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autumnk5
12-03-2007, 12:43 AM
could there be a medical reason for a girl not able to have an orgasm?
i mean could it be possible you can't have an orgasm unless its a certain spot.
i've discussed it with my friends. and i had one tell me she couldn't orgasm unless her boyfriend was straight beating it up, but only when she's sober. she couldn't orgasm when she's drunk.
and i've actually never have had an orgasm. and i'm not looking for attention.
Every girl is different, beating it up is generally the sure shot though. Foreplay does wonders too.
wantboost
12-03-2007, 12:50 AM
:no:
ROFL i know this is "serious" but there are not that many girls on this site period. ask somewhere else.
To answer the question, from what i have heard some girls just don't have them (or have not found a way yet), this is not due to a medical condition.
Benefit
12-03-2007, 12:52 AM
have you tried a horse yet
smokeyj
12-03-2007, 12:54 AM
Maybe the right people not hit in
TallGuy
12-03-2007, 12:56 AM
:thinking:
wantboost
12-03-2007, 01:03 AM
the internet's version of drunk dialing?
TallGuy
12-03-2007, 01:08 AM
^^^^^^ lol
Alan®
12-03-2007, 01:09 AM
maybe your just ****ing the wrong guys or wrong species for that matter
.blank cd
12-03-2007, 01:09 AM
Every girl has a graffenburg's spot. Just have to know where to find it and how to exploit it. Ive talked to some girls that thought the same and I changed their mind
RandomGuy
12-03-2007, 01:10 AM
maybe your just ****ing the wrong guys or wrong species for that matter
Her pu$$y hangs like sleeve of wizard
:goodjob:
.blank cd
12-03-2007, 01:11 AM
^^^Repped, LMAO
redrumracer
12-03-2007, 01:16 AM
wow this is sooooo the wrong place for this kind of question even if your serious, but hell there might be that would be something to take up with a dr. personally ive never had that complaint(nor would i normally care if i did cuz im not in it for a relationship normally, just me).
oh and your going to get a whole bunch of attn.
Stormhammer
12-03-2007, 02:05 AM
On a serious note: about 85% of women never experience what is considered an orgasm by definition standard. Then you have two different types of orgasm - a G-spot orgasm and a clitoral orgasm - best way to get one is through clitoral, so have your guy spend some quality time munching and licking down there ( hold his head down ) but don't be surprised if still nothing comes about it - and like its been said, every female is different
Blitanicle99
12-03-2007, 02:08 AM
Where the **** is QD when we need him. Or hell Maniac would work too.
autumnk5
12-03-2007, 02:13 AM
i wanted to know. thanks to those who were being serious.
and to those who weren't, i've already heard all those lines before.
Mayniac
12-03-2007, 02:15 AM
could there be a medical reason for a girl not able to have an orgasm?
i mean could it be possible you can't have an orgasm unless its a certain spot.
i've discussed it with my friends. and i had one tell me she couldn't orgasm unless her boyfriend was straight beating it up, but only when she's sober. she couldn't orgasm when she's drunk.
and i've actually never have had an orgasm. and i'm not looking for attention.What your asking it simple.
You haven't had an orgasm yet, bacause of acouple of reasons.
1. you don't know what an orgasm is, so you have no way in knowing when or how to achieve one. try using your finger or fingers as a tool for your experiment. Analyze exactly what you're doing, write down notes. Try it for acouple mins first, than hours, ect. See what works best for you, ex. speed, manner, blah blah.
2. maybe you like dirty talking, but you don't know it. try it next time you have sex. talk dirty to your partner.
3. you've been ****ing dudes with small d!cks.
redrumracer
12-03-2007, 02:16 AM
i wanted to know. thanks to those who were being serious.
and to those who weren't, i've already heard all those lines before.
all of em except for the ooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO line :D
sry had to
autumnk5
12-03-2007, 02:19 AM
i've only ****ed two guys. and one did have a small ****. but the other was really big.
Mayniac
12-03-2007, 02:22 AM
i've only ****ed two guys. and one did have a small ****. but the other was really big.Lol. I haven't chated with you in awhile huh. In myspace I mean, glad to hear your life is going so well. LOL! But seriously, once you find THAT guy would can hit it right, you will find out. You're still experimenting, I mean you are only 16 years old. LMAO! To young, for me im afraid.
redrumracer
12-03-2007, 02:23 AM
Lol. I haven't chated with you in awhile huh. In myspace I mean, glad to hear your life is going so well. LOL! But seriously, once you find THAT guy would can hit it right, you will find out. You're still experimenting, I mean you are only 16 years old. LMAO! To young, for me im afraid.
