Guys, how do you approach a girl?

[Maniac1]

I'll go first... When it comes to trying to get a number or whatever. I usually act some what nice at first then start acting like an asshole but in a funny but not so nice way. Some girls like this others don't. I wish I knew what all girls look for but it's like me trying to read in spanish, hopeless.

So how do some of you approach females?

And this isn't a bash girls for being dumb thread. Some are but alot aren't. I have two sisters so I know that for a fact, also I kinda know what some like and don't. I know about periods and know how to make them feel better while on it. Thats why alot of girls liked me back in middle/high school. :) Lets get started!

[autumnk5]

isn't this cute????

tip for guys:

overly sweet----- FAKER! he just wants to get in your pants.
too much of an ass---- B . itch! why are you talking to me?

try go for a middle ground. i like mine a bit more of an *******.

haha... i'm not even a guy.

[Maniac1]

isn't this cute????

tip for guys:

overly sweet----- FAKER! he just wants to get in your pants.
too much of an ass---- B . itch! why are you talking to me?

try go for a middle ground. i like mine a bit more of an *******.

haha... i'm not even a guy.Did you see "girls are more than welcome to post" anywhere in my post? Lol no, so beat it girl... but seriously I already know about the middle trick, and that good guys finish last. Over the years I have noticed that the majority of the girls go for the assholes because we keep yall entertained and angry at the same time.

[hydroshutter]

I tell them I have a rather large walk-in closet. You know it's worked for me before, Alex.

[khan351]

slip em the date rape dr.... wait, nevermind...
*leaves

[Maniac1]

I tell them I have a rather large walk-in closet. You know it's worked for me before, Alex.LOL! Best approach ever!

[Maniac1]

slip em the date rape dr.... wait, nevermind...
*leavesLolol. That'll work on some occasions?

[khan351]

Lolol. That'll work on some occasions?

haha jk bro...

[Maniac1]

:cough: Anyone else?

[cactusEG]

slip em the date rape dr.... wait, nevermind...
*leaves

damn roffie...

[aaronfelipe]

Act shy, but funny. Be yourself and stay HONEST.

[.93lude]

honesty is best, that way you wont have to remember what you said

[Vteckidd]

Just talk to them, dont act to interested. Depends what age they are too.

Older women dont want to bull****, so they dont want to play games.

Young girls, most of them are just out to get laid, they arent looking for a relationship.

My current GF is 21 and im 26 (almost 27). I basically just started talking to her (met her through an old friend) , asked her what she does, what shes studying in school, what she wants to be, etc. Ask about family, ambitions, etc. She ended up being REALLY mature so i gpt lucky.

Basically you want to keep them talking about THEMSELVES, not about you. Act interested but not too much, and if they like you, its easy.

If they arent in to you, move on to the next one.

Ive had 20+ GFs so ive learned alot. Ive crashed and burned a few times, but its life. ive had 5 SERIOUS relationships. I get bored too easy though, after 6 months, i start being selfish and dont give a shi.t about the other person LOL. ive been better about it lately.

main thing i learned is make myself happy, cause at the end of the day if you arent happy with YOU , theres no way a relationship or dating life is going to work. That may sound selfish, but its true, same goes for the other person, they have to be happy with themselves too.

M<y current GF i couldnt ask for more, i think shes it for me

[Jaimecbr900]

Considering all your condescending and chauvinistic posts about ladies in general..... I thought you knew everything about everything, including and especially "women". Why would you need to ask anything? Need tips? Loosing your magic touch? :rolleyes:

[Vteckidd]

Considering all your condescending and chauvinistic posts about ladies in general..... I thought you knew everything about everything, including and especially "women". Why would you need to ask anything? Need tips? Loosing your magic touch? :rolleyes:
:lmfao: :cheers:

[Maniac1]

Considering all your condescending and chauvinistic posts about ladies in general..... I thought you knew everything about everything, including and especially "women". Why would you need to ask anything? Need tips? Loosing your magic touch? :rolleyes:I never said I knew everything about them. I do on the other hand know the diffrence between an ugly and cute looking girl. And I posted the way I approached them, I was asking others how they did it. Trust me I need no help. ;)

[osiriskidd]

if you're in it for sex. be a ****. young bitches love that **** son!

if you wanna get serious though, just be yourself. not too open not too shy.

