View Full Version : Misc open relationship- wtf is it and why?
james
01-20-2008, 04:22 PM
ok so theres this girl. shes incredibly attractive. i just met her about 2 weeks ago in my class. got her number on the first day. woot. she is flirty, and funny. we exchange countless texts. she finds me on facebook. her thing says "single" for the first day. then it goes to "in an open relationship". WTF does that mean? seriously? why the **** do they have to tease you saying that its OPEN, why cant they just say "in a relationship" so that I dont have to sit here guessing if theres a possible chance or not????
so does she have a boyfriend? well she sent me some text about why she was in kennessaw, and it was regarding this "guy she is dating". so does she have a boyfriend or not?
so ****ing confusing. if you have any input, please share.
thanks
Blitanicle99
01-20-2008, 04:24 PM
No. Your fine dude. Dating is only like occasionally seeing someone and playing the field. You can still hit it.
mocha latte cupcake
01-20-2008, 07:03 PM
open relationship in my views and experience is. she has a BF but she lets other people tap it too, but she is still his basically.
ironchef
01-20-2008, 07:11 PM
Why don't you just ask her?
she's a freak and it's all good unless you plan or are prone to catching feelings....
keevo54
01-20-2008, 07:51 PM
open relationship in my views and experience is. she has a BF but she lets other people tap it too, but she is still his basically.
yep basically that or she really likes the guy but he gats around when he is not local. You can :idb: hit it but dont get attached bc shell probably end up with the other guy
Nittanys1
01-20-2008, 08:00 PM
unless you are prone to catching feelings....
lol how you say it makes it seem like a cold...lol +1 for that!
.93lude
01-20-2008, 08:47 PM
why not just ask her, its just a question, whats the worst thatll happen? youll get the answer you dont wana hear and be saved from makin a fool outta urself?
Thighs
01-20-2008, 09:25 PM
who cares about her significant other??? its mind over matter dude.
if she dont mind, he dont matter. fuk the bf and nail the hoe.
chinitoxamor
01-20-2008, 09:31 PM
cant turn a ho into a housewife :D
AlanŽ
01-20-2008, 10:23 PM
I know people in "open relationships" and basically they are people that are dating someone but are free to **** whoever they want so go hit it.
Oh THIS THREAD IS WORTHLESS WITHOUT PICS!!!!!!!!
chinitoxamor
01-20-2008, 10:40 PM
i forgot what movie it came off.. but the guy said.. dude think of me when youre having sex with her puahahahahahahahahahahahaaaa... jk man.. anyways its an open relationship meaning.. shes dating around.. looking for something that interest her.. someone who can please her.. most likely a girl has that phase in her life where she doesnt know what she wants.. so she wants to try new things.. where she gets to date or just let some guy hit it only because she wants to be pleased... not because of emotions.. its about the pleasure when shes confused in her own lil world.. but yeh.. i would say "HIT IT MAN"! but dont put your feelings out to her.. just talk to her.. if she digs u then she digs you and shes gonna want more of you.. if she doesnt.. then she moves to another guy who can please her. well thats what i gotta say
knuckles
01-20-2008, 10:43 PM
it means she has a boyfriend but can still screw around with any guy she wants. and if she is hot like you say she is you better not wait much longer and try to tap it as soon as you can lol
JDMJAYDC2
01-22-2008, 08:21 PM
post her pics and number lol naw bro id stay away if i were you hitting it will only cause you to catch feelings for sure
autumnk5
01-22-2008, 09:00 PM
i'm in an open relationship.
like i'm seeing one particular guy, but if i see another hot guy, i can go with him. but when i'm with my guy, we act like a complete couple. but when we go our seperate ways, i can always see another guy. and he can always see another girl.
our rule is we have to tell each other if there is another person.
it's kinda like talking (you know the thing you do before you go out with someone) but it's more official.
james
01-22-2008, 09:04 PM
i'm in an open relationship.
like i'm seeing one particular guy, but if i see another hot guy, i can go with him. but when i'm with my guy, we act like a complete couple. but when we go our seperate ways, i can always see another guy. and he can always see another girl.
