How far is to far?

[Bajjani]

for a relationship to work

I'm just curious cause I was talking to my friend and she thinks an hour away is to far for a relationship to work where I don't think an hour is that far at all

How do you all feel about it

[Hulud]

i feel this would be much better in the lifestyle forum

[Killer]

or if the word to was used properly...

it's TOO far... not to.


and my girl and i are an hour and a half apart.. it takes it toll on the relationship.. but it still works.

[Bajjani]

i really dont care bout my spelling and grammar right now but thanks for the heads up

and move the thread if need be

[man]

well, I'm about to move 10hrs away. So I'll let you know how that works, lol.

[Jecht]

I'd say that 2-3 hours away is about the limit. Sure there are some couples that last at that distance and further away, but for most that would break the relationship

[Bajjani]

I tried stayin with my girlfriend outta high school when i came up to KY which it was about 6 1/2 hours and it lasted a few months then it was just to much

now im talkin to a girl who we both have our own place, we both are goin to school just shes in lexington and im in louisville, an hour away, but her parents live here in louisville right near me..

but its nothing yet so we'll see how it goes
thats how the topic came up w/me n my friend

[Hulud]

now im talkin to a girl who we both have our own place, we both are goin to school just shes in lexington and im in louisville, an hour away, but her parents live here in louisville right near me..

that sucks, they gonna keep tabs on you! lol

[The Ren]

Scott and I were 900 miles apart.. we made it through almost 2 years until he moved here with me...

[Bajjani]

that sucks, they gonna keep tabs on you! lol

lol shit i dont got nethin to hide

nah i dont kno her parents we jus started hangin out and talkin over the last couple weeks

shes gorgeous tho

[jmmx258]

or if the word to was used properly...

it's TOO far... not to.


and my girl and i are an hour and a half apart.. it takes it toll on the relationship.. but it still works.

Actually..its "to" .. lol

"Too" means like Also. LIke he did that too. He did that also.

:tongue1::tongue1: lol

[HEATON]

In that question, I think:

It doesn't matter how far apart you are, it matters how often you would see each other. If you want it to work out, then I'm sure you both would be more then willing to travel anywhere just to see each other. Sadly to the human mind, if you never get to see the other person you like, we start to think the "what if" concept.. What if I was to find someone else, What if it never works out, etc.. I say if you speak as little as everyother day and see each other atleast every other week, then if willing it would work perfectly. We all just need that lil recharge every once in a while to keep the flame lit.

[Nismo]

No boobs FTL

[HEATON]

Actually..its "to" .. lol

"Too" means like Also. LIke he did that too. He did that also.

:tongue1::tongue1: lol

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You should put your tongue back in, before you stick it out TOO FAR.

[Hulud]

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You should put your tongue back in, before you stick it out TOO FAR.
haha

damn beat me to it

[Infinite]

i just have one thing to say....
:hitit:

but seriously... when i first started dating my now ex gf we were in high school together.... i went off to college while she was a senior. we had already been dating for 3 years by the time this happened so our relationship was pretty strong. i was about 90minutes away from her so it made it difficult but it still worked... sort of. ultimately me being so far away ultimately killed our realtionship. she ended up cheating on me and now she is amrrying the douche bag and they havent even been together a year...

i can see how trying to start and have a relationship grow from the beginning living so far away could present a challenge

[koukis14]

I lived in Pa and was with my girl who lived in Atlanta for almost two years before I moved.

[Infinite]

i also had a realtionship with a girl in oregon... she was supposed to be moving here but it turns out she was a psychopath and made up some shit like "i was carjacked and raped while trying to get there" or "i collapsed from something and had to goto the hosptial" etrc etc...

just make sure she isnt a crazy bitch

[Bajjani]

she has big enough boobs for my taste ive been with girls with DD doesn't make it any better for me

and its nothing yet we're jus hanging out but yea i know each person is diff but some people won't even try anything if they aren't right there with each other 24/7

she wants to try to come to louisville more to see friends/fam and i have no prob drivin there to stay the night if it comes down to it

[jmmx258]

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–adverb 1.in addition; also; furthermore; moreover: young, clever, and rich too. 2.to an excessive extent or degree; beyond what is desirable, fitting, or right: too sick to travel.



You should put your tongue back in, before you stick it out TOO FAR.

You wanna know whats the sad part about this? When I learned that bout "too" It was seriously from a teacher. When I started taking College Prep classes, they never mentioned the difference because we were supposed to have learned this already. Funny thing is, that teacher got fired my sophmore year.

[Infinite]

just give it a try.. the worse thing that can happen is that it doesnt work out...