[Jaimecbr900]

I never said I knew everything about them. I do on the other hand know the diffrence between an ugly and cute looking girl. And I posted the way I approached them, I was asking others how they did it. Trust me I need no help. ;)

Doesn't sound like it by this thread.

[Maniac1]

Doesn't sound like it by this thread.We both have different ways of looking at things... Why are you acting like it's a suprise? :rolleyes:

[amberghini]

I enjoy a guy who's creative and up for the challenge. I'm not easily impressed. :D

[3.5altman]

if you're in it for sex. be a ****. young bitches love that **** son!

if you wanna get serious though, just be yourself. not too open not too shy.


well put my friend!


I just approach a girl as if im trying to be her friend, gotta make sure she aint crazy first! then I go from there.

just gotta be yourself man, thats the key.

[Maniac1]

FYI: Im not asking for advice LOL so people could stop posting like I am.

[blackshine007]

I just tell them that they are many years from now (if the kids don't do it or the loads of ice cream and twinkie do) that they are just gonna be some lard infested fat couch potato so they might as well take my number while they look good enough to do so and I'm giving them the opportunity to. That gets me quite a few numbers :yes:

[3.5altman]

i always wanted to make a thread like this

[Jaimecbr900]

FYI: Im not asking for advice LOL so people could stop posting like I am.

Wow, seems like more people think like ME than they do YOU......hmmmmmm???? Eat crow much? :rolleyes:

[Maniac1]

Wow, seems like more people think like ME than they do YOU......hmmmmmm???? Eat crow much? :rolleyes:Blah blah I was just putting it out there... :goodjob:

[Spektrewing386]

You could do it the Middle Eastern way. Just go to her father's house and pay him $2000 so you can marry his daughter.

Better yet, swap her for 15 gallons of insecticide.

[khan351]

You could do it the Middle Eastern way. Just go to her father's house and pay him $2000 so you can marry his daughter.

Better yet, swap her for 15 gallons of insecticide.

:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:

[khan351]

"ever seen the back seat of a subaru before??" ... "want to?"
hmmmm

[Maniac1]

"ever seen the back seat of a subaru before??" ... "want to?"
hmmmmLOL I have used that one before and it worked! The slut just one day vanished!! But I can put money that she still wants to see it! :lmao:

[MK3Virus]

You look nice with that red dress......."singing" LADY IN REDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

[Maniac1]

I enjoy a guy who's creative and up for the challenge. I'm not easily impressed. :DHow did I miss this post? Lolol. So creative huh, interesting... I too like girls who aren't easy to get, it makes it less interesting and boring once you reach the goal.

[chinitoxamor]

isn't this cute????

tip for guys:

overly sweet----- FAKER! he just wants to get in your pants.
too much of an ass---- B . itch! why are you talking to me?

try go for a middle ground. i like mine a bit more of an *******.

haha... i'm not even a guy.


:thinking: i dont know about you.. im sweet but it aint like im tryna get into a girl's pants.. i got my values where i want to take a relationship slow because rushing into one might ruin alot of things.. plus if im being overly sweet it means i want her attention too.. you cant just look at one point of view.. but look at both sides.. not all guys are assholes.. or guys who try to get in your pants.. honestly u gotta get to know the partner before jumpin into a relationship.. love has to be built.. not found outta nowhere.. well thats enough talk for me :rolleyes: im pretty happy being single.. even thou there someone there :D

[chinitoxamor]

I'll go first... When it comes to trying to get a number or whatever. I usually act some what nice at first then start acting like an asshole but in a funny but not so nice way. Some girls like this others don't. I wish I knew what all girls look for but it's like me trying to read in spanish, hopeless.

So how do some of you approach females?