our rule is we have to tell each other if there is another person.
it's kinda like talking (you know the thing you do before you go out with someone) but it's more official.
i dont get it. if i was the guy that this girl was seeing, i wouldnt want other guys to have the opportunity.
shes throwing mixed signals. i dont want to ****ing look like a douchebag, so i guess ill just do what i always do, and do nothing at all.
chinitoxamor
01-22-2008, 09:20 PM
mix signal is bad hahaha.. see now i know why im single =P jk hahaha.. its cuz i choose to be man.. just talk to whoever you want.. no strings attach but still.. you can have fun.. get it while u can man
autumnk5
01-22-2008, 09:39 PM
it means goooooo for it.
she can always dump that other guy. this is if you want to date her.
if i find someone better, i can always stop things with my other guy.
lilmanx01
01-23-2008, 05:22 PM
jst pass it this way ill find out for you i go to KSU...
if she don't have a boyfriend ill pass it back when im done :D
lilmanx01
01-23-2008, 05:24 PM
who cares about her significant other??? its mind over matter dude.
if she dont mind, he dont matter. fuk the bf and nail the hoe.
wow reppss!! lol i love it.
lilmanx01
01-23-2008, 05:27 PM
i'm in an open relationship.
like i'm seeing one particular guy, but if i see another hot guy, i can go with him. but when i'm with my guy, we act like a complete couple. but when we go our seperate ways, i can always see another guy. and he can always see another girl.
our rule is we have to tell each other if there is another person.
it's kinda like talking (you know the thing you do before you go out with someone) but it's more official.
hmmm so basically whats yo number :yes:
aim facebook whatever girl and don't worry ill let you tell him too
bigdare23
01-23-2008, 05:31 PM
shut up and bang that hoe already LOL!
JDMJAYDC2
01-23-2008, 05:41 PM
^x2 sounds like you getting feelings for her and you aint even tap yet i say pass before you pull a omarion on her ass lol icebox FTL lmao
Lucky.
01-23-2008, 06:06 PM
:ttiwwp: ...
redrumracer
01-23-2008, 07:32 PM
hit it
HachiDori
01-23-2008, 10:14 PM
If you want a relatioship Avoid "open relationships" or if you are jealous... and **** dating...quit beating around the bush.
Finding something good now days is hard, every girl has been hit like 10 times before your do now. lol
autumnk5
01-23-2008, 10:21 PM
i resent that.
NOT every girl has been hit 10 times... some like *92.8%* but not all.
i'm part of the 7.2%!!!!!
Kelly
01-24-2008, 09:23 AM
Do you really wanna risk the drama?
I would just talk to her about it...
james
01-24-2008, 11:41 AM
Do you really wanna risk the drama?
I would just talk to her about it...
i like this advice.
Master Shake
01-24-2008, 08:36 PM
post her pics and number lol naw bro id stay away if i were you hitting it will only cause you to catch feelings for sureFeelings?....HA! i'd be more worried of catching something else other than feelings.
if she is in an open relationship and talking to you....you don't know about the other people she's talking to, at the same time railing your brains out.
you just might end up getting something ajax can't wash off.:no:
Master Shake
01-24-2008, 08:39 PM
i resent that.
NOT every girl has been hit 10 times... some like *92.8%* but not all.
i'm part of the 7.2%!!!!!:lmfao:
i'd say that too.
autumnk5
01-30-2008, 10:39 PM
hey dude, go for it.
you know why? because guys dont give a ****!
and if you are in an open relationship, it's pretty easy to walk away.
that's unless she has feelings for the guy she's in the open relationship
and the guy just wants sex. then she's pretty much screwed.
but these things don't last, because people usually get feelings.
--- sorry, i'm upset with the guy i'm in the open relationship with. and i'm gonna look for a new guy now i guess.
01CDMLUDER
02-03-2008, 03:11 AM
^pm pics? wow idk about this whole open relationship ****!!
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