically you are with a spoiled girl...drop her..she sounds like a kind that will/can cheat quick

Ehh I know she won't just because her dad cheated on her mom and it really ****ed w/her head...But before that happened I wouldn't have put it past her. She's a great girl, but she's too into the whole college life bull****...Partying isn't the most important thing to me, to her it is..its put in front of everything else. So until she grows up we won't date, when she does, I'm game for whatever if I haven't found anyone new...which im sure I will lol

[Ruiner]

Ehh I know she won't just because her dad cheated on her mom and it really ****ed w/her head...But before that happened I wouldn't have put it past her. She's a great girl, but she's too into the whole college life bull****...Partying isn't the most important thing to me, to her it is..its put in front of everything else. So until she grows up we won't date, when she does, I'm game for whatever if I haven't found anyone new...which im sure I will lol

Trust me, she WILL do some crazy things since her father cheated on her mom. Are you kidding me? That won't "mess" with her head and cause her not to cheat. It will have the opposite effect. I can see her whoring out right now...

[Sammich]

^words outa my mouth unfortunately...usually the ones with a f'd up family eff up the most

[Sledlude]

talk about clingy.... so she left a night early, no biggie- im sure there will be plenty of other chances to kick it together and make dinner. like someone else said, you might have to do the same thing one day.
take the opportunity to go hang with friends... seriously i wouldnt be pissed- but if my BF got mad at me for something like that i would be annoyed.