And this isn't a bash girls for being dumb thread. Some are but alot aren't. I have two sisters so I know that for a fact, also I kinda know what some like and don't. I know about periods and know how to make them feel better while on it. Thats why alot of girls liked me back in middle/high school. :) Lets get started!


conversate.. be a gentleman.. ask her what her interests are.. and what numbers to dial lol :lmfao:



sounds like BIGGIEEEEEE

[Maniac1]

conversate.. be a gentleman.. ask her what her interests are.. and what numbers to dial lol :lmfao:



sounds like BIGGIEEEEEEDude, did you read post #22? Lol

[Crazy Asian]

exactly how you do it maniac. Be nice and **** and what not but then be a **** in the midst of it. hahah works sometimes but the younger once Ive noticed they just want to use you. I hate dealing with 18-19 year olds. Im done with that ****.

[Maniac1]

exactly how you do it maniac. Be nice and **** and what not but then be a **** in the midst of it. hahah works sometimes but the younger once Ive noticed they just want to use you. I hate dealing with 18-19 year olds. Im done with that ****.What I've noticed is that the majority of the younger ones just want to have a good time. Not necessarily use you. Well, im not sure about you. But I have never been used lol. Plus, now a days these little girls just want to fuck and go shopping. Which is fine for anyone in my age range. :p

[Crazy Asian]

Ugh Cali girls. Date those girls. There the worst. Youll see. I havent dated any 18-19 year olds here but dude the girls over there are horrendous.

[Maniac1]

Ugh Cali girls. Date those girls. There the worst. Youll see. I havent dated any 18-19 year olds here but dude the girls over there are horrendous.Hahahahah dude I believe you! Tricks with attitudes that not are only hardcore(compare to girls here) but smart when it comes to getting what they want.

[chinitoxamor]

Dude, did you read post #22? Lol


not really bro lol.. i just figure i should speak.. :lmfao:


anyways.. just be you man :cheers:

[Crazy Asian]

Hahahahah dude I believe you! Tricks with attitudes that not are only hardcore(compare to girls here) but smart when it comes to getting what they want.

**** theyll use you to get what they want and dump your arse. Or just cheat on you. Ive had bad exp with them except like 3.

[3.5altman]

exactly how you do it maniac. Be nice and **** and what not but then be a **** in the midst of it. hahah works sometimes but the younger once Ive noticed they just want to use you. I hate dealing with 18-19 year olds. Im done with that ****.


WORD!!! Im onto the older chicks bro!

[Wurm]

i just walkup and give them the mushroom seal of approval

[RBS]

i go up to them and say the good old fashion " hey " lol

[Deke]

I'm not into the whole playing games thing anymore. I've met entirely too many girls that are pretty but turn out to just suck in the personality department. I just act like myself now. If they don't like it, oh well.

[WhiteAccord]

its always best to be yourself....:goodjob:

[Kevykev]

be like : "YOOOO...Lemme Hit that"

[MistaCee]

I'm not into the whole playing games thing anymore. I've met entirely too many girls that are pretty but turn out to just suck in the personality department. I just act like myself now. If they don't like it, oh well.

x2 its hard to find a girl with a personality and hold a good conversation now a days

[TheProfiteer]

I like to flash the green backs.
No games, no flirting, nada.

2grand, 4 girls, an 8-ball of sugar, bottle of patron, two of your best boys, 76th floor of the westin kings suite.


BAAAAAAAALLLIN!

[HeLLo iM iZzY]

I'll go first... When it comes to trying to get a number or whatever. I usually act some what nice at first then start acting like an asshole but in a funny but not so nice way. Fukin right. That **** always fukin works, hahah.

+reps to using the same approach.

[autumnk5]

be like : "YOOOO...Lemme Hit that"


haha doesn't work.

my friend preston has been using that line on me for two years now.



and i believe like a million others have too. it might work on sluts, but not on real girls.

[TheProfiteer]

haha doesn't work.

my friend preston has been using that line on me for two years now.



and i believe like a million others have too. it might work on sluts, but not on real girls.

but sluts are real girls too. :yes:

in fact, just right under every good wholesome girl is a dirty little slut that likes to :idb: :idb: :idb: :idb: :idb: :idb: all damn day long.

[Maniac1]

haha doesn't work.

my friend preston has been using that line on me for two years now.



and i believe like a million others have too. it might work on sluts, but not on real girls.Im pretty sure he was being sarcastic. Lol every guy knows that approach doesn't work.

[autumnk5]

i've seen it work on some sluts.