:eek: :eek:
autumnk5
12-03-2007, 02:25 AM
i'm not 16. looks like you haven't been to my myspace in AWHILE.
you're mean though.
Blitanicle99
12-03-2007, 02:26 AM
Last girl I had sex with I put in the hospital because I tore her *****. You probably should find someone similiar to me if you want to have an orgasm.
redrumracer
12-03-2007, 02:26 AM
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Mayniac
12-03-2007, 02:27 AM
i'm not 16. looks like you haven't been to my myspace in AWHILE.
you're mean though.Lolol. So you're 17 now, WOW! :D And im not mean! :tongue1:
autumnk5
12-03-2007, 02:30 AM
you are a horrible despicable person. check my birthdate.
Mayniac
12-03-2007, 02:31 AM
you are a horrible despicable person. check my birthdate.Thanks!
And I just sent you a comment!
autumnk5
12-03-2007, 02:33 AM
i've already responded.
Z32redondo
12-03-2007, 03:04 AM
i've already responded.
You must not have talked to cheyenne lately...I told you I would hook you up. lol
autumnk5
12-03-2007, 05:57 AM
in my life, chris i haven't just heard from her, i've seen.
but you know the many complications i would go through.
Grimm Reeper
12-03-2007, 06:05 AM
There's always a way..... :thinking:
AlliRae
12-03-2007, 06:05 AM
you should read about some shower masturbation...
hydroshutter
12-03-2007, 07:13 AM
Age doesn't have anything to do with it. A gyno will be the person to talk to about this. Your cervix may be slightly in a different spot than normal.
I think emotions can come into play there as well. I'm no expert by any means but whoever said every woman is different got it right. My ex could have 1 or 2 almost every time but that didnt start happening until a couple of years into the relationship when things got really serious.
If anything check out a womens forum that can share personal experience and real advice, whoreslounge on IA is no place to expect a viable answer to a question like that. If you can't find any I'll send you some links. Good luck.
osiriskidd
12-03-2007, 11:11 PM
i hear all this crap about girls not having oragasms and its like "wow"
my chick has like 40+ in an hour xD
GSRteg®
12-03-2007, 11:23 PM
What your asking it simple.
You haven't had an orgasm yet, bacause of acouple of reasons.
1. you don't know what an orgasm is, so you have no way in knowing when or how to achieve one. try using your finger or fingers as a tool for your experiment. Analyze exactly what you're doing, write down notes. Try it for acouple mins first, than hours, ect. See what works best for you, ex. speed, manner, blah blah.
2. maybe you like dirty talking, but you don't know it. try it next time you have sex. talk dirty to your partner.
3. you've been ****ing dudes with small d!cks.
Not really the womans most pleasure spot is 2 inches in... BTW the vagina is only 4 inches deep. Well if you so deper thats uterus and some girl like that **** and some dont.
isa2o3
12-03-2007, 11:24 PM
What your asking it simple.
You haven't had an orgasm yet, bacause of acouple of reasons.
1. you don't know what an orgasm is, so you have no way in knowing when or how to achieve one. try using your finger or fingers as a tool for your experiment. Analyze exactly what you're doing, write down notes. Try it for acouple mins first, than hours, ect. See what works best for you, ex. speed, manner, blah blah.
2. maybe you like dirty talking, but you don't know it. try it next time you have sex. talk dirty to your partner.
3. you've been ****ing dudes with small d!cks.
lolololololmao
RandomGuy
12-03-2007, 11:55 PM
lolololololmao
blahahah 0 psi
Leadfoot_mf
12-04-2007, 10:42 AM
this thread has win.
autumnk5
12-04-2007, 03:37 PM
this thread has win.
what???
but i don't i guess some of the answers make sense now.
Nemesis
12-04-2007, 03:41 PM
you're 16? Hey , whats up, how ya doin?
Bballjamal
12-04-2007, 05:09 PM
Lol everyone in here is going to jail lmfao
:leaves:
TheProfiteer
12-04-2007, 05:15 PM
could there be a medical reason for a girl not able to have an orgasm?
i mean could it be possible you can't have an orgasm unless its a certain spot.
i've discussed it with my friends. and i had one tell me she couldn't orgasm unless her boyfriend was straight beating it up, but only when she's sober. she couldn't orgasm when she's drunk.
and i've actually never have had an orgasm. and i'm not looking for attention.
ok, keep this in mind next time your getting pounded.