[Bajjani]

just give it a try.. the worse thing that can happen is that it doesnt work out...

amen to that
but we both jus got outta relationships that went shitty at about the same time
so
we're jus hanging out for now gettin to kno each other better before it is anything
right now we're just "friends hanging out"

[jmmx258]

amen to that
but we both jus got outta relationships that went shitty at about the same time
so
we're jus hanging out for now gettin to kno each other better before it is anything
right now we're just "friends hanging out"

Honestly, I wouldn't even worry about it. If its going to happen if your both into it, it'll happen. If not well then that out come is obvious. I say just ride it out as it goes, dont push the issue to much. My girl I had been with had it all set up to where I was about to move to Oklahoma with her and work at her uncles factory for 25 bucks an hour to start. When before she was supposed to come down here at the end of her sr. year this summer. Some shit went on in PA where she had to go to Oklahoma.

I been dealing with the long distance shitt for a couple months now. It just went sour and i'm on my damned own haha!!

Just dont push it, let it ride.

[Infinite]

yea basically. i would say dont rush into things if you've both been hurt. just take things slow and eventually things will happen as they are supposed to.
P.S. she's perfect

[jmmx258]

yea basically. i would say dont rush into things if you've both been hurt. just take things slow and eventually things will happen as they are supposed to.
P.S. she's perfect

LMFAO! How are you gonan tell him his girls perfect?? hahahhaha

[Bajjani]

LMFAO! How are you gonan tell him his girls perfect?? hahahhaha

ill take it as a compliment not as him tryin to hit on her, id rather him tell me that than tell her

[Infinite]

well if he fucks things up than you never know :D lol JK

its just an honest statement... not like im humping her leg. lol

[jmmx258]

Oh i kno..i just found hit damned hilarious lol.

[Infinite]

im good at what i do

[Hektik]

I don’t think the actual distance in hours or miles is what matters... more of how often you see each other, or how strong the bond in the relationship is..... Plenty of people in the military are many miles away from there gf/bf or wives/husbands for months at a time some work out some don’t. It’s the way in which the relationship is cherished by both sides that matters. If u have a person that truly wants to be with you no matter what then there will be no boundaries. But if u are with a person who is not completely devoted into the relationship, then, small stuff such as time apart, will start to take its toll on the relationship... I'm not saying that it is easy by any means but sometimes more than others being in a REAL relationship is a lot of work....
Either way g/l....

[Bajjani]

I know and i agree completely but some people say 1 hour is to far some people say distance doesnt matter

just more personal preference really
1 hr is nothin to me

[00CelicaGT]

Man to be honest dont worry wat other people say just let things take there course. Me and my girl have been together for 2 years since the 19 of this month and 1 of those years has been wit distance. She is back in miami and im here in GA but we make it work, we also try to see each other every other month. We have had bad times and a lot of good times but thats wit any relationship weather it's long distance or not. People always ask me "do u think she is cheating or would cheat on u"? To be honest i dont think she would but i always keep it in the back of mind, but i dont let it consume my mind either. I say just to let things take there course and dont try to force anything.

[sirkus]

I couldn't keep a 1hr away relationship going. I have better things to do other than sitting on the phone 24/7, and driving an hour+ to see her. You just start to realize that it really isn't worth the time... I'd have to say that 30 mins would be my max.

That... and I put around 2k miles on my car in a month. That shit gets old real quick.

[Bajjani]

I couldn't keep a 1hr away relationship going. I have better things to do other than sitting on the phone 24/7, and driving an hour+ to see her. You just start to realize that it really isn't worth the time... I'd have to say that 30 mins would be my max.

ah
see
some people can some people cant

i mean i drive 7 hours home and back in one weekend
i drove from louisville to key west in one day

driving isnt a big deal to me and we're both busy enough during the week it wudnt be a big deal

not bashing you at all i dont think an hour is long :) but u agree w/my friend

[The Yousef]

timmy you're my hero and i hate you

[sirkus]

ah
see
some people can some people cant

i mean i drive 7 hours home and back in one weekend
i drove from louisville to key west in one day

driving isnt a big deal to me and we're both busy enough during the week it wudnt be a big deal

not bashing you at all i dont think an hour is long :) but u agree w/my friend
Yeah... one hour isnt shit when you're driving 7 hours a lot. Kind of a short trip. I really don't drive far for anything though.. I'm 1/2 mile from work. I put 7k miles on my car in a year.. and I took it to daytona and panama and myrtle beach. So I did a couple trips :tongue1:

But she's a pretty girl, so I'd probably make an exception. :yes:

[HEATON]

haha

damn beat me to it

Great minds think alike.. Aight well maybe not great, but ya get my point..

[BLk92DA]

My girl stays in Marietta and i stay in Norcross. We've been together for almost 3 years now. It takes me 45 minutes to get there driving the limit. During traffic hours, the longest time it took me from here to there was 2 1/2 hours! But we're still going good and strong. What sucks is stuck in traffic in 90+ degree weather with no A/C....sweating your balls off....then add ther other car's exhaust and egine heat....then make it i had a black car....then add that i sometimes constipate while stuck in bumper to bumper traffic all the way in the left lane.....ugh!