[Maniac1]

i've seen it work on some sluts.Lolol. If I have to use protection just to feel somewhat safe, it's not worth it.

[Frög]

im usually drunk.. and idk.. but i end up hooking up with them, so its all good.. and im usually nice, i will be a little bit of an sarcastic d!ckhead though.. and i defenetly will be an a$$hole to others and call others out.. but thats probably just because im drunk..

[Frög]

think about it.. im french, im a gay gentleman.. w/e the ladies love it!

[wunquikser]

pop a couple bottles and put yo game face on..

[Frög]

naw seriously, i dont waste my time, i just slip a roofie i their drink and then its piece of cake after that.. if you all havent tried it, its awesome.. :idb:

lol

[Blitanicle99]

"Im hot, your hot. We should go out."

Or what Ive done numerous times and it works alot.
Approach random girl. On the way to the approach, make eye contact. "Hi, Im (Insert name here)... *various statements include* I saw you from across the room and decided it would be a good idea to come talk to you. or.. Hi im ... we have never met before, but I would like to change that.

Girls love confidence. In any situation what so ever, the worst answer you can get is a no. The fact that your willing to go talk to some random girl, and just start talking has got me more numbers than anything.
Granted I'm only 19, Ill be 20 in a few months. However, trust me I pull some fine tail.

[Maniac1]

Benson, +1 LOL!

[Blitanicle99]

I do what I can lol

[Maniac1]

TTT. I guess all the "guys" from IA posted up already...

[Clegger]

I'll go first... When it comes to trying to get a number or whatever. I usually act some what nice at first then start acting like an asshole but in a funny but not so nice way. Some girls like this others don't. I wish I knew what all girls look for but it's like me trying to read in spanish, hopeless.

So how do some of you approach females?


And this isn't a bash girls for being dumb thread. Some are but alot aren't. I have two sisters so I know that for a fact, also I kinda know what some like and don't. I know about periods and know how to make them feel better while on it. Thats why alot of girls liked me back in middle/high school. :) Lets get started!

After you point out that A LOT (space between a and lot) of girls are dumb, maybe you should use some correct spelling so you don't look like a complete jackass. :goodjob:

[Maniac1]

After you point out that A LOT (space between a and lot) of girls are dumb, maybe you should use some correct spelling so you don't look like a complete jackass. :goodjob:
[/left]Noted. Thanks, chump! :)

[Frög]

lol

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Clegger again.

[yogi08]

usually if your too nice they loose intrest, so being an ******* or a confident guy does the trick. usually a nice car/truck lures them in pretty easily too. which hasnt really made much since to me about the guys that spend 10,000 on a sound system you didntk now existed in a peice of **** s10 or something.

[Got Milk?]

"Eyy *****, give me ur mother ****ing number, or ama put some holes through ur hoe ass." it always works

[lopros86]

I like to approach from behind, preferably with a sock full of oranges (doesn't bruise) and club them til their unconscious and do the whole surprise sex thing.


on a more serious note - the A-hole card works like a charm. In my experience if your not a dik your placed in the friend zone.

[Reaper]

I like to approach from behind, preferably with a sock full of oranges (doesn't bruise) and club them til their unconscious and do the whole surprise sex thing.


on a more serious note - the A-hole card works like a charm. In my experience if your not a dik your placed in the friend zone.

Not true...WOMAN like confidence not cockyness..Being an ******* will only get you so far.

Make them want to know about you, not the other way around. Listen to what they have to say but don't seem so interested that you almost seem like your faking it. In all honesty, act as if you have met before, don't play that card...just be relaxed, if your coming on to them they automatically are on the defensive..picking up a girl isn't hard, you just gotta be able to relax and not really care whether they like you or not, that shows them that your not a threat, thus creating a window of opportunity.

[The12lber]

So how do some of you approach females?


With my **** out.

[pali_meister]

yes, nice guys do finish last. I figured that out the hard way.

[Maniac1]

With my **** out.Lolol. Straight to the point huh?

[devinwebb907]

I like to flash the green backs.
No games, no flirting, nada.

2grand, 4 girls, an 8-ball of sugar, bottle of patron, two of your best boys, 76th floor of the westin kings suite.