DO NOT Ignor the clit, play with it, push on it, slap it, rub it, touch it, talk dirty to it, ect ect.
I am hosting a female orgasm workshop seminar this weekend. RSVP because seats are filling up quick.
Sport1.3
12-04-2007, 05:16 PM
I don't know what exactly causes it, but I know you're not alone. My roommates gf can't orgasm and she's had sex with like 5 or so guys so I don't think it's the guys, it has to be a medical thing. Talk to your doctor or go on WebMD, they might have info about it on there
Kdanzig
12-04-2007, 05:19 PM
I don't know what exactly causes it, but I know you're not alone. My roommates gf can't orgasm and she's had sex with like 5 or so guys so I don't think it's the guys, it has to be a medical thing. Talk to your doctor or go on WebMD, they might have info about it on there
ROFL, I just posted that under my roommates name...... guess everyone knows who my roommate is now, lulz
coolcat
12-04-2007, 09:07 PM
and i've actually never have had an orgasm
LOL, SUCKS FOR YOU.
Z32redondo
12-05-2007, 01:36 AM
LOL, SUCKS FOR YOU.
forreals... usually 5 minutes into it i got them with constant legs shaking for the rest of the night.
awww autumn is broke'ted
Sport1.3
12-05-2007, 10:43 AM
ROFL, I just posted that under my roommates name...... guess everyone knows who my roommate is now, lulz
:lmfao: i think i already posted the same information in this thread Whoreface...<3
Jaimecbr900
12-05-2007, 11:17 AM
Yet another thread where terrible advice is being dispensed like Pez candy.
As Tony stated, this is really not the spot to ask that kind of question if you want a serious answer. As you can see, some of the simpletons around here think that in order to get you where you want to go you have to be pounded like a jackhammer. In reality, there are women who don't have the big O as easy as others. It may be physical, psychological, or a combo of both. If you are as young as they say you are, your first priority should be to consult your DR to be sure there aren't any physical issues with your specifically. If that is cleared, then it's just a matter of finding out more about your own needs to achieve your goal. I know of some women who don't orgasm very often, yet they are still very happy with their sex life. I know some that do every time, and they too are happy with their sex life.
If you are that young, you really need to focus on more important things IMO. Not trying to preach here, but the fact of the matter is that once your "experience" level goes up, hopefully in accordance to your age, the likelihood of it finally happening and you being able to reproduce it goes up exponentially. Remember, most young guys THINK they know what the hell they're doing, when in reality they're just as clueless as a blonde in a Mensa convention. It's just the truth.
Good luck.
Nemesis
12-05-2007, 12:15 PM
Im willing to give a serious answer and a personal consultation. No ID required. I can buy you alchohol and cigs too.
lilmanx01
12-05-2007, 03:18 PM
^LOL! :lmfao:
She's 16 yo! Let her atleast turn 17.49 ;)
Tasuki_Civic
12-05-2007, 06:37 PM
could there be a medical reason for a girl not able to have an orgasm?
i mean could it be possible you can't have an orgasm unless its a certain spot.
i've discussed it with my friends. and i had one tell me she couldn't orgasm unless her boyfriend was straight beating it up, but only when she's sober. she couldn't orgasm when she's drunk.
and i've actually never have had an orgasm. and i'm not looking for attention.
wow im pretty surprised at the people putting that much info on IA these days.
thats all a mental thing unless you hit the right spot for a female. and if you personally cant get a female to cum ...the answer is it might be you.
OneSlow5pt0
12-05-2007, 06:40 PM
Im willing to give a serious answer and a personal consultation. No ID required. I can buy you alchohol and cigs too.:lmfao::lmfao::lmfao:dude some random girl tryed to me to buy her cigs today,lol
Lizbiz101
12-05-2007, 06:55 PM
This is NOT the site to be serious on (try enotalone)......but IMO.....There are ALOT of women that don't have an orgasm though intercousre alone. Talk to your man about it. You should try different things on yourself and see what you like/see what you like him to do. Your only 17 you've got some time to figure it out. Nothing is wrong with you of course, just see what you like.
lilmanx01
12-05-2007, 08:51 PM
^yeah I def agree..just chill it'll come
AND IF all else fails......PM Nemesis for more info!!
autumnk5
12-06-2007, 09:16 PM
alright... i'm officially inviting everyone to go to my myspace. i'm not 16 years old. i'll have it on my profile as soon as i get done with this.
thanks for those who are being serious.
PS. CHRIS i'm not broken. some people are as easy to please as others if you know what i mean!
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