BAAAAAAAALLLIN!

sounds like a fun night, let me be one of your boys next time

[TheProfiteer]

lol man I wish I had that kind of money to throw around. I used to at one point, but Im not doing that no more, sh!t aint worth my freedom.

Expensive w h o r e s FTMFW though!

[man]

yes, nice guys do finish last. I figured that out the hard way.

Only with immature girls.

[GuessWho]

isn't this cute????

tip for guys:

overly sweet----- FAKER! he just wants to get in your pants.
too much of an ass---- B . itch! why are you talking to me?

try go for a middle ground. i like mine a bit more of an *******.

haha... i'm not even a guy.

Never would of guessed ur a girl judging by ur avatar...

[DC5_BAB3]

What I've noticed is that the majority of the younger ones just want to have a good time. Not necessarily use you. Well, im not sure about you. But I have never been used lol. Plus, now a days these little girls just want to fuck and go shopping. Which is fine for anyone in my age range. :p

that's not always true. i'm young and i don't act like that. all of my girls are young and they all been in a committed relationship for some time now. that statement isn't always true.

[Maniac1]

that's not always true. i'm young and i don't act like that. all of my girls are young and they all been in a committed relationship for some time now. that statement isn't always true.I think you didn't read it that well, I said the "majority" of them. Depending on how they grew up, is what makes up their behavior later down the road.

[DC5_BAB3]

no, i know what i read. and again no, not "majority" just because you guys look in the wrong places doesn't mean that "majority" of the young girls only wanna fcuk and shop. well, it's your opinion and this is mine. idk, maybe it's true in some cases but for what i've seen, the only girls i know that act the way that you say they do are just sluts. and why waste you're time of sluts? if their just going to play you like you guys been saying in this thread.

[Maniac1]

if their just going to play you like you guys been saying in this thread.Lol that'll never happen to me.

And im hispanic, seeing as you have chinks in your sig, im gonna take a guess and say you're asian. Lol I used to know alot of freaky asian chicks back in high school, like I said, it all depends on how and where you grow up in.

[WickedIXMR]

I see alot of lies here :lmfao::ninja:

[Maniac1]

I see alot of lies here :lmfao::ninja:You can't see anything with your little asian eyes! LOL open them already!

[DC5_BAB3]

Lol that'll never happen to me.

And im hispanic, seeing as you have chinks in your sig, im gonna take a guess and say you're asian. Lol I used to know alot of freaky asian chicks back in high school, like I said, it all depends on how and where you grow up in.

lol that's good for you then buddy :goodjob:

and yes, i am asian. and just because an asian girl is freaky it doesn't have to do with how she grew up. it just means she like to get freaky, i know one girl that's the exact opposite of how you would expect she would be cause of the way she grew up. :yes:

[Maniac1]

lol that's good for you then buddy :goodjob:

and yes, i am asian. and just because an asian girl is freaky it doesn't have to do with how she grew up. it just means she like to get freaky, i know one girl that's the exact opposite of how you would expect she would be cause of the way she grew up. :yes:Hmmm interesting... All girls that I've known, may act like goody good girls, but deep down they know they want the cock. LOL seriously though, you have a point. BUT Alot of "white" girls now a days are sluts though, stuck up young cunts just wanting a deep drilling.

[DC5_BAB3]

Hmmm interesting... All girls that I've known, may act like goody good girls, but deep down they know they want the cock. LOL seriously though, you have a point. BUT Alot of "white" girls now a days are sluts though, stuck up young cunts just wanting a deep drilling.

Lol, thank you for finally realizing that. and yes i KNOW a lot of "white" girls these days are sluts. that's why, my friend, i'm not "white" i'm asian. and i'm not saying that they're isn't asian sluts around, i know a few. but yea, like you said. a lot of white girls are slutty these days.

[thinkfast®]

ALEX I THOUGHT YOU WERE INTO GUYS, WAHT GIVES

WHY THE CHANGE OF HEART

[Sammich]

"i'm worth a hundred million cuz i own half of KFC"

[autumnk5]

Never would of guessed ur a girl judging by ur avatar...

what avatar?

[ep9716]

I Don't...They Come To Me For Some Damn Reason.

[DJ Raijin]

Girls are like cars:
Pretty
Smart
Good personality

you only get to choose 2.

I have no social skill so I stay perpetually single. I have very little luck or skill or confidence, but whatever.

[mad3nch1na]

Girls are like cars:
Pretty
Smart
Good personality

you only get to choose 2.

I have no social skill so I stay perpetually single. I have very little luck or skill or confidence, but whatever.
repped for honesty

[Maniac1]

repped for honestyAre you saying no one else that posted in here was being honest? Because I don't know if you know this, but not all guys are embarrassed or shy to walk up to a girl. Just because he said he was doesn't mean we all are.

[mad3nch1na]

Are you saying no one else that posted in here was being honest? Because I don't know if you know this, but not all guys are embarrassed or shy to walk up to a girl. Just because he said he was doesn't mean we all are.
No I just said "repped for honesty"

You can think what you want, but don't say that I said any more or any less than what I said. :D

[Reaper]

Are you saying no one else that posted in here was being honest? Because I don't know if you know this, but not all guys are embarrassed or shy to walk up to a girl. Just because he said he was doesn't mean we all are.

lol some of us just have a gift right alex? hahha

[01CDMLUDER]

general rule of thumb........if she smokes, she pokes!!
i like girls that are hard to get and that i know aren't sluts.
if you're a funny keep the jokes pretty simple at 1st and then test her intelligence/sence of humor. but the main thing is just 2 be yourself because u dont wont her to fall for someone you're not!

[Farrow2005]

Read...

"the Game" by Neil Strauss.

[DJ Raijin]

Read...

"the Game" by Neil Strauss.

I'm a big fan of Neil Strauss's work. David DeAngelo and Ross Jeffries are other good ones to check into as well (though I believe Ross Jeffries is more about Hypnotism and Linguistics). It's all very interesting stuff.

I am familiar with all of their works and even though I know how to apply what they teach, I, personally, choose not to. Why? It's like cheating lol. Playing upon the mechanics of female logic (or lack thereof) to turn their own expectations in your favor is a very underhanded concept if you ask me. It's degrading and I wouldn't appreciate it if someone used that sort of influence on me.

It's like stealing a car and bragging about your new ride to all your friends. Ill gotten gains are still ill gotten.

[EJdm]

this is how i would approach a female or get a number check it out at 3:50...lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZqOTw90hYlI

[Ran]

Guys, how do you approach a girl?From behind, with a choloform rag.

Seriously tho, I just act like myself and don't pretend to be something I'm not. I'm not a "baller" or a "playa" or any stupid crap like that.

There is no "trick" to it if you're looking for a real relationship. Don't act interested in every aspect of their life if you don't really want to know. If you like to talk about them, then great. If you want to talk about yourself, then do. Don't fake things to try and make a connection. Most people who do so end up in a relationship that they'd rather not be in and that's never fun. Be yourself and if they don't like it, then they're probably not the girl for you.

Now if you're just like every other douche out there looking for a quick lay, other rules may apply.

[wantboost]

^^^truth

[Dirty Octopus™]

Me: Excuse me. what's your name?
Her: <insert name>
Me: Hello <name> you's one cute b¡tch you know that? are you on the market?
Her: Why thank you! actually i am. you're cute too ;)
Me: yeah i know. i figured we'd be better off looking cute together. :D so can i get your number so that we could rendevous at a later date?
Her: SH¡t YEAH!
Me: thanks babe!

~move on to next chick~
~repeat steps 1-7~

if its a foreign hoe its always good to approach them in their native tongue. they likes dat kinda sh¡t :yes:

They'll ask if you speaka whatever they speak and you can say
"no just a little"
but they never give a damn! sh¡ts fantastic!!! :goodjob:
just as long as you catch em' off guard an stuff.

My prime subjects are

Ethiopians
Hispans
Whites
Cute as$ Bosnianas
Blacks
Big Booty Russians.
and an occasional cute Jap or Korean

:goodjob:

[Bruce Leroy]

I just go to the club and pull out my rent money.

That seems to get me the kinds of girls that i'm looking for at the moment. :D